Hi!

This is for my girlies, gays, they & thems! Your Rising Sign determines the type of person who can't get over you.

We look at the Descendant (the sign opposite your rising sign) to see who is subconsciously drawn to you to complete themselves. You are their "Shadow Work" in human form, hence why the obsession is so hard for them to break. The reason why your Rising Sign matters is because it determines the sign + planets in your 7H, aka your romantic connections & partners (including exes). You embody what they lack, that's why they can't let you go.

❤️♈️ARIES: The person who cannot get over you is probably a Libra placement. They’re charming, indecisive & probably still talking about you to their friends. These people are usually in the arts, fashion, law or customer-led fields. They could be a designer, lawyer, stylist, etc.

💋♉TAURUS: This is someone jealous & devoted, a karmic lover, banker, investor, crisis worker, the f-boy type with dark features & piercing eyes. What draws them in is that you represent everything they secretly want (stability, beauty, peace) and everything their nature makes it hard for them to keep.

💌♊GEMINI: You attract tall, athletic & opinionated individuals. Sagittarius placements specifically. They could be a student, traveler, life coach, counselor, lawyer, coach, or just a free-spirit. They thought they could pin you down, but they NEVER could (unless you say so).

❣️♋️CANCER: The people who NEVER fully get over you are usually older than you. They’re emotionally guarded & never lose their composure. This could be a boss, manager, engineer, somebody self-made or a Capricorn.

🍒♌LEO: Aquarius placements are the ones who walk away from you & then spend years trying to replace what that felt like. They could have androgynous features, or they might be the intellectual type, a gamer, nerdy, observant, a rational personality, or intellectual.

🩸♍️VIRGO: The people who can’t get you out of their mind are artists, religious or spiritual types, dancers, nurses or Pisces placements. You were the first person who ever made them feel truly seen. They probably still have the notes you left them, or the things you fixed for them.

❤️‍🔥♎LIBRA: Aries or Mars-dominant people can’t get over you. They could be the hot-headed type, muscular, with a dominant personality. Maybe they’re an entrepreneur, in the military, a boxer or athlete.

🌹♏️SCORPIO: People with Taurus placements crave your energy so bad! They could be a cook, musician, banker, investor or a stubborn person who loves beautiful things & refuses to admit how much they feel.

🍓♐️SAGITTARIUS: You attract people who are younger than you & they can’t get over your energy because you constantly stimulate their mind. They have prominent Gemini placements, and they could be a student, writer, interpreter, podcaster, or they might have a twin.

🍷♑CAPRICORN: It's the Cancer placements who never truly move on from you. This person could be moody & protective, family-oriented, clingy, or soft-hearted. They could be a chef, therapist, nurse, a stay-at-home parent, historian or anyone who builds their whole life around caring for something.

💄♒️AQUARIUS: Leo placements are the ones who can't stop thinking about you, which is interesting because they will absolutely never admit it. These are the performers, creatives, actors, musicians, influencers, CEOs, anyone who needs to be the center of something! What threw them off about you, is that you didn't need anything from them. You saw through them & accepted them for who they really were.

🎈♓PISCES: The person who can’t forget you could be a doctor, accountant, researcher, technician, nurse, writer, somebody pragmatic & observant, or quite reserved. Virgo placements (especially the introverts) can’t get enough of your energy. They probably still think about you when something unexplainably beautiful happens & they can't find the rational reason why.

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Libra risings got the PRETTIEST EYES MY GOD.

Taurus risings have a sweet tooth lol.

Taurus Mercuries voices crack when they yell/get angry.

Scorpio Mercury people sound sultry/sensual often even when they don't intend to.

Sagittarius Venus can have age gaps with their partner.

Aries Venus people fall hard and fast.

Cancer Mars people tend to direct anger inwards rather than outwards.

Mars in the 2nd house people value sex and emotions heavily - it's huge for them.

Neptune in first house are ETHEREAL.

Leo Mercury people are LOUDDD.

Capricorn risings all have very serious faces, very stern looking people generally.

Pisces moons are pretty criers.

Gemini placements have nice hands and often work with them or do something that draws focus to them.

Aquarius placements have a unique feature that sets them apart/draws attention to them. (one of my best friends has an aqua partner who has vitiligo, as an example!).

Cancer moon people are caretakers, but deep down wanna be babied lol.

Capricorn placements are the best entrepreneurs. (my uncle is a cap and runs his own business w/ his wife!)

Years ago, after my father passed away, my family had a new black Mitsubishi Lancer.....I loved this one there was nothing wrong with it.

My uncle spent years insisting that there was.

Not aggressively. He'd casually mention how dangerous the engine supposedly was. How something could happen to the tires. How we could get into a horrible accident if we kept driving it. Every conversation came wrapped in concern, jokes, and helpful advice. Until he got us that trusted mechanic and convinced us that the motor was swapped and that it actually belonged to another car etc....which is total bullshit.

It happened so often that eventually my mother became scared.

My cousin kept telling us not to listen repeatedly.

My grandmother kept warning my mother not to sell the car.

Guess who turned out to be right?

Years later we found out there was nothing wrong with the car at all. The whole thing had been exaggerated and pushed until my mother sold it for far less than it was worth. The real issue wasn't the engine. The real issue was that my uncle didn't want my mother or us having the freedom to go wherever we wanted.

The astrology part is

My uncle was a Libra.

My mother is an Aquarius Sun, Leo Moon, Cancer Rising.

My cousin is a September Virgo-Libra.

And the person who immediately smelled that something wasn't right was my grandmother, a Scorpio stellium with an Aquarius Rising.

One thing I've noticed over the years is that people often talk about Scorpio placements as if they're always the manipulators in the room.

Sometimes they're the ones who spot the manipulation first.

A developed Scorpio doesn't just see what people say. They watch motives, they watch patterns. They notice when concern starts feeling like control.

Meanwhile, my Aquarius mother wanted to believe family was acting in good faith. My Virgo-Libra cousin kept pointing out that the story wasn't adding up. And my Scorpio grandmother was sitting there like, "Absolutely not. Don't you dare sell it."

