meme me up, scotty

I never got over anything. I miss everyone and everything. nostalgia and grief kill me every day. oh and I also love going on walks.

my fear of abandonment? well that comes from my experience of being abandoned

Cuck chair? No this is the director's chair. Cut! Where is the passion, guys? Try thinking of me

Something that I first applied to working with children, and have applied in a limited form to working with adults: you don't need to tell someone when they read your instructions wrong. Sometimes it's enough to point out what they did right and then whatever they didn't do? You ask them to do it in more precise words, and you make it sound like it's a new request. Remarkable how fast things get done this way.

This is also a habit I built up from emergency response training. If I say "I need you to bring me a first aid kit and an accident report" and you bring me just a first aid kit, it's so much more efficient to say "thanks now can you bring me an accident report" than "I asked you to bring an accident report why didn't you bring me one".

Once you've internalized "a person bleeding out is one of the worst times to start an argument" you start to wonder what other tasks could get accomplished without arguing

hello to all the beautiful exhausted intelligent resentful compassionate irritated women of the internet i love you

Sometimes you really need a good personality on your staff.

8/21/2025