Why, Hello There!

1. if a woman wants to see your dick, she'll ask.

2. if you're not sure if a woman has asked for a dick pic, she hasn't.

3. your dick is not magical and a woman is not going to fall in love with you upon seeing it

4. dicks don't make women mindless sex-obsessed zombies like boobs do to most everyone

5. dicks don't photograph that well... just sayin.

6. if you want a woman to like you, engage her brain and heart.

7. i promise that if a woman likes you, she will BEG for a dick pic, you will ruin your chances by sending it before then.

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he isn't interested in ever loving you the way you want to be loved,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he can't be loyal to your monogamous relationship,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he doesn't have time and energy to give you,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he intentionally ignores you for long periods of time,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he loses his temper, and yells at you or belittles you,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he questions your memory, and makes you unsure of yourself,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he isolates you from your friends, family, and other healthy relationships,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he hounds you, hits you, or hurts you,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he can't express what he wants, or how he feels,

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he doesn't know how to apologize or be accountable

(respondent: love is not enough)

When he is not ready to have a healthy relationship, for these, and any other reason(s),

In a city, like the pic above, they represent rebellion, and efficiency. The messiness of humanity. We like to imagine we're oh so logical and neat so we design our cities to be logical and neat an then real humans literally trample on that idea. The ego required to think you can design something perfect that checks every box. Life is all about compromise and patching stuff when some new problem arises. Though people have certainly tried! Ohio state univeristy let students carve their desire paths, and then paved them over. It looks pretty artsy.

Some people will try to discourage desire paths, but this is almost always going to fail.

Eventually, people just have to accept them. Humans are too dang stubborn.

Certain desire paths are just adorable. A 0.5 second time saver. You just can't design for maximum efficiency, humans will always find shortcuts!

Though on occasion a desire path can actually be the least efficient way...especially if you're superstitious.

In a wilder area, such as below, they show us the curiosity of humans. A desire path somewhere natural often tells you there's something interesting just ahead. (Though remember some ecosystems are fragile and will suffer if trampled! Stick to paths in these sorts of areas)

And how about desire stairs? I always think these look so cool. We get see humans determination to climb, to traverse every kind of terrain.

And for something really crazy...a desire path used for centuries will create a 'holloway'

It will not. The deer wants to go to heavy brush and surge up a steep hill with its powerful hindquarters and presumably collect all the deer ticks living along the deer desire path. Waiting. You are a human, you want to meander along the side of the hill in absolutely no brush at all, thank you. Your desires are not compatible. You must abandon the deer path.

Sometimes it's a really bad idea to follow them.