Life, I suppose, goes on

Sending all lovely, healing, positive vibes to Hudson and Connor. I hope they’re both taking care of their mental the best they can. They’ve been through SO much in such a short time.

To not only reach stardom the way they have so abruptly but to also have to deal with a truly psychotic, abusive part of their fan base so often I imagine is taking quite the toll…

I’m glad they have each other to lean on, and I’m hoping they’re able to keep and maintain their friendship despite the judgmental criticisms of keyboard warriors and disrespectful RPFers. Their unfilitered, unafraid selves and the beauty of this show brought me out of one of the darkest spaces in my life, and I’ll be forever grateful they shared that piece of themselves with us.

I hope they know there are many of us here that appreciate, respect, and are truly and genuinely inspired by them 💛

As someone older in the fandom (I’m 40) who has been messing around with RPF for literal decades I am begging you to have some decorum and some actual shame and NOT drag people who are connected to the people you claim to love.

Years ago if RPF had been brought up to the celebrities involved we would have been embarrassed as hell now it’s like you all have a humiliation kink and want to get busted in public.

Well most of us don’t so use your brains people!

Stop taking things that are meant for fandom spaces and broadcasting them to people who have said their relationship is not for you. Especially stop dragging non-celebrities into it, it’s not the win you think it is.

You look unhinged and deranged. In all honesty you look like Club C and do you really want that? Just take a breath and ask yourself;

Do I like looking this dumb in front of the whole ass internet?

Would I want someone to say this about me when they don’t know shit about me?

Would I want someone stomping all over my boundaries?

Would I want someone saying mean shit on the internet about my loved ones?

If the answer is no then please give yourself a wobble and stop.

You are making all of us look like lunatics when the majority of us are just here having a good time when work and life get a bit fucking heavy and some of you are spoiling it for the rest of us.

oh I had forgotten how much fun these tournaments are! thank you to everyone who joined back in for the first round - let's do it all again for round two! we've got 16 stellar gifs remaining, but only eight will go through to the quarter finals, so let's goooo!

and maybe just a little reminder that some of these gifs have subtitles but the cropping on Tumblr cuts them off. you can still see the words if you click on the gif itself and it'll open up. our first choice is already a good example of this, give it a try :)

this used to be a common knowledge