my biggest issue when people try to justify why they donβt ship boblena (you can just simply not like it I promise itβs fine) is that you guys confuse Yelenaβs independence and girlboss writing with loneliness, but also view that as a bad thing.
Yelena IS lonely this has been established in the thunderbolts* film, sheβs literally looking for people to vent to, but she is also a fierce assassin, that can kill people and has been training for this her whole life. Yelena potentially falling in love with literally anybody or having more than a friendship with someone is something that also a lot of people deem as weak or stupid, because weβve made it seem like falling in love is the worst thing that can happen to a woman.
And also because I genuinely believe some of you donβt trust these characterβs to grow and learn from their past even in a relationship. Like a lot of the conversations around Bob sound insensitive and just straight up mean about the recovery process.
I also think some of you need to learn how to block shit you donβt like and move on
