Violet Dexter the Sexpert

Man I miss free the nipple. Its getting warmer and we don’t even have free the nipple anymore

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I’m glad my post got around.. ppl need to see some history

"the education system traumatizes students it deems stupid" and "the education system traumatizes students it deems gifted" are two concepts that can and should coexist.

[Image ID: Tumblr post from che-nya reading: "the education system traumatizes students /End ID]

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some of yall really need to consider that academia is not infallible and highly educated people can still be wrong because they are people that come with biases and brains that sometimes do not make the most logical conclusions when it comes to things. They can also be paid to say stuff and call it credible when it isn't. You *have* to learn how to look at biases and examine sources critically without always jumping to "oh this is peer reviewed so it's definitely true!" because people can and do lie. Check. The. Journal. Look up the author(s). Learn to think critically about how studies are conducted and how they might be skewed. I'm begging you

“what if kids identify with something and it ends up just being a phase-?” good. stop teaching and expecting kids (and adults honestly) to formulate permanent traits and ideas of themselves. everything in life is a phase. that doesn’t make it any less legitimate while you experience it. let people explore themselves and know it’s okay if what you think about yourself changes.

i think censoring subtitles is actually ableism

"theyfab" "theymab" how about I theystab you in the theychest

"In a world where covid is killing and disabling us, masking is an act of love. For yourself, for your community, for our future."

we as a society must get more normal about STDs I'm being so serious

we are in an incredible age of medicine where you can easily get most of them treated, you can get vaccinated against some, and even HIV is no longer a death sentence (and i believe a cure is in the works rn). it is not a big deal. be safe, yes, but also don't be a judgy weirdo to people who do get infected because they weren't "being safe." especially because if you do not perpetually mask in public you have less than zero ground to stand on there.

I bet those memes about HR firing you for smiling at a woman go hard as fuck for men who have not yet had experience with employment though

People saying "yeah they don't fire you for smiling they fire you for sexual assault" but if you're not well paid they don't even do that. Where I work they literally just move someone to another department for sexual assault. But ☝️if you steal a dollar from the cash register, Execution

don't like how normalized it is to call anti-abortion people pro-life. I even do it myself sometimes. let's all get better about that together okay? I know it is like the official name of their movement or whatever but it is a lie they've been allowed to get away with for too long

Not shaving and not wearing make up are literally nonbehaviors. They’re a complete lack of action. But doing nothing is considered masculine because women are not allowed to just be. this goes double for trans women.

reblog this version because transmisogynists don’t know how to fuck off.