Having sex with someone actually is a big deal and involves a ton of vulnerability and I think itās extremely troubling and gross and unhealthy and actually exceptionally dangerous that we pretend otherwise and encourage people to ābe matureā by compartmentalizing/completely eliminating their deeper human emotions from their sexuality and that any other view is dismissed as prudish and invalid and unenlightened and childish and restrictive. I canāt think about this too much because it makes me rage but I hate how much porn and capitalism have destroyed how we understand and experience sexuality and intimate connections with one another so much.
Lovely. Some people are aromantic and donāt actually find these interactions a ābig dealā. Iāve never found sex a ābig dealā. So yeah, please donāt be arophobic. Thanks.
Iām also aro and this is bullshit. Just saying that people are not immature and prudish for making a big deal out of sex does not invalidate you or anyone else in our community. You must be an ace exclusionist troll to be posting this nonsense.
