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moon ☽ in aries ♈︎: emotions are always expressed in brute manners, mainly vulgar, impulsive, and harsh. you're not someone to sit still or take the time to take things slow. you must be involved in all situations first or be at the front of the line. your desires are high standing, risky, and rugged. colors of bright red may trigger aggression and feelings of adrenaline.

moon ☽ in taurus ♉︎: you're adorned with money, gifts, and many forms of indulgence from the mother/feminine figures of life. you take your time in choice making and through any process you place yourself in. the neck and skin are both sensitive; you need to be involved with the beauty of life. expressing your desires is healing.

moon ☽ in gemini ♊︎: thoughts, ideas, and new forms of creativity all clash with your emotions. what is there to do with your hands? you must always be on the move, needing to implement new structures into your life and solving word puzzles. reading and learning new skills are a passion, you need it all to stay in the air.

moon ☽ in cancer ♋︎ : the influence of family, procreation, and the mother figure are of an importance with moon at home in this sign. its important to understand the connections of the family structure so you may be involved with community building most of your life. you may be pulled towards children and areas involving the childhood.

moon ☽ in leo ♌︎ : confidence and pride are keys that link to how you secure and motivate yourself emotionally. you may feel inadequate if others you feel protective of don't allow you to protect them. your stomach is prominent and you may be susceptible to stomach aches depending on your mood.

moon ☽ in virgo ♍︎: your worries may be at the forefront of every event when it comes to your emotions. you're someone who seeks to understand the depth of emotional issues rather than sticking to the constant positive or ego. getting into video games, racing, or even research around movement and direction may stimulate your senses.

moon ☽ in libra ♎︎ : stability, security, and emotional expression are always involved in group settings as well as with those that are able to influence you to upgrade in your life. you must have the connections of social media and discussion with you, this gives you the chances of expressing your desires, wants, and needs in a blunt and elegant manner.

☽ in scorpio ♏︎ : the emotions are always pointed towards the downsides and darknesses of life and self expression. the dark of the bedroom is the humble abode while understanding that it's okay to make large changes over time. the mother may be draining.

☽ in sagittarius ♐︎ : feelings are not tied to anyone or anything, but instead drawn or pointed towards new environments and lifestyles. you are the scrapbook full of samples that are worth tasting and throwing away all at the same time.

☽ in capricorn ♑︎ : you set your emotions into a form of stability that bound you by the connections you make with others. family expects so much yet you must maintain self control. being aware of control is a lesson in life. the mother is strong but hurt.

☽ in aquarius ♒︎ : you may seek everything outside your home as the true essence of ancestry and roots. you're not connected to just anyone but have the ability to connect with everyone all at the same time. staying open to what's to come is your bestfriend.

venus in scorpio or the 8th house you do not do the light or airy version of romance. for you love is an undressing of the psyche before it is ever an undressing of the body. you want to know where the secrets are buried and you want to see the scars that everyone else is too afraid to touch. a casual date feels like a waste of oxygen because you are looking for a total soul merger. you would rather face a difficult truth than live in a beautiful lie and you find your power in the intensity that most people spend their whole lives running from.

moon in the 8th or 12th house your emotional world is a subterranean ocean with tides that nobody else can see. you pick up on the hidden grief and the unspoken hunger of every room you enter which makes superficial connections feel incredibly hollow. you need a person who can sit in the silence with you and not blink when the lights go out. for you safety is found in the deep end and if someone isn't brave enough to look at your shadows you simply have no room for them in your heart.

pluto aspecting venus or the moon this is the ride or die contract that you did not even read before signing. your heart operates on an all or nothing policy. whether it is a conjunction a square or an opposition the tension is so high that you possess zero patience for the maybe or the halfway. you want the secrets the baggage and the raw truth all in one go. you find beauty in the broken and the mysterious and you realize that a bond is only worth holding if it can survive the fire of a total transformation.

saturn in the 7th house or conjunct the ruler of the 7th you treat a partnership like a lifelong investment that requires iron integrity. you are not looking for the temporary sparks or the social media highlights; you are looking for the grit it takes to build a legacy. relationships feel like a serious responsibility and you have a total refusal to settle for anyone who does not respect your time or your standards. you find your best self through the connections that stay when the highlights are over and the actual heavy lifting begins.

heavy water stellium you possess an emotional depth that acts as a drowning hazard for anyone who is used to the shallows. having three or more planets in cancer scorpio or pisces means your spirit is tuned to a level of total empathy and surrender. you want to feel the invisible threads that connect you to another person and if the bond does not have a spiritual or psychological pulse you feel like you are starving. you nurture people into existence and you expect a level of heart that most people are not ready to give.

personal planets at the 29th degree you carry the weary wisdom of someone who has already finished the story lifetimes ago. nothing about the standard social games feels new or interesting to you. if your sun moon or venus sits at the last degree of a sign you have high standards because you know exactly how the game ends. you are looking for a connection that has a backbone and a history and you find the shallow noise of the modern dating world to be a personal insult to your spirit.

sun in the 8th or 12th house you are a hidden main character who finds your identity in the shadows. you move through reality with a quiet authority that suggests you have seen the bottom of the ocean and decided to stay there. people who live on the surface find you intimidating or unreachable because you refuse to perform for an audience. you find your grounding in the private and the intense and you realize that your greatest wealth is the spiritual depth you keep locked behind closed doors.

the ruler of the 7th house in the 8th or 12th house your connections feel like fated contracts or shared secrets against the rest of the world. you attract people who act as catalysts for your own total self reinvention. your relationships carry a blurry and ethereal quality that makes the physical world feel a bit too sharp. for you love is a descent into the mystery and you find your peace only when you are part of a pair that understands that the most real things are the ones you cannot see.

heavy fixed sign dominance you possess a level of loyalty that is actually a biological fact. once you decide someone is worth your spirit you are as immovable as a mountain. this means you have zero interest in the temporary or the people who change their minds when the wind shifts. you want the long term and the unbreakable and you find the flakiness of modern life to be a crime against your integrity. you would rather wait a decade for the real thing than spend a single night with a ghost.

mercury aspecting pluto you find small talk to be physically painful. when mercury connects with pluto in a conjunction square or opposition your mind is a detective that never sleeps. you don't listen to the words people say; you listen to the motive behind them. you need a mental connection that handles the raw truth and the dark secrets because everything else feels like a lie. you would rather discuss the meaning of death or the depths of the psyche than talk about the weather for five minutes.

mars in the 8th house your desires are primal and your drive is subterranean. you are not interested in a connection that doesn't have a bit of heat or a lot of risk. you fight for the truth and you want a bond that feels like a high stakes mission. for you intimacy is a site of constant construction and total transformation. you find your grit when you are backed into a corner with someone you trust and you show us all that true power is found when you refuse to blink in the dark.

ruler of the 8th house in the 7th house your relationships are the primary site of your total self reinvention. you don't attract casual dates; you attract soul mergers and fated contracts. every person you get close to is a mirror for your own hidden shadows and you learn who you are only when you are deep in a connection that forces you to change. you find your balance when you realize that a partnership is the most intense psychological work you will ever do.

venus aspecting saturn your heart is built for the long game and the slow build. you have a built in filter that rejects anyone who looks temporary or flaky. you show your love through iron integrity and the fact that you never make a promise you can't keep. for you a connection is only real if it has the potential to become a legacy. you find your best self with the people who respect your time and your standards and who are willing to stay through the coldest winter.

jupiter in the 8th house you find your luck in the deep end of the pool. while others are afraid of the mysteries you are the one who finds the jewels hidden in the dark. you find expansion through total soul mergers and shared resources. your spirit refuses to be satisfied with a shallow belief system or a lukewarm relationship. you realize that the most profound miracles happen right after a total collapse and you find your joy in the constant rebirth of your own soul.

