It's been forever since I've been on this account so I feel a life update is in order.

For context I am polyamorous.

For clarification I will refer to my Life partner as LP and my ex Partner but still good friend and GX (good ex lol)

LP and GX are dating each other as well but my romantic relationship wasn't working out. GX and I broke up in 2025.

I have been with LP since we were in high-school.

In 2019, for health reasons, I left the job i loved to move into with my GX's house with my LP in Indiana. (GX has a cat named Clover. He is a big dumb baby ❤️)

It was suppose to be just me, GX, and LP but GX invites ppl to move in without much discussion 😒

Things are ok ish as one of the ppl who moved in is a genuinely good person but the other was not so much. A lot of drama in house happens. Was not my relationship so not going to say more.

Good person stays and becomes roommate 1 and the other leaves. 🫡

I go to Mexico in 2022 and get surgery done to help with my health issues.

We got a dog! His name is nico ❤️

Having Nico really helped my depression and I was able to get off my meds for it.

Things calmed down but not long after GX moves in another person. We dont have room so the new person kind of takes over LPs room and LP is half forced to sleep on the couch for 2 years.

Trump is re elected.

We decide we can't stay in Indiana.

Good roommate finds a GF, gets engaged, moves out.

Other roommate is wishy washy about if they are moving with us or not.

(They do move with us only bc they had no where else lined up)

Gx and I break up in 2025 (long story)

2026 we all move to a new home in Illinois.

It's a old 100 year house but it has whimsy and character. It needs fixing and lots of it but still good enough to move in.

I over dyed my hair and had to cut it short again.

And now i am currently trying to find a new job as the new house is located in a place with better public transportation.

That's mostly it! Thanks for catching up with me 😊

So I've been tired since like 9:30ish...its 1:45 and I can't sleep. What the fuck?! But since I've been up, it's given me time to really think about things. Like how I'm going on a double vacation!! I've been looking forward to this since I found out about both! I leave next Wednesday for North Carolina with my boyfriend and his parents and once I come back, I leave the next day for Wisconsin. Excited and nervous for the first one. I've never been on a vacation with a boyfriend ever and don't really know what to expect from it, other then it's gonna be a great time. Very excited to go back to my hometown though. I love seeing old friends and family. It always brings back wonderful memories that I miss so much. But sometimes I really hate thinking about those old days since I didn't choose to leave Wisconsin, I was forced to by my parents and had to leave everyone and everything I knew. Always end up wondering what would have been if we never moved to Florida and stayed in Wisconsin. Obviously I wouldn't have met the amazing people I have met in Florida. But even though I couldn't be happier, I just can't help but wonder about that. Since I have moved, I'm really only close to about 3 people out of the many friends I have and no matter what, I always make sure I see them when I visit. There are others I see, but it's not a huge deal if I see them or not. Since I am going to North Carolina first, I will not be seeing some important people in Wisconsin like my sister is. And yes, I am super jealous of her, but because they are family, I know I'll see them soon. Wisconsin seems to be all that's on my mind lately though. It's been about 6 years since I moved from Wisconsin to Florida and it still feels like we just moved here not too long ago. There's no doubt that I still miss everything in Wisconsin. It'll always be my home. Wish my incredible boyfriend was coming with me. That's gonna be one of the hardest things, leaving him for a week and a half. We've never been apart from each other for that long and I can already tell I'm gonna hate it! I'm sure he won't mind it as much since he'll be annoyed with me after a week together. As much as I miss being in Wisconsin, I absolutely love Florida and the people I've met and the experiences I've had here so far. It's only the beginning and so far I wouldn't change the things I've done because it's brought me to where I am today and I am completely happy.