Timebomb’s love child

this blog is not a well-curated museum. it's my bedroom & i'm putting things on my shelf & taping things on the wall

sources say there are muscles in the back of my neck. and they want to kill me

"it's just growing pains" -> "you're too young for that to hurt that bad" -> "you just need to get in better shape" -> "welcome to being old, everyone is in pain"

im swimming at the lake and accidentally kicked a fish. this has never happened in my many years of swimming. sorry man

women love when there’s a woman

- TV executives allocating each show exactly one female character

Conservative beauty standards are back with a vengeance which means it's especially important to go out this summer with bellies out and bodies unshaved. Also be unapologetically disabled with mobility aids and wearable medical devices and stim toys and ear defenders and all that stuff. You need it. People need to see it. Everyone needs to be reminded that life is unquestioningly more enjoyable when you're not living inside an arbitrary set of rules created by people who are offended by all the wrong things.

bitching and moaning should lez out

The arcane writers did such a great job with making me conflicted on whether I hate or love Caitlyn Kiramman.

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.