It's been forever since I've been on this account so I feel a life update is in order.
For context I am polyamorous.
For clarification I will refer to my Life partner as LP and my ex Partner but still good friend and GX (good ex lol)
LP and GX are dating each other as well but my romantic relationship wasn't working out. GX and I broke up in 2025.
I have been with LP since we were in high-school.
In 2019, for health reasons, I left the job i loved to move into with my GX's house with my LP in Indiana. (GX has a cat named Clover. He is a big dumb baby ❤️)
It was suppose to be just me, GX, and LP but GX invites ppl to move in without much discussion 😒
Things are ok ish as one of the ppl who moved in is a genuinely good person but the other was not so much. A lot of drama in house happens. Was not my relationship so not going to say more.
Good person stays and becomes roommate 1 and the other leaves. 🫡
I go to Mexico in 2022 and get surgery done to help with my health issues.
We got a dog! His name is nico ❤️
Having Nico really helped my depression and I was able to get off my meds for it.
Things calmed down but not long after GX moves in another person. We dont have room so the new person kind of takes over LPs room and LP is half forced to sleep on the couch for 2 years.
Trump is re elected.
We decide we can't stay in Indiana.
Good roommate finds a GF, gets engaged, moves out.
Other roommate is wishy washy about if they are moving with us or not.
(They do move with us only bc they had no where else lined up)
Gx and I break up in 2025 (long story)
2026 we all move to a new home in Illinois.
It's a old 100 year house but it has whimsy and character. It needs fixing and lots of it but still good enough to move in.
I over dyed my hair and had to cut it short again.
And now i am currently trying to find a new job as the new house is located in a place with better public transportation.
That's mostly it! Thanks for catching up with me 😊
