A call out post(because I got death threats)
so recently, I received something in my inbox.
death threats. Yeah.
But here’s the thing, this happened after I got out of a very, very, abusive friendship with a girl named hailey.
Why was the friendship so abusive?
Well, let me share with you a long story that expands two years.
I first met Hailey in middle school, to tell you the truth I am not the healthiest person. meaning I have really bad depression due to hereditary reasons, I didn’t have much friends at this age because of that(due to my own preference of being ALONE. it was my choice to be alone. I was happy with the pinch of friends I had) then , I met her, Hailey. I met her during gym, and I met her with @r0s0kunek0(Who is actually one of my best friends now), at first, Hailey seemed so sweet, she seemed like a good friend with a good sense of humor. So I stuck around with her, I comforted her one day when she opened up to me about her past. It seemed like everything would be okay.
Then, little by little, it happened.
She showed her true nature.
it all started with a little hint. a hint that burns meto this day.
At lunch, during the 7th grade, I expressed how I never wanted to lose my virginity. I said “I actually am never having sex, it scares me and I don’t want to lose my virgnity, my choice.” , you know what she told me? “It’s going to happen, whether you want it too or not”, basically implying either I lose it on my own, or I get raped.
Then she continously ignored my ideas and basically called them inferior, made me feel self concious about my body by constantly commenting on my breasts and body type, always over sexualized the things I did, made me feel uncomfortable around my only male friend because she constantly commented on how ‘romantic’ we were, which caused my male friend to leave me. She got mad and yelled if I didn’t text back. Sometimes she’d hit me or r0s0 with her lunch box.(recently she just hit r0s0o on the bus for making her drop her phone by accident)
So this clicked in my mind; What kind of friend would say that?
But oh, it gets worse, much worse.
One day I got sick with a very, very , high fever. It was to the point I couldn’t eat because I’d throw up. all I wanted to do was to sleep. But this was during a school day, I was alseep, because like I said, I was throwing up a LOT. But she texted me while I was asleep, she sent me MANY texts in fact, the one that I remember the most was “you better answer or else” , so I woke up and finally responded, she was pissed, and she remembered I have problems with being abandoned, so she said “she would punish me” and then refused to talk to me, in fact, she didn’t even give me a glance, because I wasn’t the best mentally at this time, it made me begin to cry and beg for forgiveness. She just sat there, watching me cry, before i Ran off to the bathroom and cried in there.
She made me apologize for crying and for “making her ignore me”
it escalates more when she brought in one thing; My eating problems.
I confessed to her that I have problems eating, when I eat, I feel sick and that sometimes I force myself to throw up because of it. Well Hailey LOVES making oc’s(all mary sues) , one day I just didn’t feel like talking about her oc’s, ALL THE TIME, so I finally got angry and said “it’s really not my job to protect your oc’s”(keep in mind I was upset because this was near the time my aunt died of a blood clot, I was at the memorial service when she continued to send pictures of her oc x canon ships DURING the memorial service, so yeah, I was very angry) so she replied with “it’s not my job to care about your eating problems” as if her oc’s were more important than my own problem, so I yelled because of this, I was tired of this, but then she made me apologize once more and never, ever, apologized about this.
then came the lying and the art tracing, She would trace , edit, put filters from photoshop on traced pictures she stole from MANY artists, and claimed them to be hers. (one of them being cookiehana@deviantart and MANY others) and she lied to my face about drawing them. When anyone told her off about it, she flipped, and claimed “it was just her style” and refused to admit she traced and stole art.
I think the thing I remember the most was when she bragged about hurting people, how she considered people toys on her shelf that she would choose to destroy or keep. How she would hurt people and how she could destroy someone. As if indirectly threatening me. She made no bones about it.
I dealt with this abuse for two years. Two. Whole. Years.
Then one day, we finally told her, we told her about how she’s made us feel, about how art theft was bad, and what did she do?
She played victim.
links to what I sent her:
Here, here, and here
I never insulted her, never wished death on her, never, I just told her the facts.
And how did she respond? She tried to guilt trip me first, she tried to make her self seem like the good guy, but then she posts THIS on ifunny
and honestly I don’t care, because yeah, that’s just a pile of drawings me and her drew over two years. And she threw a tantrum over being called out for her abusive and manipulative behavior.
oh but it gets worse
this made me sick, but then, she tagged us on iffunny with the tag ‘kys’ and OUR NAMES
Notice how she used the word “cocknazi”
Hmm where have I heard that before
OH RIGHT
IN DEATH THREATS
AFTER SHE WAS TELLING HER GIRLFRIEND HOW MUCH SHE WANTED ME AND R0S0 DEAD AND WANTED TO KILL US COINCIDENCE? I REALLY DONT THINK SO.
I don’t like to be so petty as to call her out this way, but she refuses to apologize, refuses to even so much as notice how she hurt me, and refuses to take responsibility for her actions. I have to put this out there because yes, she’s still putting stuff about me on ifunny and making people believe me and r0s0 attacked her. Notice how she tagged CandyCthulhu too? Yeah that’s another one of our friends, @candycthulhu, who tried to call her out politely on art theft and why it is bad. But too ifunny “she’s too nice to do that! No way!” Even with our screen shot evidence. for two years i’ve waited just to get freedom from this abuse but no, I get death threats instead. If you see her, don’t get involved, just report her for art theft, and don’t harass her. don’t go down to her level. Don’t wish death upon her. Just report the stolen and traced art and report all the things she posted about wanting us dead. This is a call out post to make sure no one goes through the same stuff I did. Please.
I am posting this as well because they are making ME and r0s0 seem like the ones who attacked her and sent her death threats, but in truth, all we did was speak about how abusive and how her art theft was bad. In fact people on ifunny take her side and continue to say WE are the bad guys. But this is the truth, this is what she REALLY does.
I’m afraid to go to school, because after all, if she brags about wanting to kill us, who is to stop her from hurting us?
This is about something me and my friends have been going through.
This is really exhausting…
