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asexuals have been speaking and writing for years about the fact that many of us have sex -- that indeed, many of us are incredibly sexually active and that our asexuality comes from us having a non-normative experience of sexuality that makes us especially likely to be stigmatized and oppressed alongside our fellow kinky queer siblings -- but people just do not listen, or worse act like it's laughable and cringey for us to be sexual beings. then they go on acting permanently confused by the idea that asexuals can have sex. we already told you. many times. in fact for many of us the depraved, gay-ass ways that we have sex are very central to us being asexual.

ever since i was a little girl i knew i wanted to deny location sharing and turn off personalized ads and reject all non-essential cookies and not set up siri and face ID

Haha looks like that relationship didn’t work out… didn’t work out et al.

realizing i might have been assuming people have a better understanding of the aspectrum than most people actually do

in the age of repression and purity culture, getting more perverted is the only morally correct course of action

Also you can be sex disinterested and still support anti-purity culture. You can be sex disinterested and sex positive. Not wanting sex for yourself is not a good reason to uphold puritannical oppression. Sexual liberation is integral to other sectors of liberation, including queer liberation, racial equality, and disability liberation. You can support people having non-cishet white abled christian marriage sex and still not want it for yourself.