⊹ ຯ ׁ side note : this is a general post !!! don’t take everything literally because every single placement in your birth chart can show what kind of person you are when you’re in love with someone! just enjoy ♡.

aries venus, 5th or 7th house in aries, venus conjunct mars ♡ can fall in love in like 3 seconds. i’m not even joking. if they love you, you’ll know. they fall in love quickly and don't waste any time. the chase excites them. usually, if they really love someone, they tell them as soon as possible. they also show it a lot. if an aries venus person wants to kiss you, they will. if they miss you, they will come to you. in fact, they are very direct in their love style and extremely in tune with their feelings. also, these people don't think much about what they do when they are in love. they act on impulsive thoughts. they are not the type to hide anything at all. these natives will want to have a lot of dates just to see their partner. they may hate being distanced from them. on the other hand, their quick interest can fade very quickly too, aries venuses tend to get bored after a while. they need action on a daily basis to truly be happy in a romantic relationship. breakups can hurt them for a while but they generally are able to move on quickly.

taurus venus, 5th or 7th house in taurus ♡ unlike aries venus, people with venus in taurus don’t fall in love quickly, but when they do, it’s deeply and for a long time. they are sooo grounded in love. venus in taurus creates committed partners in a relationship. spending quality time with their lover is crucial. they especially enjoy dates where they can eat and share with their chosen one. their love is sooo connected to their senses. they absolutely hate toxic or unstable relationships. they hate sudden changes. however, they can get quite possessive and/or jealous of their lover, just like a scorpio venus would, but it’s not always noticeable. they are generally veryyyy tactile and i feel like physical touch is one of their main love languages. i noticed that they are the kind of people who shares their food with their partner, they love doing that.

gemini venus, 5th or 7th house in gemini ♡ they are attracted to people who stimulate them mentally : funny, flirty, wise, curious, intelligent, cultured people... it doesn't matter as long as they can have lively conversations together. i feel like they are not the type to stop at looks. this placement creates someone who falls in love extremely quickly but can also get bored just as quickly, especially if the spark starts fading. but the real challenge is keeping a gemini venus interested, otherwise he/she might become detached and potentially cheat. in love, they are not faithful by nature! they are mutable people, who evolve in the blink of an eye. they can be REALLY affectionate and demonstrative, i’m not saying otherwise, but emotional constancy isn’t their strong suit.

cancer venus, 5th or 7th house in cancer ♡ date to marry only. into long-term bonds. they have a tender, almost maternal love for their partner. in a relationship, they will do anything for that person. they will protect them, nurtur them and cherish them like no one else would. however, these natives have difficulty expressing their needs clearly and often expect others to guess exactly what they want or need. this placement indicates someone who likes their partner to include them in their family because they themselves would be able to do it. they would even be hurt if their partner doesn’t include them in their inner circle. in fact, they are very sensitive to their partner's reactions and/or words. for example, a sentence spoken in a cold tone can sadden them all day.

leo venus, 5th or 7th house in leo ♡ they need a partner who shines brightly in their eyes. they are attracted to people who are coveted by others. in a relationship, they put their partner on a pedestal and hope that their partner will do the same for them. it is impossible for people with this placement to love in secret. they want everyone to know that they are in love. at their best, they are loyal and generous lovers who make you feel adored. love is something to celebrate in public. you might think they'd be the type to let go of someone who hurt them quickly because of their ego, but that's not the case. surprisingly, they have a hard-time letting go someone they had true feelings for. leo venus people tend to be romantic. leo’s are all about attention and praise, so if they feel they are not being treated with the respect they deserve, they will suffer and leave a relationship. may have dramatic arguments with their partner.

virgo venus, 5th or 7th house in virgo ♡ a very complex venus sign. probably the most difficult one to have. they are the archetype of the eternally dissatisfied. these people definitely don’t get into relationships easily. people with their venus in virgo are not swayed by superficial promises. they analyze, judge and criticize the slightest actions and gestures of their lover, it's just stronger than them. these people tend to search for the ideal partner, except that an ideal partner, or just a « perfect » person in general, doesn’t exist and never will. most of them are scared of being too vulnerable or hurt. they love and express love when they are shown the most devoted acts possible. these natives show their love through acts of service, giving advices, etc.. if they are in love with someone who’s nervous because of them, they will most likely love it. they love it when people appreciate the efforts they make.

libra venus, 5th or 7th house in libra ♡ the most romantic people you will ever meet have this placement. and if they are not even a LITTLE BIT romantic towards you, then it means that they are not in love. libra venus people are lovers of love. girls with this placement love giving/receiving flowers, writing love letters, telling their lover sweet words, etc. in my opinion, out of all the venus air signs, libra venus is the most devoted of the 3. they are capable of making important sacrifices for their loved one, not only because they hate conflict/confrontation, but also because they find it difficult to let someone they love go. they seek balance, harmony, pleasure. their biggest flaw is that, just like people with a leo venus, they love receiving attention! they can get unintentionally flirty with others, even when in a relationship.

scorpio venus, 5th or 7th house in scorpio, venus conjunct pluto ♡ with them, it’s all or nothing. they are deeply transformed by their relationships, whether they were negative or positive ones. and they also transform others, unconsciously. but let's be clear, they don't fall off or attach quickly at all, because every relationship has the potential to destroy them. scorpio venus people don’t trust easily, mostly because deep down, they can’t even trust themselves. their own intensity terrifies them. they are scared of how devoted they get because most of the time, it’s not reciprocated. and because of that, they just KNOW they will get hurt at some point. yes, they can be jealous. yes, they can be possessive or obsessive. yes, they can be difficult to read, to understand. but deep down, i believe that no one will ever love as much as they do. no one should ever betray their trust, because it’s unforgivable in their eyes. for some, it can be difficult to truly forget an ex. that person might linger in the back of their mind for years. love always transforms their worldview sooner or later.

sagittarius venus, 5th or 7th house in sagittarius, venus conjunct jupiter ♡ the kind of person who has many crushes at the same time. they see love as something exciting, something that can bring them happiness or adventure. they want a partner who will help them grow in every sense of the word. in love, they like to debate, to understand the world through the prism of their lover. they also like to travel, to discover an unknown world together. they appreciate meaningful discussions as well as shared laughter. even if they go through a difficult breakup, they remain positive because they know that the future always holds the best for them (sag venuses are naturally luckier than others in love). that’s why they seem to move on without any major problem. they can suffer but they NEVER see that as a fatality ! these natives see relationships and romantic breakups as life lessons meant to help them grow, nothing more. in general, they become better people after a break up.

