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Most people think attraction has to do with sun sign. Everyone’s heard: “If you’re an Aquarius, date a Gemini or a Libra!” This is due to the fact that mainstream astrology does not consider other factors besides your sun sign, and most people believe this. But actually, this is not true, because most of the time sun-sun compatibility has little importance - no more than giving a general vibe that the relationship would give off. Instead, we should really focus on connecting energies between two charts. Read my post here about how compatibility really works.

Here are some common connections that indicate attraction between two people. It says that they must be in the “same sign”, but note that if the two placements are conjunct the bond is even more powerful.

SUN/MOON - 1st person’s sun in the same sign as the 2nd person’s moon:

both people feel like they’ve found their other half

the moon person looks up to the sun person

the sun person helps the moon person shine

there is an ease with each other that is very natural

both people “make sense” to each other

both have a similar attitude towards life

SUN/ASCENDANT - 1st person’s sun in the same sign as the 2nd person’s ascendant:

the two people are very similar

there are many common interests

they both view life in a similar way

the sun person likes the energy that the ascendant person naturally gives off

the ascendant person feels like they can be themselves with the sun person

self-expression is easy and harmonious together

MOON/MOON - having the same moon sign: 

this is a powerful, soulmate-like relationship

both people feel a sense of security

the other person feels “familiar” somehow

sharing feelings is easy and natural

both are very sensitive to each other’s feelings and needs

there is an intense emotional bond, sometimes overwhelmingly powerful

one can read the other like a book

MOON/ASCENDANT - 1st person’s moon in the same sign as the 2nd person’s ascendant:

both people feel understood by each other

the moon person feels at ease expressing their feelings

the ascendant person feels understood by the moon person

there is a natural emotional connection

both are aware of and receptive to the other’s feelings

ASCENDANT/ASCENDANT - having the same ascendant sign:

both people feel very comfortable with each other

both people sense a similarity in the way that they project themselves to the world

both have many shared values and similar attitudes

both are attracted to the other’s self-expression

SUN/VENUS - 1st person’s sun in the same sign as the 2nd person’s venus: 

the sun person is the venus person’s “type”

the sun person feeds off of the venus person’s love

both people give and receive much affection

the venus person values everything the sun person represents

the sun person appreciates the venus person’s expression

MOON/VENUS - 1st person’s moon in the same sign as the 2nd person’s venus:

the venus person makes the moon person feel comfortable

both care a lot for each other

both share a lot of values when it comes to a relationship

ASCENDANT/VENUS - 1st person’s ascendant in the same sign as the 2nd person’s venus:

the ascendant person embodies what the venus person finds attractive

the ascendant person appreciates the love the venus person gives

both are sensitives to each other’s needs and want to please each other

VENUS/VENUS - having the same venus sign:

both people are magnetically drawn to each other

there is an appreciation for each other’s personal style/aesthetic

both sense a similarity in each other’s romantic expression

both naturally understand each other’s romantic needs and satisfy them

VENUS/MARS - 1st person’s venus in the same sign as the 2nd person’s mars:

there is a sense of romantic chemistry

the venus person is attracted to how the mars person asserts him/herself

the mars person is attracted to the venus person’s charm and style

Aries: Friends: Taurus, gemini Best friends: Libra, sagittarius, aries Doesn’t always get along/depends: cancer, Pisces, Virgo, Capricorn Should date: Aquarius, Leo, Scorpio

Taurus: Friends: Gemini, cancer, Libra Best friends: Virgo, Sagittarius Doesn’t always get along/depends: Taurus, Leo, Aquarius, Aries Should date: Capricorn, Scorpio, Pisces

Gemini: Friends: Taurus, Gemini Best friends: Sagittarius, Libra, Pisces Doesn’t always get along/depends: Aries, Virgo, Capricorn, Scorpio Should date: Leo, Aquarius, Cancer

Cancer: Friends: Taurus, Gemini, cancer Best friends: Capricorn, Scorpio Doesn’t always get along/depends: aries, Libra, Leo, Aquarius Should date: Pisces, Virgo, Sagittarius

Leo: Friends: Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces Best friends: Scorpio, aries, gemini Doesn’t always get along/depends: taurus, cancer Should date: Sagittarius, Aquarius, Leo, Libra

