I hate to make a post like this but earlier this evening we came into the custody of the nicest little kitten in need of a home we can’t supply (We already have 5 cats and my dad is deadset on not taking in another).

She was given to us by a small herd of children in our neighborhood going door-to-door to find someone willing to take her in after whoever had her before felt they had the right to throw her in a dumpster. My mom and I being suckers have taken her in for the night and if we can’t find a proper home for her we’ll just have to pray that theres a no-kill shelter somewhere around here with space for her.

She’s super friendly and downright loving (shes sleeping in my lap even as I type this) and has a little collar with a mangled little heart charm on it.

On this day in 1963, the song “You Don’t Own Me” by Lesley Gore was first released. Although at the height of her success, Lesley was just another successful pop artist making music about boys, she would later come out as a lesbian in 2005.

An 18 year old Lesley Gore belts it out in 1963 (x).

Lesley Sue Goldstein was born on May 2, 1946 into a Jewish family living in Brooklyn, New York. Her father was the owner of an apparel manufacturing company while her mother was a housewife. Lesley would be raised in the town of Tenafly, New Jersey and attend Dwight School for Girls. She was only a junior in high school when she saw her first major commercial success in the music industry; with the release of her cover of the song Quincy Jones song “It’s My Party” in April of 1963, Lesley Gore became a household name.

“You Don’t Own Me” was just one of many hit singles that Lesley released in 1963, including “Judy’s Turn to Cry” and “She’s a Fool.” However, what set “You Don’t Own Me” apart from the pack was its protofeminist message. Many have cited the song as an anthem for the second wave feminist movement that would begin to take off in the 1970s. Lesley herself once said, “My take on the song was: I’m 17, what a wonderful thing, to stand up on a stage and shake your finger at people and sing you don’t own me.”

Lesley (left) photographed with her partner, Lois Sasson, in 2010 (x).

Although Lesley career as a pop princess was relatively short lived, she would work in the music world as a composer for the rest of her life. She and her brother Michael were even awarded an Academy Award in 1980 for their work on the soundtrack for the film Fame. In 2004, she started her coming out process by becoming the host of In The Life, a documentary television series that focused on the everyday life of LGBT people in America. Lesley officially came out to the public in 2005 during an interview with AfterEllen. 

In the interview, she stated that she had known she was a lesbian ever since she as 20 years old and that although the music industry was and is “totally homophobic,” she “just kind of lived my life naturally and did what I wanted to do.” Tragically, Lesley passed away before her memoir and the Broadway show based on her life could be released. She passed away on February 16, 2015 at 68 due to lung cancer and was survived by her partner of 33 years, Lois Sasson.

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