A fellow librarian in my network after informing me that her institution will not hire me and giving me a lot of interviewing tips and things I can do in my current role to get more experience: You are taking this really maturely and with quite a lot of grace, that's admirable.
Me: I mean, I dig a learning experience. I really appreciate you taking the time to mentor me and offer productive feedback.
Me, internally: I also got rejected a lot romantically in my teens and then rejected a lot professionally in my early twenties so I'm actually really good at it. This is like. Not even top ten most painful rejections. You're doing a good job at rejecting me.