Virgo: Friends: Aquarius, Scorpio, Sagittarius Best friends: libra, Taurus Doesn’t always get along/depends: pisces, aries, Leo, gemini Should date: Capricorn, cancer, virgo

Libra: Friends: Leo, Virgo, taurus, Capricorn Best friends: Gemini, Pisces, Sagittarius Doesn’t always get along/depends: Scorpio, Cancer, libra Should date: aries, Aquarius

Scorpio: Friends: Aquarius, cancer, Aries, gemini Best friends: Leo, Capricorn, Virgo Doesn’t always get along/depends: Scorpio, Libra, Should date: Sagittarius, Taurus, Pisces

Sagittarius: Friends: Taurus, virgo, Sagittarius Best friends: Aquarius, Leo, gemini, Doesn’t always get along/depends: cancer, Pisces Should date: Libra, Scorpio, Aries, Capricorn

Capricorn: Friends: Pisces, libra, Leo Best friends: Gemini, Sagittarius, Scorpio, Capricorn Doesn’t always get along/depends: cancer, aries, Aquarius Should date: Taurus, virgo

Aquarius: Friends: Aries, virgo, cancer, capricorn Best friends: Pisces, Scorpio, Aquarius Doesn’t always get along/ depends: Gemini, Taurus Should date: Libra, Sagittarius, Leo

Taurus And…

♈ Aries - Aries and Taurus may not be attracted to each other initially, but with effort and time a strong connection can form between the two. There may be vast differences in the pair’s interests. Neither of these signs are particularly flexible in relationships, so learning how to balance the strong inclinations of each other is very important.

♉ Taurus - Two Taurus is an extremely solid match with serious soulmate potential. Unlike many same sign pairings, Taurus have lifelong romantic probability. Because Taurus are generally sensible and reliable both partners will feel secure with the other and will have no reason to doubt the mutual loyalty between them.

♊ Gemini - Taurus and Gemini face challenges when it comes to communication and common interests. The differences between the two come out slowly and often simmer for long periods of time. This can lead to passive aggression in the relationship. Taurus can be stubborn and Gemini impatient, if not addressed this characteristic clash can cause the demise of such a romance.

♋ Cancer - Like Taurus and Taurus, Cancer and Taurus have soulmate potential. Cancer has a tendency to be affectionate and loyal, characteristics that Taurus finds comfort in. Both signs have similar values; family, stability, and culinary arts. The signs’ tendencies toward jealousy are easily quelled in such a pairing.

♌ Leo - Leo and Taurus is a pairing that requires balance. There are strong characteristics that are in constant competition with one another at play. Taurus’ practicality and patience and Leo’s passion and ego are at odds. Taurus will find themselves trying to reel in Leo’s outgoing and sometimes reckless tendencies while Leo may feel suffocated. Money is likely to be an issue in this pairing.

♍ Virgo - Taurus and Virgo share many core values and because of this both become reliable and supportive partners to one another. This pairing could be called a “power couple” due to their shared ambition, determination, and strength of character. Virgo tends to worry more than Taurus which can cause frustration on both sides when the pair must work together on a deadline related task.

♎ Libra - Libra and Taurus have potential, but also have certain difficulties to overcome. These signs have a lot of shared characteristics which may not be initially explored. This can lead to Libra and Taurus lacking an initial connection, but as the two get to know one another the similarities will emerge. Jealousy can be a problem as Libra tends to enjoy meaningless flirtation while Taurus can become extremely jealous. Taurus must be assured that Libra is completely loyal in the relationship or they can find themselves in a very unhappy relationship.

♏ Scorpio - This pairing has its challenges, but if the pair can get through them they can nurture an incomparable love. Both Scorpio and Taurus are generally jealous which often causes problems with other signs, but in this case it can lead to a mutual emotional understanding. Taurus and Scorpio share different energy levels. Taurus is often relaxed and easygoing while Scorpio is in constant mental motion. Both can benefit from adopting a bit of the others’ energy.

♐ Sagittarius - Taurus and Sagittarius often have little in common and both prefer to do things their way. When both partners are determined the relationship has the potential to grow and gain stability, but only if both parties recognize that they need to compromise at least some of the time. Taurus is often saddled with the responsibility in this pairing, which is not a part that Taurus likes to play all the time. Sagittarius can take on the part of a dependent more than a lover if their irresponsibility is not kept in check.

