to be loved is to be changed

Update: We avoided the $500 fine (our lawn was good enough), but we still need food for the remainder of the month. Apparently the food we got only lasted two days. We have 12 days left in the month before Kylie's SSI comes in. DCAP and my disability lawyers are scrambling with what they can to get me on SSI/SSDI. I might go through a few more denials still. DSS refuses to up our food stamps because we're married, and they are going solely based on Kylie's income, even going so far as to tell me, a work exempt disabled person, to get a job, which I CANNOT DO.

We're back at: $0/$~200

Keep in mind, we do not have a car, and we're both unable to work due to physical and mental disabilities. We were both deemed exempt from work by both our PCPs and psychiatrists. We live solely off of Kylie's income (until I get disability). And we often have to walk to and from Target, which is already exhausting.

She genuinely like teasing and bothering you to the point of you getting pissed off and then cradling, caressing and peppering you in kisses to make up for it.

When you tick her off, she'll ignore you for a bit, even if you're super needy and need her cuddles.

She has a quick and sharp tongue and will give you a verbal lashing when you press her buttons.

You're not exempt from her short temper. Maybe a little. Just a little 🤏

Yeah she's kind of an asshole, but she's your asshole and she has just as many sweet and soft moments.

I severely overestimated how much detail there is in this design, especially with texture. I'll always be glazing the character design of Reverse:1999 until I actually have to draw them myself. It's okay, I'll pull through for wife ig💔💔

"Transandrophobia only happens online"

Ah yes, purely online. Hm. I guess all of this:

-Androgens being a controlled substance.

-The transmascs being refused the ability to medically transition because it's "mutilating a perfect female body"

-The transmascs with mullerian ducts and breasts being denied "women's" healthcare (because clearly their body parts magically change upon coming out /sarcasm.)

-50% of transmascs being raped [link].

-The violent detransitioning of many transmascs through forced marriage and/or forced pregnancies.

-The conversion therapy many transmascs suffer.

-The hate crimes against transmascs (Hi, I can attest! I was permanently physically and psychologically disabled from being VERY violently hatecrimed for being transmasc! At the age of 9!)

-The murdering of transmascs that gets labelled as a "femicide."

-The erasure of transmascs in history and in the present.

-The way transmascs are pushed out of many queer spaces for being "scary", because masculinity is "worthy of hate."

-All of the TERF propaganda about transmascs that was sold in mass (have y'all forgotten about "Irreversible Damage"?)

wanted to do a fun tag game anyone can join in and should feel free to hop in <3

trevor phillips, lee holloway, harmony kendall

three characters i identify with:

dettlaff van der eretein, claudia, shadowheart

+ open tags

Left, right and bottom: Sephiroth from FFVII, Recoleta and Isolde from Reverse 1999:>