of course <3

honestly, i’m in a very similar boat, so it’s hard to give advice on this one. if you’re able to safely talk about it, bring it up when you can. explain to her how you feel, tell her your story, describe your dysphoria. try to help her understand as best she can and help her understand it’s not something you chose, and keep your patience. tell her that what you need most right now is her support, but also understand yourself that things like this take time, and it may be years until your mom comes around. it honestly is a very hard thing for other people to understand, especially older generations. i think as long as you keep the conversation going in a healthy way she may come around some day. godspeed and keep me updated if you can!! <3

i think people let these things get to them too much, so eventually it just turns into a big heated blowout over someone on the internet having a difference in stance. i used to do the same, and honestly, after taking a break from it all for a while, it’s all quite laughable. i think a lot of people who are active in discourse (on either side) could benefit from taking a breather every now and again and realize that its not *that* deep.

honestly i think the labels of “transmed” and “”tucute”” are completely useless now and it just kinda makes you stick out like a sore thumb. but, with that, while i think it is a bit of an oxymoron to be mogai and transmed, i am not the one who dictates what you label your stance as. you are.

just because you have minimal to no bottom dysphoria doesn’t mean you don’t have dysphoria. there are some guys who are dysphoric about one thing and not the other. not everyone is dysphoric about the same things, and not everyone is as dysphoric as others. but, i should also note that just because you want a “boy-like” body doesn’t necessarily mean you’re trans. it’s a tricky thing to navigate, and my best advice to you is to 1.) try living as a guy if you can. try having your close friends call you he/him and tell them you’re just trying to figure it out and 2.) put a lot of thought into it. are you uncomfortable being seen and known as a female, or are you just a female uncomfortable with certain aspects of your body? can you see yourself living as a man, even in elderly years? imagine yourself in scenarios where you are male, things as simple as going to the store or talking to your friend on the phone. this may help you determine if what you’re experiencing is dysphoria or not. if all else fails, see a gender therapist. their whole job is to help you navigate and understand these feelings. be completely truthful with them, because they won’t be able to help you if you don’t. i hope this was able to help!

y’all really still think this is witty?? get a new comeback. this shit is hella outdated and u just look like a clown

funny cuz as a pre-everything trans guy i very much do respect other trans ppl regardless of their stage in transition. why would you even think that i wouldn’t?

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yeah man!!! np, glad you enjoy the content :^)

yeah, i think a lot of people are misinformed on what dysphoria is, thus leading them to believe they don’t have it. there is a huge issue of misscommunication between the two sides and i honestly think it could be lessened if people took the time to be more articulate in the way they describe their stances on the subject.

hi!! i hope you’re having a nice night :^) this can be a really tricky subject to deal with, especially as many people can confuse body dysmorphia for gender dysphoria and vice versa. as a trans guy, i’ve had my fair share of doubt, but that’s usual as accepting yourself is trans can be a really tough pill to swallow. if you are uncomfortable with the fact that you have a female/male body, then you’re trans. i think the reason so many people tend to doubt themselves is because being trans is rare, so it’s hard to believe that you just so happen to also be trans. but of course, if you discover you’re not trans, that is totally okay as well :^) please feel free to dm me if you’d like to talk more about this!!

i don’t know man, things like this can be tricky, but it does sound like you have dysphoria. please feel free to dm me if you’d like to talk about this further, i’d be glad to help if i can.

as long as you aren’t deliberately speaking over trans people you’re fine!! anyone is allowed to have an opinion on anything, don’t let anyone ever tell you different.

aww you’re welcome!! i’m glad you’ve got a good support system at home as well :^)