♑ Capricorn - Capricorn and Taurus is considered to be one of the most compatible matches. They share a mutual respect for one another’s ambition and sense of humor. They are often on the same page and a connection can be felt almost immediately. There is an unspoken trust between the two, though Taurus may suspect Capricorn of being secretive at times, but only because Taurus is more open and honest than most.

♒ Aquarius - An unlikely match. Both have a tendency to be unconventional and stubborn, making compatibility difficult. Aquarius enjoys their independence and likes to feel uninhibited. This can pose a problem for Taurus, who craves commitment and fears infidelity. Aquarius’ rebelliousness can cause Taurus to feel unstable and frustrated. Though each partner would have to sacrifice for the other, this relationship has the potential to be stimulating and exciting. 

capricorn: i like a person

virgo: omg me too!!

taurus: same

capricorn: aight...so how do we approach this situation?

virgo: it's quite simple, really

taurus: yeah, we just have to...

You’re just saying that…

…so people will like you.

Virgo, Libra, Pisces

…to make yourself look cool.

Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn

…to piss people off.

Aries, Scorpio, Aquarius

…to get what you want.

Aries: can come off as rude and selfish, but they actually care a lot, they’re just terrible at expressing their feelings. Would go to the moon and back for the people they love and never forgive who does them wrong. The best at flirting, romantic as hell

Taurus: impulsive and relentless, they never stop, and that’s their best and worst characteristic. Even though they’re pretty outgoing it’s difficult for them to socialize and to overcome their insecurities. In the end they turn out to be great friends and lovers

Gemini: great with organization and practical things, you’ll never see them showing their weaknesses. Always busy, but they are in any way able to find a minute to help you and be by your side. A true inspiration for everyone, even though they could come off as intimidating sometimes

Cancer: they seem to have their life figured out, and you never know if it’s the truth or not. Being the definition of commitment, nothing seems to stop them and they make everything seems easy. Very critical and precise, you know you can always trust them and their judgement. Hidden sense of humor, but when it shows, it’s gold

Leo: they have an answer to anything and they are able to convice you without you even noticing. More subtle and less arrogant than you would think, charisma is their middle name and everyone would like them if they wouldn’t react so impulsively saying whatever it comes to their mind

Virgo: very sociable thanks to their great sense of humor and their ability to tell amazing anecdotes. Not as meticulous and in control as you would think; they prefer to complain instead of acting but they’re so clever that they get away with it. Their biggest fear is to be left alone

Libra: loud and full energy, they seem to not have any filters. Could break down in front of you more than once on the same day. Strong as hell but reluctant to share their feelings because they hate to be a burden for their friends. They always have a good comeback and it wouldn’t be a party without their presence

Scorpio: unapologetic and cryptic, either you love them or you think they’re weirdos. Terrible at dealing with their feelings, you can always count on their help dealing with yours. Their mood swings will exhaust you and you’ll never know what they actually think of you. Don’t you dare touch who they love

Sagittarius: their inflexible logic and their intelligence will always prevail on every single argument with them. Genuinely nice and interesting people, their approval is never easy to get and a reason of pride when they give it to you. They need a certain amount of familiarity to express themselves at their fullest

Capricorn: they can come out as shy, but you’ll learn that they have a fire inside once you get to know them. They avoid conflict at all costs and usually are the voice of reason during an argument. Couldn’t be a disappointment even if they tried

Acquarius: those person whose presence is always guaranteed even during tough times. Their reactions will never betray their true feelings and they seem to have their life constantly under control, but their perfectionism is only a reflex of their fear of disappointing who they love

Any signs can be compatible. Astrology does not have the final say in the succes of a relationship. Only you and your partner can decide if you want it to succeed or not. Astrological compatibility is just an indicator of how easy or hard it will be.

Traditionally Fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) are compatible with air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) and other fire signs. Air signs are compatible with fire signs and other air signs. Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) are compatible with earth signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn) and other water signs. And earth signs are compatible with water signs and earth signs. There’s also the matter of opposite signs. They are naturally drawn to each other and there is usually a lot of attraction between them. These are: Aries & Libra Taurus & Scorpio Gemini & Sagittarius Cancer & Capricorn Leo & Aquarius Virgo & Pisces Though their elements are compatible, the opposite signs are each other’s counterparts and it’s really all or nothing when they come together. It can either be the best there ever was and ever will be, or a total fiasco. Pretty much the same thing, albeit less powerful, goes for Same-Sign couplings. To know if you’re compatible, you should look at your love interest’s chart and compare it to yours: Your Sun tells you about very basic compatibility, but is not by any means a definitive yes or no. If anything, compatible sun signs are a nice bonus. It’s your essential personality, the one you probably identify most as. 