capricorn venus, 5th or 7th house in capricorn, venus conjunct saturn ♡ definitely not the kind to fall in love within a second. they need an almost infinite amount of time to give you their full trust. for them, trust is earned; you have to work to obtain it. people with their venus in capricorn can go years without any romantic relationship, and usually, that suits them perfectly. these people are very independent and don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. in a relationship, they are very loyal because they themselves can’t stand any sort of betrayal. people with a capricorn venus treat their partner with devotion and seriousness, they are not the type to maintain relationships that will not last over time. they have a very soft side for people they care about! they don't show much but what they do show is more than enough to understand that they love and care for you. they have a lot of trouble verbally saying ‘i love you’.

aquarius venus, 5th or 7th house in aquarius, venus conjunct uranus ♡ misunderstood. it’s the first word that comes to my mind when i think of this placement. these people are hard to understand. they love electrifying relationships, relationships that are out of the ordinary because they hate routine. they can get into a relationship quickly, or on the contrary, take a long time before fully committing. i noticed that most of them tend to have had very brief relationships. these people intellectualize love a lot. physical appearance doesn’t really matters here. in fact, it’s kind of insignificant for them. they have trouble expressing what they like or want to their partner, so they distance themselves. aqua venus people are attracted to people who respect their need of indepence, they hate feeling restricted by someone. just like capricorn venus, they have a tendency to not say ‘i love you’ easily. they show love and attachment by sharing their biggest interests with you. their need for space will always take priority, sometimes even at the expense of the emotional bond. fun fact : i almost ALWAYS see it in the birth charts of gay/queer people (because uranus = non-conformity).

pisces venus, 5th or 7th house in pisces, venus conjunct neptune ♡ so sweet, i love them. they fall in love in seconds tho! 😭 they should definitely protect their hearts more. these people are the og daydreamers. i wonder what they would be without their imagination. they create many scenarios in their heads. they dream of their loved one and idealize them more than anyone else. even if they have known them for a short time. they will even tend to fall in love with the person they have imagined in their mind, not the actual person. people with venus in pisces believe strongly in love and put lots of faith in it. loving someone is almost a mystical thing for them; it’s spiritual, deep, sacred. but unfortunately, they tend to live relationships more in their heads than in real life. and when they decide to fully experience love, reality catches up to them real quick. their biggest flaw is that they give their complete trust, almost blindly. they have an incredibly high amount of faith in people and we simply can't blame them for that. they are capable of forgetting themselves, sacrificing themselves and exceeding their limits for love.

⊹ here is an example : i have my venus in sagittarius. i’m a very positive person when i love someone. it brings me a lot of happiness most of the time. this isolated placement might describe me as "frivolous". but my 5th house is in capricorn! i don’t jump from one relationship to another, i would actually hate doing that. i see love as something that must be concrete and taken seriously. i can’t accept someone wasting my time. i’m able to can cut ties easily if i feel like i'm not valued enough. however, my 7th house is in pisces so when i trust someone, i get head over heels quickly. i imagine living the perfect relationship and it makes me dream. sadly, sometimes i am disappointed by reality, i usually give my all to the people i really love ♡.

Hey guysss. This will be a continuation of my part one so if you haven't seen that one I highly recommend checking it outttt.

𝕃𝕖𝕠/𝕊𝕦𝕟 𝕚𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝟞𝕥𝕙 𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕤𝕖 - boo you need to let yourself shine and be seen in whatever it is that you do. Especially if you have the Sun here there is this need to express yourself through your work, your art, your talent. People sometimes don't even realise that even medicine, engineering, investigation can be a form of art. When you let yourself express your work you will feel like you have a reason to keep going. It might even be something as simple as posting your work on social media, but regardless putting yourself out there and letting people see you even if it scares the shit out of you will put that battery on your back to continue forward. Leo's especially love to be seen and admired, and you never know who you will inspire with your work if you do end up expressing yourself. In whatever shape or form it might be, you just need to do something that feels authentic to YOU! This placement feels like they can keep going when they are acknowledged for their hard work and their uniqueness, so once you own yourself truly you will feel more grounded. Since the 12th house is in Aquarius, there seems to be this need to help everyone and be humanitarian for everyone but forget yourself. Baby you need to stand up and OWN your ideas in the workplace. They are YOUR creative gifts that you poured your heart into, not someone elses fruits to reap while you put in the whole work. And you might feel like you have to compromise and to share because some recognition, or some type of belonging is better than none. But trust me when I say you aren't meant to deplete yourself dry for other mf's who couldn't care less about you. You are meant to own your work, sometimes even detach or leave certain work places because you aren't meant to be working with people who don't want to see you shine. Even if it pains you, even if you have an emotional connection with them. Sometimes you need to let go of certain groups and be okay with standing on your own. The brightest stars shine in the dark, and baby you aren't a regular star, you are THE BRIGHTEST one, you are THE SUN!

𝕍𝕚𝕣𝕘𝕠/𝕄𝕖𝕣𝕔𝕦𝕣𝕪 𝟞𝕥𝕙 𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕤𝕖 - I know your impatient ass isn't gonna like this one, but DISCIPLINE and ROUTINE are important. I know, I know. But before you stop reading this long ass post and going on a tangent.✋🏽 Babe you really need to implement this. I KNOWWW it's boring. Trust me. Been there done that. Like who wants to do that big ass work when you can do the shit you want to do right. But babe you gotta understand how incredibly powerful you are. You have sooo much energy that needs to be channeled PROPERLY. And if you go hitting the wall like a bull in a china shop it won't get you that far. You need to RATION your energy and get a grip on it. There's a reason why Virgos are considered control freaks. That same way you need to ration your energy and control it before it controls you. And that energy can come in so many shapes and forms, whether that is physical, emotional, MENTAL or even sexual. Just know that you've been blessed with it but it can turn on you if you don't have a GRIP on it. You need to form a plan. You need to strategize. Pen on paper! Write down all the bullshit you need to get done, literally make a list. Your mind can sometimes deceive you with the amount of shit you think you have to do but once you approach the situation methodically you will understand that everything can be done. Also especially if you have a strong 12th house like me (I'm an Aries Rising with a Pisces Mars 😭), you HAVE to break your goals down into small steps. Literally break it down into small applicable steps you can do everyday to get there. This will help you feel less overwhelmed and it will be easier to keep going and not give up when you know you have this bullshit of a list to do, and you get rid of those tasks so you can do whatever you want with your day. Make it so stupidly simple that you even laugh at it, like studying 2 chapters a day etc. Trust me when I sayyyy, this will change your life. I implemented this method when studying for Uni and I recently got my exam results back and they were all straight A's. But the path leading to it. Loooorrddddd. It will feel BORING ASFFFF and you will DREAD doing it BUT it will give you confidence. Because discipline is soooo hotttttt! Like when have you been attracted to someone that isn't doing anything with their life?! Very raree. Also YOU will feel HOT asf. Like once you get that thing you want you will get that "No one can say SHIT to me no more" I swear your D will grow 5 inches LOL!

