Synastry observations
these are all just observations and will not apply to everyone, nor will everyone have the same experience!
Venus opposite Mars-
This is probably one of the spiciest mars-venus pairings to have. They complete one anotherâs desires and can bring drive to the other. They want to be close to one another, and the mars person cannot believe that the venus person wants them. This isnât always a marriage aspect, but itâs great for bringing variety into a relationship.
Mercury trine Venus-
Words are spoken eloquently with this synastry placement. The mercury person makes the venus persons ears perk up whenever they speak. The venus persons voice is mesmerizing to the mercury person, and both never want to hear the other stop speaking. The venus person loves the mind of mercury, and the mercury adores how the venus person loves their brain. This is one of the best placements for mutual understanding (besides mercury-moon synastry).
Mars conjunct Mercury-
This is a âbest friendsâ placement. They will playfully bicker and then make out nastily in a corner maybe a five minutes later. They often have friends in common, and have very similar tastes in humor. They behave like teenagers together, but have intellectual undertones to every conversation. Mercury person can think of the mars person in a very sexual manner, which can make mars uncomfortable if itâs too extreme. Likely it wonât be. In a romantic relationship this helps with flirting, even if the mercury person is incredibly shy. This is amplified if one of the partners charts has Mercury conjunct mars natally.
Moon opposite moon-
I love opposites because I love learning from a person, same with squares. While one persons life growing up was different, they can find solace in how the other expresses themselves emotionally. Misunderstandings can happen, but with easy Mercury aspects (and plenty of HEALTHY communication) this is not a detrimental aspect. Mutual understanding is beneficial here because of the differences between the two.
Venus semisextile Saturn-
This is a very beneficial harmonious aspect. Like any harmonious aspects to Saturn, it provides ease and stability in a relationship. It makes both take the other seriously and itâs makes it easier to learn lessons from the other. Itâs not always outwardly felt, but itâs subconsciously understood that theyâre taken seriously.
12th house synastry-
Oh yeah, this scary asshole. Iâm joking itâs not that bad. Everyone has mixed opinions with this one. And I will just say this, everyone will come in contract with someone who has 12th house synastry with you. Itâs not always bad!!! Many couples who understand each other spiritually have this overlay. It is difficult, yes. Especially when one person has heavy neptune aspects in their natal chart. But itâs beautiful when both can see the flaws and good qualities in one another and choose to accept them and help them heal as opposed to look over it and continue to idealize their partner. No synastry overlay is perfectly healthy, no chart is perfect, or meant to be. Itâs how the two partners deal with the challenges handed to them. 12th house synastry helps the couple understand eachother (and scarily so) at their core. They understand parts that the other didnât know they had. Itâs beautiful and scary, but itâs all about how itâs handled between the two people. And as long as boundaries are maintained itâs good.
Juno conjunctions to big 6-
The Juno person sees the planet person as their utmost ideal. No matter what. Trines are easier, but conjunctions with Juno are intense. The Juno person wants to marry the planet person, and have the rest of their whole life with that person. The connection between the two is almost instant. The planet person is attracted to how loyal the Juno person is to them, and loves feeling the Juno persons affections. When the planet persons Juno also makes aspects to the Juno persons planets the love is heavily reciprocated.
Easy vertex aspects to venus-
This feels fated and healing more than anything. They love being in each otherâs lives and can feel the energy of the other person better than anyone else. With this aspect mutual love is almost always there. and the healing is insane. There is gentleness with every interaction they have.
Mars conjunct mars-
They ARE FUCKING EVERYDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY. They know each otherâs style and what they want (other aspects influence this obviously). This is an aspect that can have unhealthy couples coming back for more. However, with the intensities of conjunctions, they have to be careful with getting into unnecessary arguments. However, if one persons love language wasnât physical touch it is now. They want to be all up in each otherâs space constantly (with boundaries obviously). Holding hands, sitting on oneâs lap, kissing, biting, hugging, you name it theyâre doing it. Probably itâs not always in public, but the tension is felt for MILES. And thatâs especially felt before they get together. Pair this with ascendant-mars (or the asc and mars being in the same sign) and theyâll never want to be separated from each other.
Neptune synastry-
This can be UTTERLY BEAUTIFUL. But, proceed with caution. Do not lose yourself in the idea of the other person, and do not try to impose how you want them to be on them. It hurts both parties in the end. This placement though is incredibly dreamy, and everyone can see them as the ideal couple (whether it be in how they look together or how they treat each other). This is the type of synastry that makes them dream about one another, especially the Neptune person. If they didnât fantasize about people before they do now. They need to see every part of the other so that they can dissect who they are. They sprinkle an aesthetic beauty into one anotherâs lives that cant be replicated.
Okay, thatâs all, love ya!