Your Venus is by far the most important placement in relationships. It’s never more than two signs away from your sun sign. It tells you about what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s also an indicator of how you attract love and act in a relationship. People may find they act rather differently when they’re in a relationship. Knowing your and their’s venus may help you understand why you do the things you do for love. Your venus should be compatible with your partner’s mars and vice versa. The Moon represents what men find most important in a woman, though not necesarily in a romantic way. Look at your venus for this. It’s the sign that tells all genders  their deepest thoughts, fears and emotions. Having the same moon sign often results in great relationships with deep connections and emotional fulfillment, though it might also be very interesting if your moon sign is or is compatible with your partner’s sun sign. Your Mars represents what women find most important in a men, though not necesarily in a romantic way.  Look at your venus for this. Mars takes charge of sexual attraction. It’s the planet of passion, but also of how you express anger.  Your mars should be compatible with your partner’s venus and vice versa. 

Mercury is connected to communication, reasoning, intellect and awareness. It’s not all that important in romantic compatibility, but people with compatible or the same mercury signs will have an easier time communicating with and understanding one another.  Finally, you might want to take a look at your Juno. You need your birth time to calculate it. Juno was the Roman godess of marriage. This placing is not near  as important as venus, but it will tell you what you need in a relationship to grow as a person rather than what you may want.

The expression of a sign is much - MUCH - different depending on the planet it is found. And in my opinion, this is specially true when it comes to the sun and moon. The Sun is who we strive to be, while the Moon is what we are most deeply. Sometimes I even see that the Stereotypical traits of a sign are more evident in the moon than in the sun sign. The reason I find for this, is that most of us express ourselves through our feelings, particularly women or people with a more feminine energy (what I mean by this, has nothing to do with gender, but that you are in tune with your emotions) or sometimes it has to do with your dominant planet. Here are the differences and similarities of the signs placed on the sun or moon.

Aries:

Similarities: impatient

Differences: Sun is more aloof, the Aries sun is more constrained, and composed, looks confident. Moon in Aries has a lot of mental energy, very passionate and changes their mind very easily. The Moon doesn’t know how to direct their energy and might feel restless, while the Sun projects their energy better. Aries Moon feels everyone is out to get them while the Aries Sun does not. Aries characteristics are more obvious and pronounced in the Aries moon than the Aries sun.

Taurus:

Similarities: stubbornness and charm, expressive.

Differences: Taurus sun are blunt and less careful with other people’s feelings. In this particular sign, the Taurus sun is easier to spot than the Taurus moon. The Taurus moon is more grounded than the Taurus sun. Taurus moon is deep, while the Taurus sun is more shallow. Taurus moon loves love, and stability, and this quality is less manifested in the Sun.

Gemini:

Similarities: aloof, absent minded, easily bored

Differences:  Gemini suns want to appear easy-going, but it isn’t necessarily their true nature. Gemini moons are truly easy-going people. Sun wants to “be right” know the facts, while Gemini moons are simply more cynical to guard their emotions. Gemini suns are less witty (sorry…) than the moon sign.

Cancer:

Similarities: emotional, has pronounced mood swings.

Differences: Cancer suns act their feelings, like taking revenge, doing something about it BUT the cancer moon express their negative emotions through crying or anger.  Cancer suns are easy to spot, while cancer moons may need to feel comfortable to express themselves. The happy go lucky cancer sun is evident, while the Cancer moon is more - way more - serious.

Leo:

Similarities: the Ego and the need for compliments

Differences: The Leo Sun is a poser, they know it too! They are show offs, and while the Leo Moon is pretty damn good at everything, they know it, but will not say it. Will like to hear it, tho. The Leo Moon does not care about their appearance as much as the Leo Sun. The Leo Sun is more patient, annoy them a little, try harder, try again and they will get angry, the Leo Moon is more defensive and will kill you in less tries. The Leo Moon is more loving though, more sure of themselves and way more protective of themselves and especially, of their loved ones.

