if youāre offline or away and i message you something (like a link to a meme or a picture or w/e) honestly just assume that iām just leaving it there for when you get back and not expecting you to answer straight away. i donāt need you to respond withĀ āhey, sorry, i wasnāt at the computer!ā or anything. i was leaving u a gift for later.
This also applies if youāre online and just donāt want to or have the energy to deal with humans in the moment. Just because we have the ability to reply in real time does not mean we have the obligation.
im like a cat i drag the posts to ur doorstep and if ur not there itās ok, the post will be on ur porch for later


















