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(*) By Andrea Ramos

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These are in no particular order. My favorite songs that I have on repeat are the same ones they have been for years for the most part honestly... my music doesn't change much.

Rock n' Roll Suicide- David Bowie

2. In My Bed- Amy Winehouse

3. Lullaby of Birdland- Amy Winehouse

4. Blue Jean- David Bowie

5. Eyes of the world- The grateful dead

6. Monolith- Twin Tribes

7. Lovesong- The Cure

8. Breathe- Pink Floyd

9. In the Flesh- Pink Floyd

10. Bite My hip- Bauhaus

11. The Passion of Lovers- Bauhaus

12. Blue Monday- New Order

13. Head Like a Hole- Nine Inch Nails

14. Scheibe- Lady Gaga

15. The Prettiest Star- David Bowie

16. Emerald Eyes- Fleetwood Mac

17. One Rainy Wish- Jimi Hendrix

18. Big Yellow Taxi- Joni Mitchell

19. Dominion / Mother Russia- The Sisters of Mercy

20. Birds Don't Sing- TV Girl

These are pretty much some of my all time favorites that I just cycle between. There is a bunch more but I don't want to make the list much to long. I know I will hit myself later for forgetting at least one great one.

These are in no particular order. My favorite songs that I have on repeat are the same ones they have been for years for the most part honestly... my music doesn't change much.

Rock n' Roll Suicide- David Bowie

2. In My Bed- Amy Winehouse

3. Lullaby of Birdland- Amy Winehouse

4. Blue Jean- David Bowie

5. Eyes of the world- The grateful dead

6. Monolith- Twin Tribes

7. Lovesong- The Cure

8. Breathe- Pink Floyd

9. In the Flesh- Pink Floyd

10. Bite My hip- Bauhaus

11. The Passion of Lovers- Bauhaus

12. Blue Monday- New Order

13. Head Like a Hole- Nine Inch Nails

14. Scheibe- Lady Gaga

15. The Prettiest Star- David Bowie

16. Emerald Eyes- Fleetwood Mac

17. One Rainy Wish- Jimi Hendrix

18. Big Yellow Taxi- Joni Mitchell

19. Dominion / Mother Russia- The Sisters of Mercy

20. Birds Don't Sing- TV Girl

These are pretty much some of my all time favorites that I just cycle between. There is a bunch more but I don't want to make the list much to long. I know I will hit myself later for forgetting at least one great one.

Můra - Needle Cathedral (EP)

Blackened Death Doom Metal from Prague, Czechia

MŮRA. The only band of its kind in the Czech music scene. This brooding death/doom metal ensemble got together in Prague in 2020 and immediately scored with all death/doom worshippers. Their successful EP "Doom Invocations and Narcotic Rituals" was released one year later on the American label Caligari Records. MŮRA will impress you with their creeping brand of doom metal, which offers a very wide overlap into old school death metal and true heinous black metal.

1. Needle Cathedral 07:12 2. Abysmal Putrefaction 05:54 3. Cascades of Skulls 08:02

Release date: January 20th, 2025 via @doomentiarecords

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.

Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.

DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.

Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.

Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.

Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.

Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.

The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

Dating and Relationships:

10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)

Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)

Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)

How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)

Play:

Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)

Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

Safety:

Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)

Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)

Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)

S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)

Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:

BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)

BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)

If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)

What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare:

Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)

Dominance and Dominants:

A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)

An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)

Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)

Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)

Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)

How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Submission and Submissives:

10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)

Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)

Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)

Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

Books:

BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer

Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs

Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon

SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

Diomedes Devoured by His Horses

Grýla by Þrándur Þórarinsson.

Grýla is, in Icelandic mythology, a horrifying monster and a giantess living in the mountains of Iceland. She is said to come from the mountains at Christmas in search of naughty children. 

The Grýla legend has been frightening to the people of Iceland for many centuries - her name is even mentioned in Snorri Sturluson’s thirteenth century Edda. Most of the stories told about Gryla were to frighten children – her favourite dish was a stew of naughty kids and she had an insatiable appetite. Grýla was not directly linked to Christmas until in the 17th century. By that time she had become the mother of the Yule Lads. A public decree was issued in 1746 prohibiting the use of Grýla and the Yule Lads to terrify children.

✨𝕋𝕒𝕣𝕠𝕥 ℝ𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕒𝕝 ✨ 1. The reversed Queen of Wands is the card of intelligence, courage and passion. You must use your intelligence to make a path through this situation, be courageous in your actions and also not let passion cloud your feelings and thoughts. This is another reason why space is necessary for you now so that feelings of passion and lust don’t cause you to take actions that you may regret later. The Queen of Wands reversed also indicates that you need to reach a place of confidence. You know yourself on a deep level and you are clear on your personal truth and belief systems. You know what you stand for you and you are not easily swayed by the opinions of others.

2. The Ace of Cups is asking you to have an open heart in order to be receptive to the new opportunities coming your way for personal growth and deeper connections with those around you. This card represents an invitation and it will be up to you to decide whether or not you take it. But the Ace of Cups encourages you to say ‘yes’ because it carries with it great potential for both emotional and spiritual fulfilment. Take that leap of faith and grab the opportunities that come your way with both hands, go with the flow of energy and embrace these chances with an open heart.

3. Judgement reversed often appears when the Universe is trying to send you signs and guidance but you’re either not listening or you’re ignoring them. It’s calling you to something bigger but all you want at the moment is to stay firmly within your comfort zone. But the Universe will keep sending your sign after sign, getting bigger and louder each time until you pay attention to them. You are far more capable and able that you rarely give yourself credit for. It’s time to break the cycle of self doubt and negative self talk. You can do it!

♈️ A𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕤 S𝕖𝕒𝕤𝕠𝕟 ♈️ Happy Aries season! ✨

It’s definitely a busy time today and over the next few days with Ostara (spring equinox in the northern hemisphere) and Mabon (autumn equinox in southern hemisphere), the new moon in Aries and the beginning of Aries season.

It’s the first zodiac sign of the astrological year. It aligns well with the northern hemisphere celebrating Ostara, the coming of Spring and promise of new life. It offers a clean slate and a chance of a new chapter.

If you’ve been lacking some energy lately, Aries season brings the motivation you need to move forward. As a Fire element, the fiery energy of Aries will give you the boost you’re looking for!

Where is Aries in your birth chart?