vegetarianbear

Non native English speaker here. I was taught today that the pilgrims and native Americans worked as allies. Makes sense they'd hide away the truth. Why would they wanna make America seem weak and cruel.

If your abuser was nice that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser helped you financially that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser was supportive that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser regretted/felt guilty that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser gave you necessities that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser and you had good memories that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser abused you once that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser gave you gifts that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser helped with medical/disability aid that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser helped with your education that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser helped you achieve something that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. If your abuser was your best friend or family member or partner that doesn’t mean they aren’t an abuser. An abuser doing good things for you doesn’t mean they were never abusive to you, it doesn’t make them less of an abuser, it doesn’t make them not an abuser. Many abusers want you to feel conflicted about them, and many cases of abuse are complicated in their emotions among everything else. Your good experiences are valid but so is the trauma they put you through.

i really wish more people would talk about and accept "unconventional" self harm. stubbing cigarettes out on yourself, hitting yourself over the head, starving yourself, keeping yourself up at night, letting yourself stay in the cold with little clothing, trying to get sick on purpose, just everything. not everyone cuts or scratches themselves

I'm actually gonna try this but I'll need to write down those ingredients first.

how dare you. how dare you treat me that way. i’ll eat you alive.

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