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[muttering feverishly] I need to chase that man around my gothic manor in a silk nightgown

a butchfemme dynamic isn’t about the butch doing everything for the femme or vice versa… it’s both of us looking at each other and saying “you do so much for me, let me take care of you” and i think that’s so important to recognize. you shouldn’t be doing everything for your partner without them giving you everything in return. the ways you spoil each other might look completely different and that’s okay, but one person shouldn’t be carrying the brunt of the relationship. that’s not what being butchfemme means.

Butches found out that the scalp was an erogenous zone years ago, and femmes understood the assignment.

ever since I was a young lad I knew I wanted to be a middle-aged man with an undone tie around his neck who’s having a crisis so he goes to the bathroom to splash water on his face only to look up at himself in the mirror and wonder at the stranger looking back

being called "masc" instead of "butch" makes me feel like a dying animal btw

Having dating apps is pointless. The love of your life is on Tumblr