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Transmeds; The community has become so awful and shitty. People have turned away from their original goal of teaching people about dysphoria and transsexualism, and have turned into hateful and spiteful people. From witch hunting on insta, to hateful anons on tumblr. Let us go back to our original goal and quit hating people who have differing opinions, even ones who are transmed to begin with. Tucutes; Your community is shit too. You’re allowed to agree to disagree keep that in mind. You can believe what you wanna believe, but that doesn’t mean it is in your right to send hateful messages and death threats of your own. Learn to accept different beliefs and go back to agreeing to disagree. TERFs; Since when is it right to hate people for how they were born? We don’t hate black or other raced people, we don’t hate autistic people, or gay people. So in what way is it right to hate trans people? Unless you can prove to me that each and every one of us is somehow a rapist, or predator, or whatever. Than please leave us in peace. Its all we ask. We want to live peaceful lives AS OURSELVES. Not some “TIM” or “TIF” because we are not cis men, or cis women. We’re trans women, and trans men. MOGAI: Your ideology harms people. No one wants to see their disorder be turned into a gender. Autism is not some gender to blatantly throw around, and act like it defines who you are. You turn everything, into a gender. Gender is not what defines you, its not what tells people who you are. Unless you can prove with scientific evidence that autism is a form of gender, than please. Quit using a harmful ideology. Radfems; Its not okay to hate all men. There is nothing wrong about being uncomfortable around men you trust, but there is no reason to hate all men. That is simply hating people for how they were born like TERFs do (not that its the same). Unless you can prove that each and every man is harmful and misogynistic than please. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Transphobes; This ties into what I said about TERFs, but without radical feminism. You hate people for how they were born. Something they didn’t choose. They never chose to be born with dysphoria, something that is life crushing, and extremely painful. They simply want to live in peace as their proper self. Since when is that bad? Please, leave them alone. Homophobes; You also hate people for how they were born. Sexuality is not something that can be controlled, in both trans people and cis gay people, and cis straight people in general. No one chose it. We simply learn to love who we wanna love, but some of us have internalized homophobia because of where and who we were raised by. Which can be harmful even to ourselves. So please quit hating people for loving who they wanna love, leave us in peace.

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Some more positivity for y’all trans folks!!

* Disclaimer, I am not talking about people who cannot present male due to issues with acceptance, being closetted ect. I am talking about people who are out, have supportive families and just want to get attention by being transgender *

This has to be people trying to escape the stigma, to escape the constant battle that is womanhood.

And your argument that it’s to escape womanhood is just ridiculous. I lived as a “woman” for years of my life and although I didn’t enjoy cat calling and getting stared at for parts of my body I’m not trans because of it. I am escaping womanhood but not because of the plight society has put on it. I’m transitioning to be more comfortable in my own body and relieve dysphoria. So sorry but most trans men arent dealing with internalized misogyny, we’re dealing with the fact that our brains and body are different.

Anyways, so far, it seems like the public view of transgender people that Jenner provided mixed with trying to escape the issues that come with being a female are all contributing factors to why people transition FtM. And at the heart of it all is the unstudied mental illness of dysphoria.

but yeah, same about the mental illnesses. one just so happened to be gender dysphoria. another happened to be body dysmorphia. i can elaborate on how the two feel and manifest differently in my experiences.

Thanks for talking with me about this, other people cursed at me.

I’m not saying that a few people are trying to rid themselves of feminity and rejecting it, of course they are that’s why I’m so skeptical of afab non binary, but most people that go through with physically transitioning and actually get diagnosed with dysphoria end up being so much happier afterwards which is why I feel that it is still a valid and medically needed thing

Also, I was wondering. Do FtM trans people intend to use male restrooms? It seems like a bad idea for sexual harassment reasons, but also it just sounds inconvenient because the few times I’ve seen into male bathrooms, it was mostly urinals with a few stalls which just seems like an inconvenience to deal with having to wait if they’re all taken.

And yes people starting testerone without having dysphoria and just saying they’re a guy is a huge problem and can lead to them hating it. That’s why transmeds and truscums exist, to make sure that only the people that really need it go on it. Informed consent can lead to many cases of transition regret and detransitioning

This has to be people trying to escape the stigma, to escape the constant battle that is womanhood.

And your argument that it’s to escape womanhood is just ridiculous. I lived as a “woman” for years of my life and although I didn’t enjoy cat calling and getting stared at for parts of my body I’m not trans because of it. I am escaping womanhood but not because of the plight society has put on it. I’m transitioning to be more comfortable in my own body and relieve dysphoria. So sorry but most trans men arent dealing with internalized misogyny, we’re dealing with the fact that our brains and body are different.

Anyways, so far, it seems like the public view of transgender people that Jenner provided mixed with trying to escape the issues that come with being a female are all contributing factors to why people transition FtM. And at the heart of it all is the unstudied mental illness of dysphoria.

but yeah, same about the mental illnesses. one just so happened to be gender dysphoria. another happened to be body dysmorphia. i can elaborate on how the two feel and manifest differently in my experiences.

Thanks for talking with me about this, other people cursed at me.

I’m not saying that a few people are trying to rid themselves of feminity and rejecting it, of course they are that’s why I’m so skeptical of afab non binary, but most people that go through with physically transitioning and actually get diagnosed with dysphoria end up being so much happier afterwards which is why I feel that it is still a valid and medically needed thing

This has to be people trying to escape the stigma, to escape the constant battle that is womanhood.

And your argument that it’s to escape womanhood is just ridiculous. I lived as a “woman” for years of my life and although I didn’t enjoy cat calling and getting stared at for parts of my body I’m not trans because of it. I am escaping womanhood but not because of the plight society has put on it. I’m transitioning to be more comfortable in my own body and relieve dysphoria. So sorry but most trans men arent dealing with internalized misogyny, we’re dealing with the fact that our brains and body are different.

(just in the case someone ask) I’m a juxera proxvir gay alte-nonvirmina trans sapphic femboy and also tranny fagdyke (sapatransviad in Portuguese). So these flags are free to be used by polygender and mspec pals.

~ ap

Some more positivity for y’all trans folks!!