gender should not be assigned or assumed to anyone, by anyone, from birth to death, without the input of the gendered individual
i'll gladly die on this hill and laugh and play in my pool of blood as i go. there is 0 harm in raising your kids without gender and telling them they can choose one when they feel ready to, but they never have to. cis people can handle a little bit of getting called a neutral-i-don't-know-your-gender "they" until they're ready to come out as cis.
the only parts of society this breaks are cruel structures of control worth breaking.



















