the code.

Softness. In my life. I want a lot of it

as the colder months approach: i wish you all a healthy, calm end of the year. i wish you tasty cups of tea, comfortable clothes, warm beds, nutritious meals in safe homes, good music, new friends and unwavering health. you deserve good things now.

do. not. put. effort. into. people. who. don’t. give. it. back.

“but do you really think Biden is better than–” YES YOU STUPID FUCKS, YES, I REALLY REALLY THINK THAT A MARGINALLY LEFT-WING  MOSTLY LAW-ABIDING ADMINISTRATION IS A BETTER OPTION THAN KEEPING THE CURRENT OPENLY CRIMINAL FASCIST ORGANIZATION IN POWER. YES I THINK AN INEPT BUT SLIGHTLY PROGRESSIVE EXECUTIVE BRANCH IS A BETTER OPTION THAN THE ADMINISTRATION THAT IS ACTIVELY MURDERING ITS CITIZENS WITH COVID, KIDNAPPING PROTESTERS, COMMITTING ELECTION FRAUD ON A MASSIVE SCALE, LOCKING CHILDREN IN CAGES, DESTROYING LIVES AND LITERALLY BRINGING BACK NAZIS. YES I REALLY DO THINK THERE IS A DIFFERENCE SHUT UP SHUT UP STOP TELLING PEOPLE NOT TO VOTE YOU STUPID STUPID FUCKS YOU ARE LITERALLY SIGNING US UP FOR 4 MORE YEARS OF TRUMP SHUUUUUUUUT UUUUPPP!!!!!

love and improve yourself daily

Some of you genuinely believe black cis women are biologically different to white cis women. This isn’t even talking about white supremacists, I see leftists peddle that racist nonsense. Black cis women and white cis women have the same reproductive organs, we’re not two different species.

One of the biggest issues of the divest community is that they put all their eggs in one basket-non-black men. Divestment is about putting yourselves first, establishing relationships that are best for you financially, emotionally and romantically. The best for you may be a black man or it may be an Asian man. But relying on non-black men puts black women in a vulnerable position that we don’t need to be in.

THIS ONE FUCKING WORKS. REBLOG IT.

In activism I wish black women didn’t have to surrender their identities and experiences in favour to appease others. Black men wanting black women to be black before they are women or white women wanting black women to be women before they’re black. In the West, we are just black women, we can’t separate the two, if you can’t empathise with our very unique experience of womanhood entwined with blackness then don’t speak on us, period.

i just don't like how black women aren't allowed to be introverted. we don't always want to talk and we're not here to entertain

Yes even other black people will label you as stuck up and pretentious just because you’re quiet 

being highly intellectual and well mannered is really attractive