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Audism: Discrimination based on hearing ability
This is a gimmick blog for discussing audism! It exists in the same vein as @this-is-saneism and @this-is-ableism as well as other this-is blogs.
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What can be submitted
Any experience with audism can be submitted here!
You can submit here if you:
Are d/Deaf
Are hard of hearing
Have any level of hearing loss or deaf gain
Have auditory processing disorder
Are self diagnosed
Hearing people may submit their own experiences being assumed to fall into one of the above categories but these submissions will be posted at my discretion. Hearing people may not submit another person's experience without their consent. If you are submitting on behalf of a deaf/hard of hearing person or someone with APD please specify that you have their consent or your ask will be deleted.
The queue currently posts 1 time a day.
What will not be posted
Asks attempting to incite or engage in discourse
Anything asking a question already answered in the FAQ (it's below the cut)
Any variation of "I misread audism as autism"
Callout posts
FAQ
1. What flag is in your profile photo?
The deaf flag created by Arnaud Balard
2. What is the difference between lowercase and uppercase d/Deaf?
Lowercase deaf refers to medically having hearing loss or deaf gain. Uppercase Deaf refers to Deafness as a culture.
3. What is deaf gain?
The term "hearing loss" frames deafness as a loss. The term "deaf gain" was coined to describe what is gained by being d/Deaf.
4. Am I deaf or hard of hearing?
I don't know, that's really up to you. There is no line in the sand where someone goes from hard of hearing to deaf. I can't tell you this.
5. I have auditory processing disorder without hearing loss/deaf gain, can I call myself deaf or hard of hearing?
No.
6. What is the best way to learn sign language?
Offline in a class with a Deaf teacher.
7. [Insert sign language question here]
I'm not qualified to answer this, ask someone else.
8. Do you have a DNI?
No, but I'm an antifascist so be prepared to be blocked if you are a fascist (includes zionists and TERFs
9. Why is "hearing impaired" offensive?
"Hearing impaired" implies that hearing is the default and deviations from it are defective and out of the ordinary.
10. How do I know if I have hearing loss?
You go to an audiologist and get an audiogram.
11. How do I know if I have auditory processing disorder?
You go to an audiologist or SLP (preferably one who is licensed in both) who works with APD and get an evaluation.
12. How do I join the Deaf community as someone with hearing loss/deaf gain?
You learn your local sign language and make an effort to incorporate yourself into the community.
13. Am I "deaf enough" to be part of the Deaf community?
If you have any level of hearing loss/deaf gain then you are "deaf enough" to join the Deaf community.
My question is not listed here (guidelines for asking questions):
Don't apologize for asking a question. I don't like hearing guilt here- it's fine to ask questions. I don't want to feel like I need to reassure you that asking questions is ok. It is. Just ask the question.
Asking follow up questions about questions in the FAQ is acceptable but they should be new questions, not restatements of the original question.
I can't tell you anything about you and if you ask about yourself I will probably not have a solid answer. Ask from a 3rd person perspective and you are more likely to get a helpful response (e.g "Am I a good candidate for hearing aids?"- I don't know you vs. "Is someone with moderate hearing loss a good candidate for hearing aids?"- now we're speaking generally, I am more likely to be able to answer this)
I don't answer most questions about myself. This is a gimmick blog. I'm not going to make it about me.
Most good faith questions are on the table. I don't bully people for having questions, even if I think they're inappropriate. If I don't like your question I will just tell you it's inappropriate. In the worst case scenario I simply don't respond.
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I did not know audism was a thing! I suspect I have auditory processing disorder or something due to struggling with hearing and processing things all my life, and Iβve faced so much crap from my parents for it. Finding out thereβs a blog dedicated to audism makes me feel a bit better about being hard of hearing
I'm glad this blog is helpful for you!
I've been a little inactive due to psychosis followed by a hysterectomy but I will be back soon (I hope)
why do closed captions keep pretending english is the only intelligible language? when a character speaks spanish what exactly is forcing your hand to transcribe it as "[speaks foreign language]" rather than "Si"
This intersection of Anglocentric bias + ableism and audism makes my blood boil.
People commonly defend this practise with "But the audience isn't meant to understand!" or "It's inconsequential!", neither of which actually address a) their assumption that the [ideal Anglo] audience wouldn't understand, or, perhaps most crucially in the context of CCs, b) that this is a failure of accessibility. A hearing person who speaks that "foreign" language will know exactly what's being said. A deaf or HoH person β the people CCs are primarily intended for β who speaks or reads that language should therefore have the exact same opportunity to understand. It very much feels to me like an assumption that we deaf and HoH people couldn't possibly understand any language but English, so there's no point in getting those languages transcribed for us. I hope it goes without saying how profoundly audist that sentiment is.
There is also, I think, a profound misunderstanding or ignorance of Deaf culture at play. Which is to say, CCs in English-language media are written with not only the assumption that the audience will be native English speakers, but that all d/Deaf and HoH people speak English as their first language, so all other languages are as supposedly foreign to them as they are for hearing people. But sign languages are their own distinct language. BSL, ASL, ISL, AusLan, NZSL etc β English (and are indeed different from one another), LIS β Italian, JSL β Japanese, and so on. So, if you follow the captioners' logic to its natural extreme, all non-signed dialogue is "foreign" to many d/Deaf and HoH people and should therefore be labelled [speaks foreign language] / [speaks English] / [speaks own language] / etc. β which is, obviously, a terrible idea that perfectly highlights all the biases implicit in closed captioning.
TL;DR: your accessibility feature fails in its function as soon as you fail to transcribe all spoken languages.
