DNI IF:

You’re a minor

You don’t have an age in your bio

You’re a terf

You’re a conservative in any regard and/or your politics don’t include liberation for POC and trans people

You’re a cishet man. I can’t force you to stay away from here, but do not reblog and tag for your own use. This space was not created for you, and will not change to accommodate you in any capacity.

If you fall into any of these categories, I will block you.

MY KINKS:

Domesticity/Housewife/Butch Patriarchy (see below)

Mild cnc/free use

Degradation & Praise (being vocal)

Edging

Corruption

Mild to Moderate Sado-Masochism

Choking, Hair Pulling, Leaving Marks

Control/Power Dynamics

Mild to Moderate Impact Play (Spanking, Pinning, Overpowering, Light Slapping, etc.)

Breeding

Daddy/Mommy as titles (see below)

Mild Dumbification

MY HARD LIMITS:

Gore, race play, age play, hotwives, scat, anything involving animals/minors/amab men, misgendering/“corrective”, extreme impact play/torture, weight/food. If you reblog, comment, or involve these in my posts, I will block you. I am not an exhibitionist and I have soft limits surrounding voyeurism and [semi] public sex, so respect those boundaries as they are said here.

CLARIFICATIONS AND RULES:

TLDR; I’m a gender-fluid lesbian. Please don’t use feminine terms for me. Other than that, you can call me anything you want, just don’t come swinging out of the gate with hard kink stuff. “Mr. Yeehaw” is the funniest and probably my favorite. I don’t get into hard kink here but I believe in RACK. I’m a service top figuring out my preferences more. Big fan of scheduling posts. Anon and submissions are open, and you are more than welcome to send disrespectful/nasty stuff into my inbox, just don’t be a dick. Just because you’ve done a little scrolling doesn’t mean you know me as a person, and you have no right to message me or leave transphobic/anti-Butch asks!

1. This blog is meant to help me work through my sexual repression and embrace my sexuality. It is for me primarily, and I will favor my own interests before anyone else’s. If this blog resonates with you or you enjoy it, I’m happy it can do that, but realize that I am under no obligation to cater my blog to anyone. There might be some knives/blood here that is too mild to be “gore”, but I will try to be diligent about tagging those posts so they’ll get picked up by filters if you have them.

2. I have always been the top in my relationships, but I want to explore more of my submissiveness. It should probably be at most a 4:1 ratio, but you know how day to day can interfere. Everything will be tagged accordingly.

3a. I use “Daddy” as a title and “little girl” as a degradation, not as a facet of ageplay. If you do not like those, you don’t have to interact, and you can call me “Sir” or just a friendly term instead. If I’m feeling like I want someone else in control, I might like calling them “Mommy” or “Ma’am” (again, as a title only) depending on what my partner likes.

3b. “Domesticity/Housewife/Butch Patriarchy” refers to a fantasy with a few different kinks. Think 1950s gender roles with the masc being in charge, expecting service, brat-taming, degradation, and using my partner when and how I see fit. This is a totally consensual fantasy that would only exist for short time periods; it is an act of gender performance meant to satisfy both parties and nothing more. I do not believe that femmes or feminine people are less intelligent, able, or sufficient than andros/mascs. It also includes auxiliary fantasies surrounding adoring and/or servicing my “wife” ‘as a good husband should’, which is usually more vanilla and less domineering.

4. I am a lesbian. I am gender-fluid. I am not a woman, but I am a female, and I have experienced womanhood. Sex and gender are two different things and both infer abstract concepts. I will not debate gender politics with anybody. If I reference my “dick” or “cock”, I am referring to a strap or a packer. I will not use feminine terms for myself and I ask that you don’t either. I am autistic. This blog is welcome to all queer women (including bi/pan/unlabeled), anybody who identifies as sapphic, wlw, nblw, wlnb, nblnb, t4t, butch or femme. This blog is welcome to trans women and trans men. This is not a men dni blog, this is a cishet man dni blog, whether it be mlm or mlw.

5. I am both monogamous and single. I don’t care if you’re polyamorous or if you involve polyamory in my post. I have and will hookup/flirt with somebody as something casual, non-exclusive, and safe. This includes talking about or participating in group sex or dynamics that include multiple people beyond my partner, but don’t come to me asking to message with the pretense that I’ll participate in a committed polyamorous relationship. Anon/asks are open, and you’re welcome to use them for feedback, submissions, and nastiness, but don’t be rude or mean. Do not message me if we are not mutuals or if you don’t run a kink blog I have interacted with; I don’t know you and I don’t know your intentions. If you’re mean in anon asks, have fun in hell.

6. Finally, this is a side blog. I cannot reply to any comments on a post, sorry. I will not post about my main. Like I said, DMs and anon asks are open; do not message me for pics or identifying info or I will block you. DO NOT DM OR ASK IF YOU ARE A CISHET MAN. Anon hate will be deleted instead of being replied to. I’m very introverted and reserved, so it is unlikely I’ll message first, sorry. All relationships will be expected to be respectful and healthy intrinsically, or you will be blocked.