𝕃𝕚𝕓𝕣𝕒/𝕍𝕖𝕟𝕦𝕤 𝟞𝕥𝕙 𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕤𝕖 - falling in love with what you do is soooo important here. And I KNOWW this will sound like such a stretch. You're probably thinking "wtf is she on about" 😭, but I'm being sooo serious. You need to love what you do and you also need to feel like your environment is filled with beauty and charm. Maybe dressing up for work can really help boost your confidence, or even in the routine. Surrounding yourself with beautiful pieces of furniture, paintings, art, gardens. Maybe even working on interior design, could all be things that you need to develop. Also I can not stress how important a balanced and harmonious work environment is for you. You can't thrive in CHAOS and competition and jealousy. It will kill your artistic side. You love beauty and you also love that baggg💰. You love brining people together, and working with a team on a project. You also love having people around when you do the mundane, the routine etc. One of your love languages can be acts of service or just quality time with someone. Since your 12th house is Aries, this gives me the idea that you might be a people pleaser, someone that struggles with asserting themselves in the workplace as you try to keep the peace. Or you might struggle with being indecisive because you really wanna weigh every single option before forming an opinion. But babe I really think that sometimes you overthink your choices. You might even second guess yourself so you go talking to everyone and getting everyone's opinion on a matter. Sometimes it's about letting loose and saying "fuck it". Once you start living your life a bit more boldly you will realise that there is so much out there for youuu. Remember that your best quality is TACT. You really know how to talk to people and are so smart about social dynamics. Holding on to your opinions doesn't make people gravitate away from you but to you. Basically believe in YOURSELF babe! And if anyone has a problem with that just know that they are JEALOUSSS of how you carry yourself and of your ideas, you absolute queen/king!

𝕊𝕔𝕠𝕣𝕡𝕚𝕠/ℙ𝕝𝕦𝕥𝕠 𝕚𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝟞𝕥𝕙 𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕤𝕖 - alright lemme talk to your ADHD brain for a second because BABE, you need to IMMERSE yourself into something. And maybe it's hard for you to do that. Maybe you are the person who jumps from topic to topic and likes to know the basics about something. A jack of all trades but a master of none. BUT. This one needs you to let yourself be transformed by something in your day to day. It can even be a topic that interests you and you suddenly get the urge to know all of the ins and outs of this thing. Sometimes I get the feeling like you don't want to slow down. Especially if you have a 12th house Taurus. You don't feel comfortable with staying in one place for too long. You want to move, to exploree. But sometimes you need to let yourself to be changed. It might even scare the shit out of you. You might even DREAD it and be like "oh my God, can I LIVE. Can I BREATHE, for one minute!?". But if you constantly jump from one thing to another, and waste your energy on these little things that are chipping away at you, you will be left an empty shell. This one teaches you to go more in depth, whether that is your emotions, your thoughts, it doesn't matter. This teaches you to have SUBSTANCE. And not that you already don't. But you need to learn to sit with yourself once in a while. And by going more in depth is ironically going to make you available to more information. What you truly want is to learn and to share this knowledge, maybe even joke about shit that has happened to you. But you can't keep escaping it. In order for you to be able to reach a new depth, you need to sit down and understand it. By doing this you will realise that situations that happen in your day to day can't control you. But you can control your reaction to them🫶🏼

Whewww I hope you guys liked this. Again take this with the BIGGEST GRAIN OF SALT LOL. Love y'all downnnn, and I'll be back soon.

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In a previous post introducing this money asteroid, I expressed the meaning of what it takes to notice where, how, and what brings in the cash into your life through the birth chart.

It all comes down to the details; how can I manifest money into my life?

Can an asteroid help me to understand how to engage with the value of money energy, and take charge of it in my financial lifestyle?

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Let's break it down; asteroid mony 7782 is the asteroid that holds all aspects of gaining cash, money, deposits, and rules all the ways of having multiple numbers in the bank account.

When looking to the birth chart, the sign, degree, aspects, and house position points to where you're able to make money in your life.

Here are some quick tips involving the elements of the signs that are involved with this asteroid:

Asteroid Mony in the Fire Signs (Aries ♈︎, Leo ♌︎ , Sagittarius) may make money on the go; they are able to greet their finances within moments, with impulsivity, and may take on various different jobs or hobbies that can bring them to the bag with their passions, phases, or hobbies. Involving in jobs or events that have to do with travel, trying new risky situations, or involving shock value into their passions can invite monetary opportunities.

Asteroid Mony in the Water Signs (Cancer ♋︎ , Scorpio, Pisces ♓︎ ♓︎) are able to to use their emotional forms of expression and outlook on possible spell work to bring in money for needs, wants, and desires for caretaking. It is important these signs have money, because everything is a temptation for them.

Asteroid Mony in the Earth ⊕ Signs (Taurus ♉︎, Virgo ♍︎, Capricorn) are able to use long standing , stable, and long term connections/networks that can bring in cash steadily over time. When they are more engaged to the real world and off the internet, they can find themselves making money that can build into community over time.

Sun conjoined North-Node:

These natives are highly ambitious, always striving towards their goals

Saturn in Capricorn:

These people do whatever they can to survive, and once their work is started they don’t stop until completion

Jupiter in Leo:

This placement is the embodiment of “believe in yourself”, they tend to be leaders with good morals and high ambition

Moon in Taurus:

These natives have great manners and receive lots of resources from their family. Their groundedness and sweetness allows them to get along with anybody

11th House South-Node:

scorpio placements are obsessed with eyes, if you want to impress them just wear a dark eyeshadow look, with some liner and there ya go 😭

No but seriously if theres one thing that catches their attention its the eyes!

Virgo mars men are very picky peopleeee, depending on where mars falls in their chart shows were they're super critical of. They have really nice hands, and most of them work with their hands/a hobby of theirs. ex- playing guitar or cooking

one capricorn placement in the birth chart can really change the whole persons demeanor, especially if its in the big 3.

taurus and scorpio go together so well that it feels like your interrupting their conversation or feel like a third wheel when your in a group with them lmao. ( my taurus rising make this easier for me, still hard tho😭)

pisces placements are seen in the arts, they need an outlet for their dreams, they adore music!

so many ppl talk about Saturn- personal planets in synastry means longevity, but in all honesty I’ve noticed these people just give us a lesson on that said planet and leave.

I will admit it is hard to get completely away from them in a mental aspect( you always get reminded of them when it comes to other relationships, bcs it’s ultimately karmic!)

lilith- personal planet aspects and the witch allegations… IM EXHAUSTED LMAO

your fav music artist either has the same rising as you or personal planets in your 1st house/ same personal planets as you. If u wanna go to a deeper level they can fall into your 8th house, the ones you hear when going thru some tuff stuff.

the ppl that are prob gonna do u the dirtiest are in your 7th/ 8th house.

piggy backing on that so many ppl say that envy is found with venus 1st house synastry, but in all honesty venus 8th house takes the cake 100%

I noticed when this synastry manifests negatively ppl will take advantage of your generosity/ keep what’s yours. (The house of give and take, but mostly take…)

ppl will say that you guys look alike when in all actuality you don’t, toxic comparison , weird compliments (“im so jealousss of your clear skin”) like what? lmao

7th house synastry always results in the lovers to enemies trope. It sucks bcs these people can feel like your other half, but once they do u dirty is horrible. (is this just my scorpio 7th house u guys 😔😭💔💔💔💔)

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Associate if you have any aspects in your birth chart that have squares involving your natal sun ⵙ.

