people on tumblr will see a post about lgbt people being systematically slaughtered in some countrry and go actually it’s lgbtpqia+

Defining your sexuality as uniquely “being attracted to PERSONALITY” is just so condescending and revealing. Like how poorly do you regard your LGBT siblings to cast our experiences in such an ugly superficial light

in my lesbian opinion i think we should, like, collectively take the word “twink” away from people who aren’t actually mlm 

Alternatively we should call people who aren’t twinks and wouldn’t normally be called a twink “twink” just to confuse them and throw them off

We tried that with you and apparently it makes you flustered

Isn’t a twink just a femboy with a few steps missing?

yup also has to be a bottom

please interact with even just One real life gay man god bless

……. i? do?

then it clearly ain’t showing.

i? literally? identify? as? a? gay man? sometimes? wtf?

Fujushis ruin everything

looking at this feels like a hate crime

I feel like if people realized sexuality was about WHO you are attracted to and not HOW you express your attraction they wouldn’t be ripping apart the bisexual community with new words because some people prefer women 51% of the time and men only 49% or whatever. I’m begging you to pick up a book on bisexual history and to understand the historical fluidity of the term. Don’t care about gender? You’re bi. Care about gender? You’re bi. Prefer one gender over the other? You’re bi. These are personal preferences and don’t deserve their own label when they completely go against 50+ years of history.

Wow, nice homophobia, Anon. 

ive been SAYING this but growing up gay is a traumatic experience in and of itself

like not that anyone asked BUT to expand on this but despite the obvious interactions with homophobia that every gay person is bound to encounter its just like…your family/even some close friends never ~truly~ know who you are or what you’re interested in because the Gay Experience is about protecting your identity/interests before everything else so by the time you grow up even your parents - no matter how accepting they think they are - have absolutely no inkling about who you really are as a person and thats just a super lonely and exhausting way to exist within a family or a social circle broe! 

Standards for butchness are also higher for fat people just like standards of femininity are, tbh there's a reason why people are so quick to call ruby fucking rose of all people a butch icon... All this despite the fact that like. Butches are often - more often than not, even - fat. If you can't handle that as part of ur butch positivity or lust for butches (not that I want you to fetishise ppl more than you already do) then what are you even talking about. What butch positivity?

be pansexual whatever but stop pretending it isn’t the exact same identical thing as bisexual with no differences at all, because there is no way to differentiate them without being biphobic, homophobic, or transphobic. saying “pansexual means all and bisexual means two” is transphobic towards non-binary people and homophobic towards non-binary gay people and non-binary lesbians. “pansexual means men, women, and trans people” is transphobic. “pansexual means attraction to hearts/souls/minds/personalities instead of bodies and genders and parts” is biphobic and homophobic and transphobic and is just neo-sapiosexuality.

call me a big mean lgbt but I think accepting, normalizing, and celebrating the same gender love that's illegal in 70 countries around the world is far more important than stopping gay couples from kissing at pride to make romance repulsed aromantic graysexuals more comfortable

if you ask gay couples to not kiss in GSA meetings or at pride--often some of the only places we feel safe being open with our partners--you are a homophobe and do not belong in lgbt spaces

@thisstudentdreamer: Whether aces and aros are discriminated against is irrelevant. That doesn’t change the fact that aces/aros aren’t targeted by anti-LGBT laws (unless they aren’t cis or het ofc) and that aces/aros haven’t been a part of LGBT activism or LGBT history until very, very recently. Even now their participation (as aces/aros, outside of being otherwise trans/nb or lgb) in LGBT life has been more about gaining visibility and recognition than any actual contribution to or similarities with the rest of the community.