Ladies, run for the hills. Indecision is a decision. If someone likes you, theyāll move mountains and cross seas to be with you, itās as simple as that. If you have to question their affection constantly, pick up and go. No amount of empty words and long nights can make up for the fact that they donāt respect or like you enough to commit to you. The very fact that theyāre taking advantage of relationship privileges says everything about the respect they have for you, and eventually the respect you have for yourself will wither, too. Sit back and look at your situation through a lense; an outsider. Youād scream at the girl on the other side to let go. You will find someone that wants these things with you, it just isnāt right now. Never compromise yourself at the expense of some boy who decided you werenāt enough, because you are, and someone else will find that in you. Once you realize the goddess you are and what you have to offer, youāll never settle again.Ā