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doe: fem bi girl

stag: masc bi girl

tomcat: androgynous bi girl

mage: fem bi boy

knight: masc bi boy

druid: androgynous bi boy

dove: fem nonbinary bi

crow: masc nonbinary bi

pigeon: androgynous nonbinary bi

Primer: “Queer” is a slur -but it is a reclaimed slur. –therefore, use it carefully and proudly, but don’t give people shit for still being uncomfortable with it. —and vice versa

“Bisexual” means “two sexes” -but even from the beginning, bisexuality was about being not-monosexual, and has no inherent anti-trans or anti-nonbinary element –so people who use the term “pansexual” should stop saying otherwise —especially anyone whose definition implies that trans men and women are not men and women (respectively) —-but maybe those who use either term should avoid using the difference to beat on each other

“A” is for Asexual or Ace Spectrum -Allies are great, but they’re not who the initialism is talking about –It’s not a club —Not having a letter in the initialism doesn’t mean you don’t get to participate.

“Homosexual” was coined to name a disease -and sometimes homophobes use it in a way that gives us the creeps –like “the gays” —but let’s not be too mean about correcting people for use that has historical problems if they’re actually trying

That said, not everyone who claims to be trying IS trying

TERFs can fuck right off

LGBTQIAP+ do not get a free pass to be racist, ableist or misogynist. Cut that shit out. -Being one letter does not give you the right to shit on another letter.

Labels are not for dividing -they are to help us pull together, to feel less alone –like, there are others out there who experience this???? —like, enough that there’s a NAME for it??????

There are proposed orientation names I’ve seen out there that are problems. -the reason there’s no term for “attracted to trans people” is because trans men are men, trans women are women, fetishising transfolk is no bueno. So whoever invented the awkward faux-Greek term maybe think twice

“Sapiosexual” isn’t an orientation -it’s actually low-key ableist if you get down to it, but you do you, Chachi –preferences and types are not orientations —but they can be racist —-and *ist. Cut that out on your dating profiles

facts: in fact succubus comes from the latin word “succubare” which means “to lie under” and incubus comes from the latin word “incubare” which means “to lie on”

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“Imagine if ASD was described like types of cupcake. You have some with icing, some with sprinkles, some chocolate and some vanilla but they’re all cupcakes.

“But how cupcake is it?”

“What?”

“Like is it a little bit cupcake or severely cupcake?”

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you’re a wanderer who happens upon a farm. it’s overgrown and decayed, looks like it’s been abandoned for some time. but as you investigate you meet the old man who lives there. he’s been living on this farm for years but as his health has decayed he’s been increasingly unable to take care of it. he sees you are interested and asks if you would like to take it over. you, of course, say yes.

the old man gives you the tutorials, shows you around, introduces you to the traveling trader who sometimes comes by. not long after you have settled in he passes away, at peace now that he knows his beloved farm is being looked after. 

you do your normal farm game things: clean up the land bit by bit, grow some crops from the last of the old man’s seeds, repair the buildings. you scavenge the land around for old world artifacts that can be broken down for supplies and resources to upgrade your farm. the trader comes by, and as you trade with him more and more, he spreads word and other traders come too, offering greater variety. 

other people come too, slowly, attracted by news of your farm or just passing by. they bring valuable skills, but they have requirements to meet if you want them to stay. slowly the nearby town, long since deserted, fills up again. you help the new residents clean it up, repair the abandoned homes, plant flowers along the cracked old streets. 

Straight girls who see me as their “gay friend” or who say they don’t care about sexuality but wouldn’t date a boy who’s had sex with a boy

Straight people in general who say “isn’t he really just gay” or telling girls that I’m actually gay and faking it with them

Gay people who say that because I have the option of dating a girl I’m the same as the straight people who oppress our community

Gay people who say I’ll never understand oppression or what it’s like to “actually” be gay

The cock/chicken “became the chthonic bird, and was used on tombs, as emblematic of the hope of a reawakening to life”. (Peters) and it is also refered as “an infernal animal of passage” by Bernabe in his book Instructions for the Netherworld: the orphic gold tablets.He also says: ”Cocks allude to the world of the afterlife: as intermediaries between the soul and the Beyond, they intercede between the world of the dead and that of the living”.

Remember Persephone was the goddess of renewal, so at least in Locri, the cock was an usual attribute of her. And in other cultures cocks-chickens were seen as animals related to renewal and life (eggs have that symbolism tooo).

:D so. chickens for Hades and Persephone all the way.

“To intercede between the world of the living and that of the dead, as intermediaries between the soul and Beyond.”

“You mean…to get to the Other Side?”

All you’re really doing is speaking and giving someone money.

It’s legal to speak.

It’s legal to give someone money.

Even if they actually complete the job, you’re not the one who committed the murder.

So why is it illegal to hire a hit man?

Could it be because inciting violence is not protected under free speech?