Sun ⵙ Square □ Ascendant ↑ ↑/Descendant - issues or intensity having to do with identity or establishing your own individuality in life, it may be hard to focus on the course of action needed to be taken even though everything is screaming for you to do so, a need to constant stay in touch with a clean/serious style of fashion.

Sun ⵙ Square Sun ⵙ (transit position) - more emphasis or pressure of establishing your identity to the point of self security issues is present here, may have to constantly check your confidence or ability to take action towards your wants in life, learning to be "out there" in society is a must but also a struggle.

Sun ⵙ square □ Moon ☽ - emotions are constantly challenged between what you want and what others want, its a difficult to focus on your own needs and when you do your best to execute them, its met with constant pressure or being hard on the self. every word emits emotions that are deep and hard to roll off the back.

Sun ⵙ Square □ Mercury ☿ - solitary or intimidating way of speaking, thinking, or possibility of advanced writing that is ahead of your education level, may have had issues with maintaining conversations often or not prone to small talk, may be good at handling heavier topics, challenging thoughts or mindset.

Sun ⵙ Square □ Venus ︎ ♀︎ - romance is not all pink and lovely, but shrouded in understanding how to connect with the partner, may have to learn how to be confident in love, you may stress romance in ways where it is not as hard as you think it to be.

Okay so. Orpheus. 3361. Apollo-class asteroid that crosses earth's orbit and moves like mercury fast, elusive, always crossing thresholds. Named after the mythological musician who talked his way into the literal underworld and charmed Hades himself with a song.

Incredibly Gemini coded. Let me explain.

WHO IS ORPHEUS IN YOUR CHART

Orpheus speaks to: — the power of the voice and the way language moves through you — liminal spaces, threshold crossing, world bridging — the mind that communicates its way out of impossible situations — obsession, descent, and what you cannot stop chasing — the thing you almost had before you looked back

You can check your Orpheus placement on astro dienst, extended chart settings, additional asteroids and type in 3361

PLACEMENTS

ORPHEUS IN GEMINI (domicile power) The rawest expression, a mind that moves between worlds through words alone. You speak, write, or perform your way out of impossible situations. The gift is linguistic. The shadow is talking past what actually needs to be felt.

ORPHEUS IN VIRGO (the edited voice) Orpheus meets his editor self. The gift is still there but it gets refined....well...sometimes over refined. You may rewrite the same sentence six times. The myth's lesson about perfectionism costing you the thing you most wanted is very relevant here. Know when to stop revising.

ORPHEUS IN SCORPIO (the full descent) This placement goes full myth because the voice carries weight and darkness. You charm through intensity rather than lightness.....grief, obsession, the things you cannot stop chasing. You have been to hell and back and you still sang.

ORPHEUS IN THE 3RD HOUSE Communication becomes almost mythic. You narrate your life as it's happening. The underworld here is sibling dynamics, local environments, early education places where Prpheus had to charm his way through something dark. Your voice has an unusual quality others notice without knowing why.

ORPHEUS IN THE 12TH HOUSE (hidden gift) The song no one hears or everyone hears in dreams, I don't know that's how I see it. There's a connection to sound, language, and the unconscious that's hard to access consciously. Often manifests as writing that surprises even you. Dreams that feel like messages. An uncanny instinct for rhythm and pattern.

ASPECTS

ORPHEUS CONJUNCT MERCURY Your words are your instrument you have a cadence, a rhythm to how you speak or write that pulls people in without effort. The myth literally warns: don't look back. There's a tendency to second guess after you've already said the perfect thing.

ORPHEUS CONJUNCT VENUS Beauty and language fuse. You attract through the way you phrase things and a compliment from you lands differently than from others. Shadow: relying on aesthetic charm instead of substance. The song is lovely but does it say anything?

ORPHEUS TRINE NEPTUNE Song becomes channeled and you don't always know where your best ideas come from. They just arrive. There's something almost mediumistic about this aspect. Remember the voice is yours even when it feels dreamy.

ORPHEUS SQUARE SATURN

The voice meets the wall because there's often an early life experience of being told to stop talking, stop being so much. The work is reclaiming the sound that was taken. Often produces the most deliberate, powerful communicators once the block is owned rather than just carried.

ORPHEUS OPPOSITE PLUTO The myth in its most literal form, language as the thing that takes you to the edge of transformation and sometimes loss. You speak and write about things most people avoid. There's a compulsiveness to the need to name what is dark.

WHY ORPHEUS IS SO GEMINI CODED?

Orpheus is a threshold crosser, not a god, not quite mortal moving between realms on the strength of his words alone.

Gemini's gift is exactly this: existing in multiple registers at once, code switching, making the foreign familiar through language. Where other signs face the underworld with fire or endurance, Orpheus and Gemini faces it with a lyre.

The question Orpheus leaves us with (why did you look back?) is also Gemini's deepest tension. You see everything at once and sometimes that seeing undoes the thing you were almost able to hold.

pisces rising you were learning that your identity isn't a problem that needs to be solved or a project with a deadline. you spent way too much energy trying to be the perfect support system for everyone else while the north node in your first house was begging you to finally claim your own name. the lesson involved realizing that you don't have to be useful to be lovable. you found out that being blurry and messy is actually part of your magic and that you don't owe anyone a spreadsheet of your worth. your biggest win was realizing that being alone is much better than being with people who treat you like a fix-it project.

aries rising you were learning that the daily hustle is a lie if your spirit isn't in the work. your south node was driving you into the ground with errands and routines while the north node in your twelfth house was trying to drag you into the quiet. the lesson was about finding the exit from the rat race and realizing that your value isn't tied to your output. you found out that the most productive thing you can do is often absolutely nothing. you healed the burnout by realizing that your imagination is way more interesting than your to-do list and that surrender is a form of grit that nobody taught you.

taurus rising you were learning the difference between having a creative spark and having a social obligation. the south node was making your personal joy and your romances feel like a heavy weight while the north node in your eleventh house was pulling you toward the tribe. the lesson was about realizing that your individual light is meant to fuel something bigger than your own ego. you found your people by dropping the act of being special and just showing up as a member of the group. you found out that belonging isn't a cage but a tailwind for your biggest dreams.

