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whatsacrush

Don’t ask how I know, but if you wear green during aro awareness week, it makes your year extra aro

conczerningcontent

This counts, right?

whatsacrush

Oh, 1000%

#those shoes are actually so cuteeee

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pansexual-pied-piper

Hey. Hey, look me in the eyes. It's always okay to be aromantic. No "if"s or "but"s about it. No conditions. No "because aros can still love their friends" (hello, aplphobia and anti-loveless-sentiments), no "because aros can still be in relationships" (partnering aros are not a fucking cudgel to wield against non-partnering aros), no "because they're literally not doing anything" (I'm gonna do your mom and your dad if you don't shut your face), nothing. Being aro is literally fine, period. No matter what we feel or don't feel, no matter what we choose to do or not do, our aromanticism is never a problem to be fixed or mitigated, or a flaw we need to make up for.

Got it?

bibliok1ept

Happy Aromantic Awareness Week!

whatsacrush

Don’t ask how I know, but if you wear green during aro awareness week, it makes your year extra aro

#aro #aro week

foxycats1

"Allys" after saying that the A in LGBTQIA is for ally

(Found on pinterest)

valkyrierose007

Isn't that what its for though? At least, thats what I was taught when I joined the community. I know its interchangeable with the whole spectrum, or at least one of my friends says that.

whatsacrush

No, the A only stands for aspec, agender, abrosexual, and any other queer identity that starts with A. It does not stand for ally. The acronym is meant to represent people in the community, and allies are not in the community. Saying the A stands for ally is actually erasing already overlooked members of the community that these “allies” pretend to support.

#not trying to call you out as a fake ally #just the people who hear aspec people say this and chose to ignore it #they can’t be allies if they don’t listen to queer voices #but thank you for asking and trying to understand that’s literally all we want lol

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vintricles

aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. aro and ace are not the same. ARO. AND. ACE. ARE. NOT. THE. SAME. AROMANTIC ≠ ASEXUAL!!!!!

nonbinarystarlord-deactivated20

whenever i see a post about someone wondering how an asexual and a sexual can be in a healthy relationship there’s always someone being applauded for saying well asexuals can have sex too or just because someone’s asexual doesn’t mean they won’t have sex but i have never, not once, EVER seen someone say well hey, some sexuals don’t have sex. you can have a full relationship without sex. just throwing it out there

applesandbannas747

Everyone in the notes saying polyamory and open relationships are great fixes for this too are missing the point. Ace people can have sex—and, yes, some enjoy sex. Yes, open relationships can be loving and healthy for ace people too. But ultimately you’re saying asexuality needs to be fixed by access to sex somehow. To quote op ‘you can have a full relationship without sex’. Your suggestion to find sex outside of the relationship with an ace partner completely misses that point.

answrs

sorry but you’re not hiding this in the tags:

#it may be surprising to learn this. but allos can choose to be celibate. famously there are entire religious orders where this is a thing #and a catholic nun who stays celibate her whole life can in fact still have a very full and meaningful life with important relationships #it’s not the end of the fucking world #there are people who don’t drive too. there are people who have never seen a mountain. there are people who don’t play video games. #human experience is too wide to be like ohh if you never do This One Thing then you are sufferinggg like chill maybe

sophi-aah

The Winter Olympics are here and in Italy you know what that means (oh figure skater Nico au how I love thee)

heme3nc

not to sound like i hate love. but I'm so glad I'm aromantic because it sounds like torture to not be able to have your own space, sharing a bed, a bathroom, fridge, friends, free time? There ain't no way a diamond ring and kissing is worth giving that up.

#lmaooo this is so real #I’ve said this before and gotten wierd looks but like.#I genuinely don’t understand #ESPECIALLY the bed sharing thing #like I could see myself with a long term roommate possibly #but sharing a bed with someone forever???#actual nightmare fuel

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sapphic-boy

"What if a cishet man identified as a lesbian to gain access to lesbian spaces and prey on women"

What if the world was made of pudding

anistarrose

instead of "aromantics can still date," take a moment to consider phrases like:

aromantics can do whatever they want forever

aromantics have as much choice in whether to date or not date someone as alloromantic people do

aromantics can have whatever relationship with romance confuses you the most personally

and likewise, instead of "asexuals can still have sex," take a moment to consider phrases like:

asexuals can do whatever they want forever

asexuals have as much choice in whether to have sex or not have sex with someone as allosexual people do

asexuals can have whatever relationship with sex confuses you the most personally

sortingmyideas

if youd be actively relieved if a character was confirmed not to be aspec or even a specific flavor of aspec youre an aphobic asshole and you should address that

aroacesafeplaceforall

Aroace Sun Set picture compilation!! (Feel free to add!)

(All images mine)

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aro-culture-is

Aro culture is being EXREMELY frustrated by fictional romance that is written even slightly below average. Especially if it ruins the characters' pre-existing dynamic. Especially if it seems that no one else has a problem with it.

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fearsomeandwretched

Transphobia is so antithetical to genuine feminism it blows my mind there's such a wide overlap like you either believe in autonomy and self determination or you don't

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