Oriana

ღ Divine Caregiver flags for for caregivers who have a special interest, feel a connection to, find comfort in, or identify with divine beings in any shape or form (please reblog if you save)!

Lullaby Caregiver Flag

For caregivers who love to use lullabies to soothe their little ones, or who enjoy lullabies themselves to ease their stress. This is also for caregivers who identity with/as lullabies, feel connected to, or simply enjoy lullabies.

The blues represent sleepiness and calming yourself at sleep time when lullabies are most often sung, and the pinks represent the sweetness and gentleness often found in lullabies.

Already made? That's okay, please consider this another flag for the term. :)

Does this flag resemble another? It's a complete coincidence, if it is something worrying - please let us know.

Older caregivers aren't creeps.

Older babysitters aren't creeps.

Older flips aren't creeps.

Older pets aren't creeps.

Older regressors aren't creeps.

Older dreamers aren't creeps.

🪽 Boundaries—

Respect my Blocked on sight list.

Use your manners when requesting and, please, do not send me requests when they are closed.

— Check Requests for more info.

I have college alongside other blogs and interests, I will answer asks as I’m able to.

Please do not send vents without the proper trigger warnings on my asks, I'm open to hearing vents and my DM’s are open for a more in-depth discussion.

As someone that studies psychology and has read many scientific articles in regards of consciousness and systemhood, I do not believe you can be a system without trauma, other factors can influence how your systemhood is shaped and experienced (after all the external factors are different for everyone) but only trauma can truly cause it. If that bothers you feel free to block me, I won’t be bringing syscourse into my blogs but I mainly interact with anti-endo folks, again, feel free to block me. (Also, I don’t fake claim people, thats just rude, systems that are unaware of their trauma exist and should be respected)

✅ Ok—

Interacting (Liking, commenting, sending asks) and follow as a minor.

— Do know, I’m an adult (21 yro), I will not interact with you if you have any boundaries regarding adults not interacting. Will block if needed.

Calling me Femme or neutral nicknames, some of my favorites are: Mama, Mom, Miss and Mx. (Miss Papa or other gnc styles of nicknames also allowed.)

Asking me about my day or info I share in this blog.

Venting with the proper trigger warnings or asking to vent over at DMs.

Asking me for some positivity, reassurance, advice or overall questions regarding agere, otherkin or other topics.

Asking me for coloring sheets or worksheets or suggestions on activities.

Sending me (or tagging me in) drawings, photos of your stuffies/toys/agere gear etc.

Talking about disability, mental health, recovery, medication etc. and asking for reassurance on those.

Asking for Alt text or any other accommodation.

🚫 Not ok—

DMing me as a minor younger than 16 (almost 16/turning 16 this year are ok but ask first). Exceptions for urgent/important information and venting.

Sharing deeply personal info.

Vent on my asks or in my DM’s without proper trigger warnings.

Sharing photos of your face or with personal information (such as full name), even if you are comfortable sharing them on tumblr.

This is an ask game anyone can reblog or answer to, however there are plenty of things that are listed geared towards caregivers! If you are someone who headcanons fictional characters as regressors you can take a spin on what a caregiver would look like for them!

Remember this is 100% SFW age regression

🍼What age does your kiddo regress to?

🐱Are they a flip or also caregive in anyway?

🛝What are their favorite activities?

🎠Do they have playmates, if so, do you babysit them?

🌒What is their night time routine?

⚾️Are they a padded regressor/why?

✨️What kind of agere gear do they enjoy?

🎈How often are you there to look after them, what does this look like?

🎵What are some of your favorite things to do with/for them?

🥨What is their favorite snack?

☕️What is their favorite drink?

🧃Do they prefer sippy cups or bottles?

🐍What is their favorite stuffed animal?

🎒Do you have a ready bag in case they regress in public?

🕯What are some of the telltale signs your baby is slipping?

⛺️What is a "dream" caregiver day look like?

🚒Do you enjoy caregiving when they are not around? (Laundry, other tasks relating to agere gear/ clean up)

🎁Do you like recieving pictures/drawings/ gifts from your regressor?

🎭Do they like scary movies when small?

🐶What kind of cartoons do they enjoy most?

🐬What does caregiving look like to you?

🦋(Niche) Do you like to co-sleep or sleep in the same room?

📚What kind of story books do they enjoy?

📗Are there any school related activities you do with them?

Listening to your body and working out at the pace and skill level you need is always going to be better for your health and progress than pushing through what your body isn’t ready for

We need time to build up to faster speeds, higher weights, and more advanced exercises, and we need time to recover for our muscles go get stronger and more resilient