gemini rising you were learning that you can't hide in your bedroom forever and call it safety. while you were busy trying to organize your family history and your private baggage the north node in your tenth house was calling you to lead. the lesson was about realizing that you were born for the top of the mountain and that your career needs to have a soul instead of just a plan. you found out that your public name is a direct reflection of your internal grit. you stepped out of the shadows of your childhood to finally take charge of your own future.

cancer rising you were learning to stop over-analyzing the neighborhood drama and the small talk. the north node in your ninth house was pulling you toward a truth that couldn't be found in a text message or a local gossip thread. the lesson was about realizing that logic only takes you so far and that your spirit needs a wide horizon to breathe. you had to trust a belief system that you couldn't explain to your friends. you found your faith by getting a little bit lost and realizing that the world is much larger than your current worries.

leo rising you were learning that your worth isn't a number in a bank account or a title you can wear. you were obsessed with having enough and keeping your ground steady but the north node in your eighth house was dragging you into the deep end of total soul mergers. the lesson was about realizing that intimacy is a high stakes trade and that you have to let go of the physical armor to find the gold. you found out that the only way to be truly powerful is to let someone see you in the dark and realize you are still there.

virgo rising you were learning how to stop being your own harshest judge and how to finally let someone else in. the south node in your first house was making you obsess over your own presentation and your brand while the north node in your seventh house was asking you to master the art of being a pair. the lesson was about realizing that being perfect is the loneliest thing a person can be. you found your best self through the eyes of someone who loved your flaws. you stopped trying to lead the way alone and learned how to share the steering wheel without panicking.

libra rising you were learning that your body tells the truth that your mind tries to hide with a polite smile. the south node was keeping you lost in a fog of everyone else's noise while the north node in your sixth house was pulling you into a daily ritual. the lesson was about realizing that your spirit needs a solid house to live in and that taking care of the small details is a serious form of self respect. you turned your chores into a sacred act and you found your grounding by showing up for the mundane parts of being alive.

scorpio rising you were learning the difference between a high stakes drama and a genuine joy. the south node in your eleventh house was making the crowd and the tribe feel like a form of suffocation while the north node in your fifth house was pulling you toward your own fire. the lesson was about realizing that you don't need anyone's permission to be happy and that your creative spark is a birthright. you followed your heart and found out that your individual joy is the most radical choice you can make in a grey world.

sagittarius rising you were learning that your reputation is a hollow prize if your heart doesn't feel safe when the door is locked. you were busy chasing a title and a name in the public eye while the north node in your fourth house was calling you back to your roots. the lesson was about realizing that success is having a place where you can finally take off the suit and just breathe. you found your grounding by tending to your own private life and realizing that your greatest legacy is the peace you find at your own kitchen table.

capricorn rising you were learning to talk to the person standing right in front of you instead of just looking at the big picture. the south node in your ninth house was making the grand philosophies feel like an escape while the north node in your third house was pulling you toward the local talk. the lesson was about realizing that wisdom is a local frequency and that you need to translate your big ideas into a language that actually helps people. you found your clarity by listening to the stories of your neighbors and finding the magic in the everyday.

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Associate this post with your natal Sun ⵙ in your birth chart.

To read on the moon ☽ through the 12 houses, click here.

Sun ⵙ in the 1st - it's hard to be ignored or to go into hiding of any form. Privacy is not your friend, and you may attract the attention of others due to the way you take care of your body, looks, and establish new styles in fashion or makeup.

Sun ⵙ in the 2nd - your self security is incredibly important; if you feel insecurity of any form you do your best to tackle that issue. making money may be a massive highlight throughout your life and may be the strongest suit. your morals are important.

Sun ⵙ in the 3rd - your mind is constantly restless and full of brand new ideas, you are able to dominate conversations and discussions no matter what size crowd it could be, content creation is a favorite.

Sun ⵙ in the 4th - you are always riddled by nostalgia, and by the wavelengths the family moves within day to day life, the focus on the mother and children may have been very important in your early childhood.

Sun ⵙ in the 5th - the person is incredibly creative, irresistible to their peers, and may have many lovers throughout life that grows their spirit, their humility, and involves themselves in the world of pleasure, erotica, and artwork.

Sun ⵙ in the 6th - focusing on a career has always been important throughout life, but it also the purpose of routine that helps you to stay onto of any health issues that come up to you and around you. caring for others is healing and you may engage in events that have to do with taking care of others.

Sun ⵙ in the 7th - your relationships and who you involve yourself throughout life is always a massive lesson to be learned. in order to feel fulfilled throughout life, you must always be involved with hobbies, in a craft, in a routine, or with a partner/platonic connection.

Sun ⵙ in the 8th - always able to see through to the very core of peoples, but mainly see how people could change everything from misunderstandings of your kindness to weakness. you're able to look into the lives of others and how they may desire to look within you.

Sun ⵙ in the 9th - you're always on a lust for a new life, and always being present in places or cultures that enhance your learning skills through your day to day. you're naturally drawn to being outside the house, and you're always an inspiration to the people around them.

Sun ⵙ in the 10th - you are constantly in the spotlight, unable to hide away from the world. you can indulge in building any ideas that you may have, because people will both envy and worship the idea of something you love becoming bigger.

Sun ⵙ in the 11th - involved constantly in social circles, you may be the highlight or importance in friendships. the way you express yourself with others is constantly growing, and you are always curious about who you meet next. social networking is your forte, and may do well in public organizations.

♱ the first house is the house of self, how you interact with the world, how you interest other people amongst more themes of the first house that completes the elements of self-respect, self-belief and confidence.

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❦ ARIES IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this placement shows that you're someone who likes to prove yourself that you can become better but this can unintentionally play out into you being someone who needs to prove your existence to other people. individuals already feel your fire, you dont need to dim it for the comfort of other people but remember to not burn other people because you'll end up burning yourself. to have Aries here shows that you naturally exude a confidence and a "sexiness" that makes you appealing for other people who want to insert themselves into your life, you are someone who is impatient with people likely due to this, you want peoples intentions or you want them out of your life.

❦ TAURUS IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ to have this sign in your first house means that you're someone who is considered as very grounded or private but people can feel that there's a side of beauty that you keep to yourself. this indicates that you might meet people who want to continously steal your attention. to have Taurus in the Ascendant entails that you are someone who is considered very beautiful or someone who is adjusted with their path, on the other hand with how you interact with life, people underdeveloped could be stubborn when it comes to learning from their mistakes. you're someone who could want to have control over your life because you're scared about what relaxing could do to you. confidence is a gift for you guys, what you value and what you priotise is very important for people with this placement.

❦ GEMINI IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ you interact with curiosity and as a student who wants to learn many things yet this can reflect into you being someone who attracts curious people or individuals who speak about you 24/7. this placement is an indicator of popularity or someone who has a very active mind that needs to be expressed through a medium of creativity or physical relief. like exercising...jogging. this placement means that you're someone who could try to see the world as half full rather empty, perceiving life through joy and opportunity rather than dead ends and terrible outcomes. you interest other people because you're willing to think out of the box but also be agreeable this makes people feel like they can be comfortable with you.

