Spanking maintenance & comfort

Carinthia was a Christian wife and mother who was getting the most embarrassing spanking of her life in a parking lot while she was visiting a state park with her husband and children. It was far from the most painful, being just a hand spanking. She had been spanked her whole life by her mom, her dad, her grandparents, her three older brothers, and now by her hubby, adding up to over 2,000 spankings. But never had she had her bottom bared and spanked in public where anyone could see her being disciplined on exposed buttocks! Let alone that this was the first time all her kids saw her getting spanked, though the oldest had observed four or five of the spankings she'd gotten from her husband. In spite of the humiliation, she believed it was her husband's duty to discipline her and that that meant he could spank her any time and place. So she stayed in position and after the spanking said, "Thank you for correcting me, sir," to her husband before the family explored the park.

Suzette was a very disobedient wife and her husband was very strict. Now, she had promised in her wedding to vows to obey him, and she knew quite well what she was saying and knew before she vowed to obey him that he understood that as submitting to disciplinary spankings. Suzette just got too in her feelings and distracted, and ended up disobeying in some way pretty much every day even now as a mother of four. So almost every day her pants and panties were down and she was over his knee grimacing and clutching the chair leg as he spanked her bare bottom firm and hard. He hand a big hand and could turn her butt cheeks red quickly with it. It didn't help that the marks from a hand spanking would go down or away in time for the next round of domestic discipline to be just as effective. Suzette adored her husband and really did mean to obey him and be a good Christian wife, but her butt stung from spanks every time she even slightly broke her vow of obedience to her authority. And it was extra embarrassing that their children were well aware that their dad disciplined their mom by spanking her bare buttocks.

Brianna tried her best to be an obedient wife and follow her husband rules and commands to the letter. She usually did pretty well, and felt appreciated as he gave her lots of hugs and praise. But when she disobeyed, which happened every three months or so, the spanking she got was terrible and severe- 400 swats with the spanking rod on her bare bottom! The spankings burned her butt and left her butt cheeks welted and raw for days. Brianna always struggled to hold still for the spanking and sometimes had to have her hands tied down. But she was ultimately the one who had wanted this. She had introduced her husband to Christian Domestic Discipline when they were dating, telling him she wanted to be a proper godly wife who obeyed her husband. An Brianna had told him he would have to spank her hard enough that there would be no question she was being really disciplined beyond any level she would feel desperate for the spanking to stop at. She wanted to be spanked beyond the point where she might feel she was controlling her discipline. And he obliged, not spanking often but spanking hard. Brianna for her part obeyed him when he said "Brianna, bring me the spanking rod!" and "pull your skirt and panties down, and bend over!". It was embarrassing, especially as there was no way her children could be kept from finding out she got spankings but she felt fulfilled and like she was reclaiming what she believed was her God-given role as a woman by submitting to her husband's rules and rod.

Gemma was a city girl and had before marrying her hubby never thought she'd be spanked after the few hand spankings her parents gave her growing up. She would have been totally humiliated if Church friends or anyone else discovered she got disciplinary spankings, it was embarrassing enough that her children had already figured it out and would ask her after the spanking if daddy had spanked her. But she loved her husband, believed in submitting to him, and felt this life was better than being out in the world all alone.

Your husband pulling you onto his lap. One arm wrapping you up while his free hand rubs your butt. His voice in your ear telling you what a brave girl you are. Cuddled and loved. Free of guilt and anexity. Just focused on how much your man loves you.

He would hold you, cuddle you, and tell you how much he loved you. You could let go and just soak in it. You always slept so well Sunday night.

Painful spanking session on Sunday afternoon: housewife gets her weekly maintenance spanking

I know sometimes I need a spanking uncle. I let things build up it can make me sick. But I do love when you cuddle me after a spanking. Tells me I'm still loved.

Claire Grimes

He was right the spanking had improved her mode.

I lay down over his lap, he’s always sitting on the edge of the bed. My pants are always down first. My panties are always on. When I get situated, he immediately pulls my panties up into a wedgie and uses them as a handle to hold me in place. This is not something I experienced before him, but I find it helpful in controlling my movement better. During the spanking, which lasts about 20-25 minutes in length, he discusses the week and how I’ve behaved. We discuss goals and plans. And he reminds me of my place. The intensity gets harder as he nears the end. After it is over, I kneel at his feet, kiss his hands and thank him. We hug, I get lots of booty rubs, and we go about our day. A spanking is like an oil change for a Dom/sub dynamic. Now I’m good for another 1,000 miles. Or 7 days. Whichever comes first. what other ways can we maintain our dynamic? what other ways does he maintain me? I’m going to ask this question to my online lifestyle group today and get back to you.

nu west

For some it seems counter intuitive.  But regularly disciplined wives and girlfriends are extremely faithful.  One explanation is that unfaithfulness in women is often due to feeling neglected or lonely.   It is difficult to feel ignored when your rear is on fire from a long OTK spanking.  Another reason for female unfaithfulness is an unsatisfactory sex life, or that they don’t feel desirable.  For many couples, the scene leading up to a red bottom is highly erotic and thus leads to a more satisfying sex life.