Iād like to share a story. One that started over a year ago when I joined a role play community called the ādefinitely communityā. I thought, this is going to be fun. I picked a character that was available and joined in. I even got invited to join a discord server because thatās where everyone āhung outā. I had just missed the wedding of Gamora and Peter which Iām glad because I was told there was some drama and someone was āblockedā and out cast from the rp community. Funny thing is, I knew that person and got their side of the story. That personās treatment was unnecessary, but they were blocked and out cast. Sound familiar? It should because it happens all the time.
The drama didnāt affect me directly so I didnāt pass judgement as NO ONE NOT DIRECTLY INVOLVED SHOULD, but I watched as other people bashed that person, people who didnāt even interact with them joined in on blacklisting them from the community, HATE TALK RUNNING WILD. Why? Because people were easily manipulated into believing that person did wrong. Again, I ask, sound familiar? Yes, I think youāre starting to get it now.
So I continued on. I had a role play partner, stayed in the server, watched as people were left out and drama after drama circulated. Let me tell you how fun thatās not, but at the heart of every single drama was one blog in particular. One mod. Want to venture a guess? Iāll tell you. This person has several blogs. Some you all interact with. One they try to keep super secret. Since Iām letting it all out, Iāll tell you. The blog and mod behind all the drama and manipulation. @definitelybuckybarnes . Aka @definitelylancetucker Aka, @stuck-y-together Aka, @definitelydaytina . Your beloved Christina. Tina. Whatever she goes by these days. Yes, she is all those blogs and more. The master manipulator of blogs and characters.I was told you say people are jealous because you got Bucky first. No one is jealous. You just treat people like shit and accuse them of god knows whatever fits to gain attention. Thatās why people donāt like you.
Why am I spilling the tea? Because Iāve watched this happen time after time. Every drama that happens, sheās at the center. Even now, I encouraged someone that joined the community months ago and theyāve been cast out. Why? Iām sure you were told lies and manipulated. Did you get proof? Iām willing to bet it was all he said she said, but it worked cause you bought it. I know, because Iāve seen it. Youāre all sheep and if you donāt agree with Bucky/daytina/Tina, you too will be shunned and blocked.
I saw the post for the New Years party. Does anyone else find that a little fucked up? You can only come via invite and all plus ones have to be approved. Excuse me, but that sounds like a dictatorship. Conform or you wonāt be accepted. Again, manipulative and also bullying. Something they swear they donāt do, but they have and are currently doing it still because all you sheep are following her lead and giving her audience. Some things never change.
Have you ever wondered why there are so many abandoned blogs, my own included? Because we were all treated like shit. We didnāt conform. We were made to feel like we didnāt matter if we had a difference in opinion. Some of us even went and created a new community. Is it any better? I donāt know because I have given up role playing because of how I continually see people treated, myself included. I no longer wanted to be part of the toxic behavior that fuels this community, any community, but if Iām going down, Iām taking Bucky/Tina with me! Iāve sat back and watched silently. I follow many of you. Iāve had more than one person come to me about your toxic behavior. Itās funny how the people youāve cast out or banned have found their way to my inbox. Enough is enough, already!
Your lies and manipulation and dictatorship need to come to an end. You are treating people like shit for what? Because someone doesnāt want to be told what to do? Youāre not a god! Quit acting like one. You donāt own or run the community, yet you behave like you do. There are good people behind the blogs that youāve cast out, theyāre just free thinkers and arenāt easily manipulated. Those people youāve hurt, theyāll recover and carry on. Youāll still be the vile person youāve been because youāre a spoiled entitled brat that cries if she doesnāt get her way. When will you seriously grow up already? Thereās your tea people.
Go ahead, block me. This has no effect on how Iāll sleep at night. This is an old blog I no longer use and itās sole purpose is exposing the lies and manipulation youāve all come to believe. My own definitely blog lays dormant and has for a long time. Good luck figuring out which one it is. Iām not accepting asks or messages. Once this is posted Iām logging out. You all need to figure out what to do. Continue to follow the lies and manipulation or start thinking for yourself. I guarantee this will happen again and keep happening because it always does. Youāre either part of the problem or solution and I donāt see anyone being the voice of reason and knocking someone from their high horse, that would require you to stand up to the monstrosity.
Iām tagging all definitely blogs old and new. Also throwing some of the without a doubt blogs in as well. Theyāll be happy to know someone finally called you out on your shit! And kudos to those who havenāt chosen sides. At least thereās hope that some of you canāt be controlled.
There was something someone told me once and it rings true. Food for thought maybe. āBecareful of the company you keep. How they talk about someone else is exactly how they talk about you.ā Keep that in mind, sheep. āWe change people through conversation, not through censorship.ā Maybe some of you should brush up on your pop culture and listen to the words of Jay-Z.
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