❦ CANCER IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this placement shows that you're someone who other people feel like they are entitled to since you automatically bring an aura of comfort. you're like the light in darkness for other people and this unfortunately can bring moths. on the brighter side, this lunarian placement shows that if you focus you can light your own path in darkness. an anchor that never moves but remains where your eyes follow, you need to remember that you're allowed to express deepest desires without feeling ashamed or selfish. you interest people because of the all-knowing grace you have, like when others are speaking to you, you look at them as if you know what they're about to say, this makes them more engaged with you but also curious to what makes you in touch with a strangers' emotion.

❦ LEO IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ the original fame placement, the one that is "destined" to have you known for something. to have this placement is to learn how to display your pride, your confidence and your ego like they're playing cards, since you're naturally competitive you might feel the need to one-up people to make a statement about your place and how far you are in life and your career. to have this in your chart means that by other people you are seen as assured, brewing for something that is bigger than you and almost bigger than everyone else in the room, you are seen as someone to follow or as someone who is following their own rules without the attestation and approval of the next person. respecting your destiny is a fuel for your confidence, you are the star of the show not your jealousy, you are the star of the show not the person who tries to control how you display and love yourself. Leo being in your First House insinuates that you are naturally romantic, you can give attention to other people but you want to feel like you're nurtured the way you nurture other people.

❦ VIRGO IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ to have this rising sign means that you often come across people who immediately consider you as their fixer, the one who is responsible to problem solve situations you've had no interaction with. this rising sign makes people stare, its the immediately analysed and scrutinised sign, the sign that makes other people feel like they're not enough so people try to mirror a competitive analysis reaction because your eyes pierce through them and automatically make them feel all the things they havent been able to do for themselves. even if you're someone who is not as successful as you might want to be currently, there's still something about your existence that make people feel like they have to get their act together. with how you interact with the world, you need to be someone who doesnt forget to allow happiness instead of trying to read everything, stop pausing and dissceting and just go forward with life.

❦ LIBRA IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ people who have this in their ascendant might feel automatically judged by people who think they're shallow. when people see you they might consider you to be someone who sees things at face value mainly because of how well you might be socially, so people could see your social power and think it means you have no intelligence or knowledge with what you want to do in your future. you are someone who sees things with love, you're someone who interacts with life with attempting to balance your emotions and goals you've set for yourself. you're the type of person who needs to remember that you can achieve success and also pamper yourself. dont give into what people expect you to be because you'll always follow that, remember that you're beautiful in your heart and in your soul.

❦ SCORPIO IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ people fear this ascendant as usually it brings description of pain, intensity and obsession but that's usually for the people who dont know how to direct their strong feelings and ambitions towards something that is actually practical and useful for their life and future. this sign in the Ascendant speaks of influence, either being somone who is easily influenced or influential, you need to stop fearing how you'll be seen in your true skin. its okay to rebel and not play with the rules and paint your own story. this placement entails that there is a possibility that people do get obsessed with you so it could be annoying interacting with new people as they could become intensely infatuated or intensely possessive.

❦ SAGITTARIUS IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this is an interesting home because it is discussed as the home of luck but it makes people misinterpret the idea of luck. you need to figure out what your luck is because there's validation of understanding where the unvierse is going to take you but you also have to be someone who is in control of the reigns so the wind knows where to take you. stereotypically, it is said that Sagittarius in the Ascendant means to other people you come across as larger than life, and it is true. due to that, it could manifest into people being intimidated by your presence because you feel vast to them, as if you come across as someone who knows where they're going. this placement means that confidence is important to these individuals but also not falling into a slob is a warning. dont get too comfortable to the point that you dont look at other important things in your life like you did in the beginning. as this sign is Jupiterian it implies that people naturally see you in a Divine/high pedestal light even if you dont want it.

❦ CAPRICORN IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ learn how to have fun if you don't know how to but this aspect also tells you to learn how to not suck out the fun out of other people because you're not comfortable in your own self-expression. there's a truth to having order and discipline in your life, but there's also discipline in the art of being free. this ascendant shows that you are someone other people easily find dependable and this can bring burden of always having to be your best due to the fact that people expect it. this placement also brings beauty and refinement, you might catch other people treating you like a piece of art or just like an object in general because involuntarily you embody the idea of a distant but wanted idea.

❦ AQUARIUS IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ yes you will continue feeling like the odd one out if you're not going to go to places you're not celebrated. there's no point of acting moody if you're not going to do anything about your environment and your self-power. this placement entails that other people tend to treat you like you're different and this could be something that throws you off, throughout your life you spent time trying to understand why you cant follow the same beat as everyone else but there's something that pulls in your tug that asks you to take a leap for your freedom and your happiness. interact with life with your uniqueness, allow life to surprise you.

❦ PISCES IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this is a beautiful ascendant placement because it means you see and feel things others cannot but this could also mean that you are misunderstood by others. your intuition, your distant knowing makes you ahead of other people and this makes them feel like they're not on your level and due to them thinking that there could be this need to continously tear you down no matter how much you prove yourself to other people. this cycle makes you someone who turns from within and dissociates, but similar to Aquarius in the First House means that you're someone who needs to find your own tribe becaus your community always exists. its just not by the people you expect. Pisces in the First House gives you a dreamy beauty, almost vintage and VHS, this type of allure causes people to fall into your beauty and create delusional stories to feel better about their stance with you.

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1st 🫧 looks are irresistible; you may feel drawn to the they present or take care of their physique and style. They can inspire you to be involved with your beauty.

2nd 🌹they may make you feel eager in being in their presence; great gift giver and may know how to take in any issues that you have.

3rd 🫧 persuasive or seductive in their words, has the ability to convince you to do anything they want. romantic with their words to you aswell.

4th 🌹you may desire to be close with them or have a personal connection, they may feel that connection is a possibility. a private love.

5th 🫧 possibly strong sexual or romantic energy is felt by them, and they feel the need to be involved with you more intimately. drawn to their creations.

6th 🌹 you feel drawn to care for them just as they desire to care for you, there is a romantic underlying to the way both of you are able to protect eachother from any malicious energies.

7th 🫧 love and relationships may be constantly on your mind when this person is around. they way you are treated with this person may foreshadow possible relationship changes that involves romance.

8th 🌹 wanting to gift, provide for you, and even be with you through hardships is often felt through this synastry. want to spoil you as much as you want to care for them.

9th 🫧 you feel drawn to all the places they visit, wanting to join them on every adventure. They may be curious about the world you live in aswell, an attraction towards cultural perspectives happens here.

10th 🌹this person is seen as a big figure in your life and you may almost worship the way they carry themselves. They are attracted to your ways of stability, standing, and your resilence.

11th 🫧 you are the highlight in the friendship, and the he confide in you all thoughts and feels they feel in their love life. It is likely that both of you can’t be away from eachother.