Is it audism that our driver (Uber) is HoH or deaf (it didn't specify) and my parents keep talking very quietly in the car? Like I know its probably not, but it feels really weird, because any other driver would be able to know what they are saying despite them "whispering"
Sorry I know this probably stupid
I need more context tbh
if they're, like, gossiping about the driver and wouldn't if the driver was hearing then yes I'd say that's audism
if they'd try to avoid the driver hearing them even if the driver is hearing then I wouldn't consider it audism
personally I'm more of a direct action oriented person but I do respect the tactic of calling representatives. I do wish there were more ways to access this tactic that don't involve a phone call. not every d/Deaf person is capable of making a phone call- even if they just leave a message. many d/Deaf people have heavy Deaf accents or cannot speak verbally at all. many d/Deaf people don't have the ability to understand the instructions to get to the point where they leave a voicemail.
it's so exclusionary of d/Deaf people.
this isn't the fault of the people organizing these calls, instead it's the fault of a system that does not consider d/Deaf people's ability to access to their representatives.
there are a lot of posts about social anxiety on the website and very few about d/Deafness. in the future, instead of turning one of the rare posts about d/Deafness into a post about social anxiety please consider making your own post to share your experiences
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personally I'm more of a direct action oriented person but I do respect the tactic of calling representatives. I do wish there were more ways to access this tactic that don't involve a phone call. not every d/Deaf person is capable of making a phone call- even if they just leave a message. many d/Deaf people have heavy Deaf accents or cannot speak verbally at all. many d/Deaf people don't have the ability to understand the instructions to get to the point where they leave a voicemail.
it's so exclusionary of d/Deaf people.
this isn't the fault of the people organizing these calls, instead it's the fault of a system that does not consider d/Deaf people's ability to access to their representatives.
So I had an appointment with my audiologist yesterday. Apparently they can see how long you have been wearing your cochlear implants per day on average and then will mildly tell you off if it's not in double digits.
I feel like 7 hours a day on average is plenty. Like I will wear my processors all day at work but then not very much when I'm just at home or on the weekends. Like I just have them on when I actually need to hear stuff.
Also, it's not like it's hindering my progress with the implants. My speech discrimination is in the top 10% of cochlear implant users. So I feel like it's not really that necessary for me to be wearing my processors all day every day to get the benefit from them.
Also FYI, I am a grown adult (26) and it just seems a bit invasive to have my audiologist able to see my time "on air" (yes, that is the official term). Like quite frankly I don't really think it's any of their business.
Is this audism/ableism, or am I just being ridiculous about the audiologist doing their job?
audism is the fact that in the US cops are only legally obligated to provide an interpreter after a Deaf person is detained. this results in many Deaf people being murdered by the state for not understanding instructions at things as simple as traffic stops.
many cops make no effort to use alternative communication with Deaf people even after we have identified ourselves as Deaf.
audism is also the fact that our signing is considered threatening and something that warrants murder. audism is the fact that our signing is labeled as gang signs and is used to justify murdering us. (and, for the record, actual gang signs also don't justify murder)
audism is the way Deaf people are accused of lying to "get out of things" when we identify ourselves as Deaf.... which is then used to deny us accommodations like interpreters or written communication.
audism is the fact that multiple Deaf people (mostly unhoused) have been murdered in my city alone in the last 5 years under the premises of "refusing to follow instructions" and "threatening hand gestures" and "gang signs." audism is the fact that Deaf people (and especially multiply marginalized Deaf people such as Black Deaf people) disproportionately experience police brutality even when it isn't lethal.
Today I got called exclusionary and reactionary for not wanting my post to be made about hearing people who absolutely can hear instructions even if they can't verbally speak
characters, both within canon and fanon, just... knowing sign language, without any elaboration on the Deaf community. you NEED Deaf involvement to learn sign language. it pisses me off bad
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I frequently see d/hoh people talk about how they're really struggling in the hearing world, they feel isolated, etc. and how they wish they could be part of the Deaf community but they can't be because "they have residual hearing/aren't profoundly deaf"
this is not true.
the Deaf community embraces everyone with hearing loss who wants to join it. the only prerequisites to being culturally Deaf are any level of hearing loss and an effort to assimilate into Deaf culture.
the Deaf community wants you to join the community. we are waiting for you to come home. you don't have to struggle through hearing society alone. we are here for you.
people with auditory processing disorder can join the community because hearing people can be part of the Deaf community however.... they are not d/Deaf or even hard of hearing. if you think that the Deaf community would be beneficial to you as a hearing person with APD you are welcome to integrate yourself with the Deaf community but the Deaf community will not be yours in the same way it is for Deaf people. you will be a guest.
Audism is the fact that the only courses related to Deaf culture or ASL at my college are exclusive to one of the smaller campuses (there's less than 500 students on that campus compared to the main campus which has several thousand) , which means the majority of the students are unable to take those classes.
I don't know if this is autism but I have auditory processing issues due to my ADHD and because I was having a hard time hearing when people talked to me I complained to my doctor who got me a hearing test but the person who did it said to my guardian that kids (I was a teenager at the time) will fake things to get attention.
I wasn't trying to fake it, I was confused as to why I didn't catch everything a teacher said even if I listened to them closely. I only learned when I was talking to my counselor about the experience that auditory processing issues exist.
audism is the fact that in the US people often need to pay for separate hearing insurance to cover audiology appointments, hearing aids, etc. because regular health insurance doesn't think ears are part of your body.
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my parents refuse to accept the fact that I am losing hearing. I want support, whether it be ASL lessons and an interpreter, hearing aids, or both. I went through an unrelated episode of severe anxiety when I started losing hearing two years ago and they now cite any instances of me asking for help as βjust anxiety.β