It hurts when you don't say it

How do cats just manifest trash. You’ll vacuum your entire house and turn around and your cat will be running around with a kind of cardboard that didn’t exist until two seconds ago.

If we don’t microdose delusion we won’t make it through this reality babe….

Eartha Kitt's career is just so iconic because there's no way you don't know her even if you don't know you know her. You like Christmas music ok well she's Santa Baby. You like Disney animated movie ok well she's Yzma. You like Disney Channel original movie ok well she's Madame Zeroni. You like comic book ok well she is Cat Woman. She won.

You like making the racist wife of a war mongering president cry on national television? She did that

You like laughing at the very idea of needing a man? She's your role model.

having and loving trans friends is like. i will fight your parents. i will fight your exes. i will fight your family. i will fight your doctor.

there genuinely is something to be said about how every trans person ive met has been mistreated or hurt so badly. it breaks my heart and it has informed basically all my relationships with other trans people, i go out of my way to affirm their joys and uplift them and love them however i can. i think especially in this day and age trans people are very much in need of extra kindness and care. it doesnt need to be huge. but let your trans friends know you care, please. tell him that he looks handsome today. remind them that theyre really fun to be around. let her know that you like her jokes. hug it and hold it gently. be honest, be open. please, for all the love there is, be kind to trans people

love transfems or die thats really it

and do not misconstrue me. when i say "love" i appeal to the sense of the word which means: to care for, to accept, to want to learn about, to be devoted to. we have seen enough fetishization and sexualization of transfems for a goddamn lifetime. when you care about transfems you had better care about them with your whole heart. you had better throw your weight behind her and support her for gracing this earth with her presence, you had better tell it that you appreciate its presence and honesty, you had better tell them that you care for them no matter what. we have no time for stupid petty arguments truly. you had better listen to her when she talks, you had better examine and change how you behave when she raises a point about her comfort and safety. you need to care about transfems or just die

i am making everything about being transgender because everything IS about being transgender

when you go out to eat while transgender, you have to consider which bathroom you will be allowed to use and whether that waitress will misgender you. when you sit on the train, you have to wonder if that person staring at you has clocked you or just wants to look at your bag keychain. when you look for clothes you have to go through employees trying to tell you, actually, these clothes are for women/men. you have to avoid stares from mothers who want you to die before stepping within eyesight of their children. you struggle looking in the mirror, you watch how and when you speak, every instance of your life is transgender when you're transgender and often it can be really bad. so i really want to try and emphasize how wonderful it is to be trans and that transness leads to a life worth living. because truly we need to remember this sometimes

i dont want people to just reblog this post only thinking about the bad things. you have to remember that these are not all side effects of being trans, they are side effects of living in a society that does not properly appreciate trans people. being trans is truly very beautiful, there is nothing that can match it. there is no feeling to replicate how it feels to hear someone say your name for the first time. there is nothing that can surpass how wonderful it is to try on clothing you've always wanted, or to see your friends beam and glow when they try on clothing they want. the most beautiful thing is making eye contact with someone in public and not saying anything, but knowing they're like you. being trans is perhaps the best thing ever and everything revolves around it

the thing is that trans women are the best and deserve everything in the world

the thing is that trans women are some of the most beautiful women in existence and trans women have some of the most beautiful unique relationships with femininity. the thing is that trans women are unequivocally women, not "only" in the social sense but every sense of the word, women in body and mind and spirit and women in whatever shape and form they like. the thing is that trans women deserve so so so so much more than what the world shoves onto them, the thing is that trans women deserve so so much love and appreciation for just existing. not for being shining models or pioneers but just living and loving and being here in this day and age. the thing is that transfemininity is uniquely beautiful and rare, we are so lucky and we all should be so grateful to live in a world with trans women. the thing is that trans women out there deserve more than just words of solidarity, the thing is that there will never not be a time when you should give a trans woman flowers or money or words of support or encouragement or a hug or new clothes. there will never be a time where you should not embrace trans women and support them no fucking matter what. no matter what. the thing is that trans women deserve everything in the fucking world. all the good things, every single last one

if you've ever pet more than a few dogs you'd Know what dog residue is

Hey kids, have you heard of the hottest new summer trend? It's called lying under a tree and looking up at the sunlight dancing through the leaves, and all the cool kids are doing it.