Standing in the Dead Fucking Center

me: I wish people were more honest about their emotions & when they’re feeling them

“Don’t think you have to be solemn to meditate. To meditate, well, you have to smile a lot.”

I’m here for “intimidating” girls. The “I thought you were mean when I first saw you” girls. The girls with “Resting Bitch™” faces. The girls that scare the men that try to catcall them. The girls that stand in their strong ass opinions. The girls that take no shit and get called a Bitch™ for it.

I stopped being sassy because apparently I was perpetuating negative steryotypes of black women.

“If you can do something about a situation, why worry? And if you can’t do something about a situation, why worry?”

“Completely desist from defending your point of view. When you have no point to defend, you do not allow the birth of an argument. If you do this consistently - if you stop fighting and resisting - you will fully experience the present, which is a gift. Someone once told me, “The past is history, the future is a mystery, and this moment is a gift. That is why this moment is called ‘the present’.””

“You learn to love the parts that used to disgust you. Those you cannot bear to adore, you learn to accept. Hating yourself is exhausting. It is time for you to rest”