The Nexus

Alienvesi: a vesil for when aliens affect most or all of your identity. This can include being alienkin, aliengender, or just liking alien aesthetics. The flag is based off the colors I associate with aliens.

Glitchvesi: a vesil for when glitches affect most or all of your identity. This can include being glitchkin, glitchgender, or liking special effects or editing. The flag is based on the 'glitch' special effect you can do when drawing in black and white.

Melavesi: a vesil for when (themes of) loneliness, hopelessness, darkness, and/or emptiness affect most or all of your identity. Based off melancholy and can be related to kenopsic themes.

These can also be called alienvesil, glitchvesil, or melavesil. I'm pretty sure none of these were already coined but we all know the search system is broken so sorry if I missed something!

✨1,000 notes and I'll try to do a more complex art project (what exactly that entails I will not specify)🤭

✨Except I'm putting it on my art blog that no one cares about lol

🗡️Also tagging Demi's moots cuz I just realized that's how that usually works/silly

Hiya! Great question!

So, tl;dr, pluralpunk means accepting of all systems/plurals/multiples-- no questions asked.

But here are a couple sources in-case ya want a more in-depth explanation.

Source 1

I’m very new and young to the community and i’ve only found out about my divinity in the last year or two.

All I ever see for ‘tips’ for Angels such as I is “buy this! buy that! be soft! be sweet!”

And it’s not helping at all. All I ever see is tips for the soft, ‘coquette’ angels.

Do you have any tips to help someone who is still trying to connect to his divinity that doesn’t involve buying things?

as someone who doesn't relate to the 'soft' angel aesthetic, and as someone living on disability with little to no money? i feel you. i find journaling helps. listening to music that triggers a shift and then just vibing with yourself helps, too. if you have makeup or nail polish at home, go crazy. you don't need gold shimmering eyeshadow - your favorite colors are your favorites for a reason. use those colors instead. if you don't wear makeup, break out the crayons or colored pencils and scribble. write poetry. meditate. go for a long walk and really focus on the sky. pray if you want.

you don't need to go broke trying to feel connected to your soul. the material can aid the spiritual, sure, but don't get so caught up in consumer culture that you forget what's right in front of you.

If you're an angel, no one can tell you how to be an angel or how to be more angel, specially non-angels, you already are an angel, what do you like? what do you want? whatever the answers are, those are angel things, they are things wanted by an angel, do those, follow what you want, what's your æsthetics? what personally makes you feel more connected to your ancestry? try browsing for new things, start from anything you like, even if very simple, expand from there to neighbouring things, keep what you like

take my uquiz guys!! (tw teeny bit of gore)

✨I mean. There are gods in the system so I guess that tracks/silly

However, some plurals do choose their headmates. Some plurals do choose to have headmates that other people aren't going to be comfortable with and that's ok. There's no shame in that

So here's a shout out to the plurals/systems that DO choose headmates like this. Here's to those of us that DO want these people in our system. Here's to those of us that cherish these headmates despite what anyone else thinks about them

Take us for example, we've had childhood trauma and formed many traumagenic alters. But we also have both spontaneous AND created alters. Hell, I'M a willogenic alter!! We literally can not and do not want to be labeled as anything other than mixed origin

And you know what? I DON'T WANT TO HAVE OUR SYSTEM CENTERED AROUND OUR TRAUMA ANYWAYS! Let us decide how to label our system!!

Uhh if you can specify by name? We don't really use numbers to keep track of members lol so we have no clue who you want to chat with. /lh /gen

One of the biggest things that stands out to me about the tulpamancy community on Tumblr is how alienated everyone seems to feel. You've got some advice blogs, some discourse blogs, but that's about it- which is wild to me, cuz tulpamancy is all about community and learning from each other! Even more than that tho, there's something important about seeing other tulpas & created systems doing what we want, making our own choices, LIVING our lives. It's a reminder that we're real people too- it's important and validating for others like us, and it's great for non-tulpas to see that we're just as much real and people as they are. The best part of tulpamancy is that we get to enjoy our own existence, decide for ourselves what we want, and live as US!! I wanna bring that energy to Tumblr.

That's why I'm starting a tag I want any other tulpas (and their hosts too, but don't forget this tag is about our autonomy) to join in on;

✨✨ #tulpa life ✨✨