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about the mun: my name is graves. i use they/them pronouns. i'm 29. i have no triggers i need tagged. i love talking ooc to people! please always feel free to drop in my DMs. if you prefer discord, i'm happy to give it to my mutuals. i have sporadic activity due to work/personal life and mental health reasons.

i. this blog is elderly in rp years. it has been revamped as of 01/25 when i returned to rping after a long hiatus.

ii. i am mutuals only. i don't interact with people i don't follow. i check my followers, so i will eventually see when someone follows me. if you have a separate sideblog for rp and follow from another blog, i accept people letting me know so that i know who you are! i accidentally unfollow sideblogs sometimes if i somehow miss that it's a sideblog and see that it doesn't follow me.

iii. if we are mutuals and you want to unfollow me, please softblock me. super awkward thinking we are mutuals and trying to interact with someone who doesn't want to rp with me!

iv. common sense things: no godmoding, communicate with me if you want to control my muse a bit in your reply besides for very simple things (i.e. handing something to one another), and talk to me when there is violence involved, especially if it's about assuming my muse is going to get hurt; no drama, no being an asshole; etc.

v. i prefer not interacting with minors, so 18+ please. this blog contains triggering, adult themes. i tag major triggers and try to keep triggers of people i follow in mind, but i may admittedly mess up. please let me know if this happens. i tag things with "_______ cw" like "blood cw" and etc. that said, triggering content is fairly common, and i would suggest not following if any of these are dealbreakers: mental illness, all kinds of abuse, stalking, harassment, unhealthy patterns of behavior such as obsession.

vi. there may be usfw content on this blog, whether sexual, alluding to abusive/toxic situations, violent, etc. i'm down for most things, so long as it's not glorifying inappropriate content.

vii. that said, mun doesn't equal muse. if you can't understand that, please do not follow. i rp some bastards on here, and i don't approve of their behaviors in real life. obviously. but if you aren't comfortable with how our characters are interacting, please let me know because i don't wish to make anyone upset/triggered at all! i've had some bad experiences with people who don't speak up or mistake rping toxic content as me condoning it. i try to be conscientious, but i also can't read minds.

viii. i use small text, light formatting, and sometimes 100x100 icons. let me know if this is an issue. i generally write multi-para, whatever i feel needs to be said. i don't expect matched length, but i do need replies to have enough substance to go off of. i likely won't follow you if you write purple-prose or your formatting is too heavy - i simply cannot understand what it is you're saying, sorry.

ix. please specify at least one muse! i may not be certain of who you primarily followed to interact with, and i don't want to disappoint. it makes me anxious.

x. when i send memes, i tend to spam a few. it's to give options. i don't expect you to reply to all of them, it's entirely up to you!