A Teabugs Life

My controversial opinion is that I think chronically ill people should be able to fight one doctor a year

My controversial opinion is that I think chronically ill people should be able to fight one doctor a year

I think this should also apply to women, femmes, and people who are perceived as such

I have also have a condition that causes me to faint so I also cant stand long from that so I always use that as the reason cause people are like ‘oh ya you should sit’ instead of ‘oh ya? My feet hurt too but u don’t see me complaining’ that I would usually get when I say it’s my chronic pain that makes me need to sit. And also I tend to get pityed less when I say I faint vs when I say I have chronic pain (I normally end up having to explain the condition and that’s where most the pity comes from)

I’m not going to buy the French spray paint that is the closest color I was able to find to match the hex code (#bd4698) I was given by the website I used to find the color of the cup in the picture which I then googles to find the RGB (189 70 152) of and then spent over a half an hour searching https://color.matthewspaint.tools to find a name for the color but after searching for a while and not finding a RGB match I had to compromise on 285 Magenta Sigh which RGB is 189 45 127 and then scoured the Internet to find a website that has a paint in this color thats not a paint for your walls or just a color dictionary then when I found a website that sells it I had to find a medium I could use, was affordable and not an absurd amount of paint for my project all before I remember I could translate the website to English. All of this because I didn’t first think to just look at paints on the Michaels website and just compared them to the book cover and that I didn’t need to know the name of the color I could have just searched magenta acrylic paint 💔💔

everytime a shy, unassuming, weird and slightly off-putting girl starts curiously trying he/him pronouns, an angel gets its wings

This is me I fear but I never actually transitioned socially I’m just a fem who if u ask their pronouns will reply with he/they but I won’t ever correct anyone and will beg you to never use my correct pronouns around other people unless they are also queer or a trustworthy adult. My parents have no problem with my gender expression tho it does confuse them. My gender identity is just very confusing to people and they only if ever use my correct pronouns once after learning them before they forget.

As a fem he/him, I hope you get to a place where you can unabashedly assert your pronouns around your friends and loved ones without fear, and not care if it's confusing. That's not your problem. You deserve respect all the time, not just when you conditionally choose to make yourself palatable.

This means a lot to me thank you I really needed to hear this

everytime a shy, unassuming, weird and slightly off-putting girl starts curiously trying he/him pronouns, an angel gets its wings

This is me I fear but I never actually transitioned socially I’m just a fem who if u ask their pronouns will reply with he/they but I won’t ever correct anyone and will beg you to never use my correct pronouns around other people unless they are also queer or a trustworthy adult. My parents have no problem with my gender expression tho it does confuse them. My gender identity is just very confusing to people and they only if ever use my correct pronouns once after learning them before they forget.