RACK > SSC

this is basically a cornerstone of its submission style: it believes wholeheartedly that if you want to be dominated you have to care about the Domme as a person and look after them. if all you do is take and beg for attention without ever giving back, you burn them out and everyone loses out.

I love scent freaks. steal my used shirt, bury your face in the crook of my neck and breathe deeply when you hug me, wear my clothes when you get off because it feels much better with my scent all over you.

despite "snatched by stranger" being the overwhelmingly predominant scenario for kidnapping stuff it really never stops being crazy hot thinking about a switch flipping somewhere in a trusting dynamic when your friend realizes how much easier things would be for them if they just didn't let you leave this time

yeah sorry for giving you those weird new kinks. do you want me to make it worse

There are people who have kinks involving glasses and there are people who have kinks involving compression stockings, so by the Rule of Three there must be someone out there who gets hard for RSI wrist braces to complete the "aroused by assistive devices popularly associated with nerds" trifecta.

they carpal on my tunnel til i acute burning sensation

Person whose biggest fantasy is getting a handjob from someone who has a special wrist brace specifically for jerking cock because you need a different kind of support to wank someone off than you do for data entry.

You can tell which people in the notes definitely don't have this particular kink because they're the dipsticks who are like "well, wrist braces are basically just gloves, right? There's lots of people with a glove kink."

We need to start sexualizing the janitor's jumpsuit as the butch equivalent of the maid's uniform

That thing where the coveralls are unzipped and the arms are tied around their waist like a belt...

it is straightforwardly reinforcing of rape culture for someone to see a submissive express a boundary or show any actual backbone or agency over what they want, and be completely unable to hear any of them without shutting their ears and slotting them into their idea of what a ““brat”” is. please grow the hell up and stop projecting your dumbass ideas of sex onto people completely uninvolved with your views just because they don’t act like the bottom from omegaverse fic

& i've i think said this before and not just gone on a tirade in my friend's discord dms but imo a large part of the problem is people sublimating desires & fantasies that are very straightforwardly cnc into whatever they assume "bratting" must be so they can maintain a sense of distance from & superiority over those who engage with cnc in earnest. no brat breaking/being broken is not a standard one-size-fits-all interest you can assume from anyone even vaguely kinky, you are interested in roleplaying non-consensual scenarios and you should learn more about this and talk about it honestly and directly with your partners to avoid hurting yourself or others

Basically if you give me really good deep scalp scritches I'll go along with anything else you suggest

being a switch lets me be double annoyed by the culture around bratting because when you dom it's really annoying when people assume bratting as a default thing everyone likes with 0 conversation about it and then get mad when you won't "break them"/cross boundaries that weren't negotiated prior and when you sub it's really annoying to be called a "brat" by people who think that bratting is when a sub has any kind of personality or intrinsic desire

I think, to me, the trope of "hypnotized to be more sensitive" is at its best when it's basically just "how it feels to be touch starved". In turn, this means that when hypnotizing someone to play with sensitivity, playing with that kind of imagery of 'desperate desire for the slightest touch but forbidden by social convention' is a very fun space. Scooches ever so slightly closer to you and touches my fingertips against yours, where you find yourself paralyzed by the warmth of the contact.

co-op games that you play with your tist over discord, so they can train you with commands. is this anything. like oo you want to obey. go get me 3 stacks of oak wood logs

*snap* go get daddy some redstone so he can finish the mob grinder. also youre a good girl

i jest but like. imagine the actual horny hyjinks you can get up to. you can cum today but only if you beat the end dragon. aw you died to a skeleton? thats 2 edges. trancing your sub in the middle of a mining session if you're evil. a pleasure trigger when you find diamonds

Anyone wanna play some co-op games? I can be trusted :3

normalize taking your top's face in your hands when they're visibly trying not to lose themself in your cunt and cooing little just barely condescending questions in a sweet tone while you hold them like "doesn't that feel good?" "you must have been so pent up, was that hard for you?" "is this what you needed?" until they start nodding and shaking and tearing up against your palm and rutting too frantically to catch their own breath so they just have to give you dumb breathy little "uh huh"s for every reply

i love being demisexual with a high sex drive. i will jump your bones like 3 times a day forever but first you must answer my riddles three