The whole point of destroying the gender binary is actually destroying the gender binary. Not replacing “female” with “afab” and “male” with “amab” and pretending like that isn’t the exact same thing.
Why, exactly, do you need to know if a nonbinary person is “afab” or “amab”? Do you not realize that’s what you are asking when you demand to know if they are “tme” or “tma”? That you’re invalidating their identity by essentially asking “are you a girl enby or a boy enby?”
Why are you using “afab” to describe menstruation, larger breasts, vaginas, and uteruses and “amab” to describe penises, testes, and Adam’s apples? The actual meaning of those terms is just “what letter did the doctors mark on this piece of paper”. Do you not know that trans people on HRT will have traits that don’t match their agab? That some intersex people assigned to one gender or another *never* had these traits? That none of these traits are universal even among cis men and cis women?
Have you thought these opinions through?
