Elliot & Esther

Hey there,

Thanks so much for the question Melly. Esther's anal training has been going great, to the point that I can use her ass when I please. She always makes sure she is prepped and plugged for me so that makes things super easy and straightforward.

You're right I think Esther has given you all an update in quite a while and I think it would be useful for you all as she has learned and changed a lot. If there is anything you'd like to hear about specifically make sure you let me know and I'll make sure she writes a good blog post.

Thanks again for your question!

Hi,

Thanks for the question. I can't say it's something I've thought about specifically. But it could be fun to have her in some PVC or latex. If you have suggestions don't hesitate to send them my way. You can all help make her the perfect toy.

I had esther do a big wardrobe purge yesterday.

I told her to get rid of anything that doesn't match the lifestyle she actually lives now. So out went all the baggy and boring clothes. Everything left has to be tight, easy access, and hot enough that people turn their heads when she walks by.

She spent the afternoon basically naked except for her collar, going through everything and trying on different outfits for me to get my approval then throwing away anything I didn't approve of. It was pretty great watching her let go of her old wardrobe piece by piece.

Now her wardrobe is almost empty. which means she's got a lot of shopping to do. Feels good seeing her actively getting rid of the old her.

If anyone has any clothing recommendations for esther please do share, with how little she has in her wardrobe now she needs it 😆

Skip using your property regularly and she'll get complacent, lazy, and no longer ready for you at a moment's notice.

Stop disciplining her and shell slowly push more and more boundaries, thinking she can get away with it.

Fail to start your day properly, by having her waking you with her throat, draining your balls, and serving you breakfast and you're inviting laziness and mediocrity into your home.

It all creeps in slowly. One small slip turns into days, then weeks, then months of “good enough." Before you know it, you're wondering where your obedient, eager woman went.. and it's your own inconsistency that let it happen.

Stay consistent, stay strict, and keep her trained. That's the only way it works long-term.

Hey there,

Thanks for the ask. esther is 64KG as of yesterday morning. I have her focusing hard on the gym five days a week so of course we're not going to see much change on the scales as far is being replaced by muscle slowly, but of course I'm on this for the long game and results don't happen over night.

As for training esther has been doing very well and shows more and more dedication each day, of course if there are any specifics on her training please don't hesitate to reach out.

Hey there thanks for the question,

As far as we're both concerned, she belongs to me. Whether I choose to show her off, use her, humiliate her, etc, etc is up to me. After all, she did want to be owned. She does get wet of the idea of pain as well as being shown off, so I really have chosen the perfect life for her. I hope that answers your question.

l've been thinking lately about how much happier and more at peace women are when they're fully owned.

Once they stop fighting their nature and drop all that feminist noise, they finally relax and start to glow. They obey cheerfully, keep their man happy, stay ready for him, and build their whole day around serving and pleasing him. Thats where real peace and purpose come from.

esther has never been brighter and more at peace than she is now under my complete control. The more I lead and own her, the softer and happier she gets. So Men, lead confidently and without apology. women, let go and submit fully. You'll be so glad you did.

Men, what's one rule that's really improved your girl?

ladies, what's something you resisted at first but now actually love?

Drop your answers below, I'm reading them all. Have a great Monday and an even better week!.

Last Sunday's maintenance with the leather belt.

She bent over nicely and took her spanking like a good girl. Her ass is still showing some nice light bruising a few days later.

I'm pleased with how she handled it, but next time be going harder. These cheeks need to be properly bruised and marked up. This ass belongs to me, and it's going to look the part

I have my sub tell the truth to strangers when asked. That she was a submissive, in love and this is what is required.

Thanks for the question, @muscle-ss454!

esther definitely gets asked about it from time to time. Usually, it's just strangers or close friends /family complimenting her 'cute necklace' and asking where she bought it. She always gives this little knowing smile, if only they knew!

She definitely had some butterflies the first few times we took it out in the wild, but now it’s practically her second skin and she wouldn’t dream of taking it off. I don’t give her a strict script for the general public, I leave it entirely up to her to decide how much of our little secret she wants to spill, depending on the company.

Hope that answers your question!

And as always, feel free to ask us anything you're curious about 🙌

Hey there, thanks for the ask!

Right now our families mostly see the “normal couple” in us. They see a loving, committed, slightly old-fashioned dynamic or traditional gender role dynamic. I’m very clearly the head of the household, she’s soft, feminine, and happily lets me lead. They notice she’s extremely attentive to me, that I make most of the decisions, and that she seems genuinely content in that role. Some have lightly joked that she’s “well-trained” (if only they knew how right they are). But the deeper layers? The total power exchange, the ownership, the 24/7 protocols, the fact that she’s my property in every sense of the word… that stays behind closed doors. Only a very small handful of trusted people in the lifestyle know the full truth. I enjoy the contrast, the sweet, polite “yes dear” version they see in public, versus the collared, plugged, eagerly obedient woman who crawls for me at home. Some secrets are hotter when only we know the real story 😈, but then again it would be equally hot showing everyone what a good girl she is for me.

If there are any other aspects of our life you're curious about, please don't hesitate to ask.

With me having shared how I handle maintenance with esther in my last ask, I thought I'd share her ass after this morning's maintenance spanks. She was a good girl this week so it's not too painful for her. But they still serve as a good reminder of her place.

If anyone is ever curious on other ways I teach esther or would like advice for their own subs/master, as always please feel free to reach out. I'd happily teach men on how they should train their women.

Hey there Kugekivibes,

If you're finding that your slave/pet/property is being disobedient its very important that you reinforce your control/ownership. Earlier on it's definitely something I struggled with while training esther as I was new to the lifestyle.

What you'll want to do is introduce maintenance spankings. These can either be daily or weekly whatever suits your schedule best. A lot of people have a set number of spanks they'll give and that's it for maintenance but, what I like to do to encourage her best behavior is to add or subtract spanks depending on how she performed in all aspects for the week. This way she'll keep her behavior in mind throughout the week otherwise she'll find it hard to sit for the week after.

Now of course I wouldn't limit spanking to just maintenance, any minor infractions that happen at home during the day etc can be corrected then and there with a few swift spanks.

Fixing this disobedience will hopefully have her become more dependent on you as well as making her care much more deeply about pleasing you, whether that's sexually or with other service throughout the day, which can help her betray some of those feminist mindsets/ideas she's having. After that once you improve her obedience it will be a case of implementing specific rituals, etc to help completely kill the feminist mindset.

I hope my experience will help you with your property and if there is anything else you'd like help with, please feel free to reach out.