Virgo:

Similarities: critical, analyzing

Differences: I find in this sign the less differences. The Virgo Sun is more shy than the Virgo Moon, which I think goes against popular belief. (I also think this sign differs a lot depending if you are more masculine or feminine, I’ll do a post on that later). The Virgo knows how to live life correctly and will tell you how to lead your life, while being a mess themselves. Both are blunt, but you might have to push the Virgo suns more than the Virgo moons to actually get the real deal.

Libra:

Similarities: cares about what others think of them, passive agressive

Differences: the Libra sign is very misinterpreted, whenever I read about them I hear: “shallow” and while they can be vain because they care what others think about them, they are still deep. They think and are witty people, like their fellow air signs. Libra Sun is more care-free and easy going than the libra moon and less romantic because they want to appear care-free and interested in others, but might not really be interested at all. Libra Moon people are more intense. They are romantic and still vain, but they are more modest and insecure the Suns. They are also secretive something the Libra Sun is not. 

Scorpio:

Here and in Capricorn is where I PERSONALLY find the most differences

Similiarities: jealous, egocentric

Differences: if you still think that Scorpio people are the mysterious, dark, non talkative people that the stereotypes have them for, you really do not know many Scorpios SUNS. Scorpio SUNS want to be the center of attention and are charming, and talkative. When they get dark is when they don’t like you… Yeah. Revenge is a big truth here. The Scorpio moon? Now yes, they are the intense, dark, jealous you always thought Scorpios should be. Scorpio Suns might be dark at their core but will not show it, but Scorpio moons are what you see. The Sun is more reckless because just like I said about cancers, in the sun Scorpio acts on their feelings and the moons just feels them. So actually, in spite of being more intense, the Scorpio Moon tends to be kinder and still more jealous.

Sagittarius:

Similarities: EXPLORERS and thin skin

Differences: The Sun has a bigger heart. The moon since its the realm of emotions and Sag escapes, is less empathetic. The Sagittarius Sun is more bubbly than the moon, but the moon is more playful. The Sag sun is pretty easy to spot while the Sag moon might be one of the hardest to see. Sagittarius moons are more critical and snap easily. They are more blunt than the sun. Both are childish in way, it’s the Sag youthful spirit. The Sagittarius Sun is more philosophical and aware, the sag moon is more care-free.

Capricorn:

Similarities: confident and ambitious!

Differences: Are you kidding me? Capricorn suns are way way less introvert! They are not as reserved! The thing is, the Suns try to keep their feelings in check but the Moon though, is naturally hiding them. It’s what they instinctively do since the Moon represents the emotions. The Capricorn sun has a more loud confidence, while the Moon is more cautious. The Capricorn Sun might not be hardworking in areas that do not interest them, but if they want something, they will make everyone know they are going to get it. The Capricorn Moon are prudent and will get what they want with discipline and with anyone realizing how they got to the top! They do not need to say it, they will show you. The Moon is colder than the Sun and more intimidating. Way more intimidating.

Aquarius:

Similarities: I see not much resemblance in these two, maybe the aloofness and Idgaf attitude.

Differences: If I had to say who is the two face of the zodiac I would not turn to the Gemini, surprisingly enough. The Aquarius Sun tho, they are volatile. In the Sun I have trouble understanding them and in the moon they are obvious! The Aquarius Sun looks confident and detached, but this might not be their true emotional nature, just a disguise. They can be happy one moment and angry the next, loving for one second, pushing you away after because of this fighting against what their inner feelings are and what they want their public persona to be. The Moon is less volatile because they really are detached, for the moon it’s not a show. VERY VERY GOOFY, loves attention and IS WITTY. Very unique person and loves/wants to appear weird.

Pisces:

Similarities: creative

Aries: Feeling like your heart is about to explode when you're around that special person

Taurus: Love seems to be something great and I'm afraid that I'll never find it.

Gemini: Does not compute the question. Please try again later.

Cancer: Finding someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Leo: Having someone that will touch my butt and buy me pizza.

Virgo: Giving someone constructive criticism on themselves and being able to accept their criticisms about yourself.

Libra: Fake!!

Scorpio: Giving someone your full heart and not worrying about whether they break it or not.

Sagittarius: Too much work.

Capricorn: Not worth the pain.

Aquarius: Faker than Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy combined.