hey hi hello, I'm Moxie/Torch/Dreamor, among other names, and I use they/them, x/x's, or coinself pronouns. I am a trigender transmasc woman or man in my 30s. I'm a lego movie & show fan, a casual furry, and my favorite pokémon is cradily. this is not a roleplay blog, I died on the cross for this URL.
The vast majority of my reblogs are queued. My queue is several months long. If I like your art without reblogging, I probably am saving it until I put it in my queue and it comes out in 2031. My queue is slowly being refilled but doesn't have anywhere near as many posts in it as it used to.
about myself!
I am autistic! my autism greatly affects my life and how I interact with others. please be patient and use clear, direct language with me. if I cross boundaries, let me know as soon as you can so I can apologize and correct my behavior.
I am an adult! I have interests that relate to children's media and fandoms largely consisting of minors, and I enjoy items and activities commonly called "childish." I am still an adult and would like to be treated like one. I don't mind interacting with minors, and will always aim to act appropriately around them, but our dynamic will not be the same as my relationships with friends my own age.
I am trigender! I am male, female, and xenogendered all at the same time. being a woman does not negate me being a man, and vice versa. if I talk about the issues I face as a man, woman, nonbinary person, or like, any gendered issues, don't argue with me about what I actually am. to be clear, I am transmasc, so the issues I face are coming from that perspective and not one of a transfem person. In addition, if you think there is systemic oppression against men as a class I will think you are a misogynist and I will be correct.
other things! I am white mexican-american (USA) & sometimes I reblog or say things talking about racism and/or global issues & it's important for ppl to know what perspective I'm coming from.
tag list!
"#that is my favorite meme okay": personal/text post tag.
"#draw what makes your heart do the smiley emote": art tag, including some fuse bead art.
"#i forget if i have a perler tag": fuse bead art tag.
"#my writing": my writing, usually reblogged from my writing blog.
"#reality levels tag": this is both a work of fiction and the very real way I view our universe.
"#reference" "#save tag" "#inspiration" "#aesthetic": I go back and look at these tags often so I figured I'd link them in this post to make it easier for me.
"#good things today": tag for noticing good things that I want to update more frequently
my writing blog is @realityandrebirth!
this blog and my main writing blog are fine for minors to follow; adults can ask for my 18+ personal blog.
my website is realityandrebirth.com! I am also on bluesky [realityandrebirth.bsky.social] and Ao3 [mattecat]; both are SFW, but I ask that only adults follow me on bluesky. I exist on other websites but am not active on them.
have a good day!
