Indelible

What if them things ain’t as bad as they say? I mean, the sea is their home. We went after her, didn’t we? What if we just left ‘em alone? We kill them because they kill us. Do I need to remind you that one of them things took your parents? Should they have just left the monsters alone? I… don’t know. Oh, you are lost, girl. Your parents died heroes. I want to believe that, but maybe you can be a hero and still be wrong.

In The Vengence Factor, a woman is throwing himself at him, and he's been very attracted to her this whole time and not hidden that fact. And yet when she starts making out with him telling him she'll do whatever pleases him sexually he tells her hey no i'm not your owner. i only want to sleep with you if you think you'd enjoy it and therefore want it for yourself.

In one of the Q episodes a barely adult has a crush on him, and he goes nah i'm not interested. (he does kiss her after she brainwashes him but that was not his choice).

There's other examples they've just fallen out of my brain at the moment.

I just, so often this kind of guy character will take every opportunity no matter how ethically dicey to get his rocks off. but unlike other womenisers, he genuinely loves and respects women. He says no.

“Uh, see you sunday?. I’m joking.

You’re never ever allowed in my church again”.

Here’s five minutes and twenty three seconds of the Great Frakes in a Riker blooper reel I compiled (from all tf over)