The Exiled Malewife

A couple of days ago the amazing elf collector @dalishious posted two polls asking which cishet Dragon Age men and women people would make queer. Looking at the notes I (mod Igel) noticed that a lot of people interpreted "queer" as in "not straight" rather than "not cis".

I couldn’t find the post I was looking for but it was about how sera gets called racist and bigoted and annoying for criticising the dalish (due to being a 20 year old dealing with internalised racism and struggling to find her identity in a world where she’s only acknowledged as an elf as a target of racism or when compared to the dalish as though she’s not being an elf properly) but when Solas criticises the dalish he’s called wise and knowledgeable and people think that yeah maybe the dalish are worth criticising (and he’s criticising them because he’s a genocidal maniac who doesn’t consider them people and is planning to kill them)