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Kindness is a choice. Let's make it.

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sluttyquarantinetheory

The concept that married people live longer is interesting. I'm sure there is some merit to the idea that if you're married there is someone there to nag you about going to the doctor, but I think much larger factors are having the finances of dual incomes and access to an immediate support person.

Surgeries require having a designated person to look after you. Many injuries require driving to somewhere like an emergency room which can be hard to do if you are the one injured. If you're home with the flu, it's hard to tell when it's bad enough to go to the hospital without another person checking on you. And if you pass out it requires another person to find you like that to get medical aid.

You can prop it up as the benefits of marriage, but I think there's a much deeper discussion to be had about how we've built society around marriage as an inevitable conclusion and neglected to build support systems that function outside of romantic pairings.

sluttyquarantinetheory

thinking about this further, people often cite this as a sort of See It's Better To Be Married and mostly accept it as a fact that being married is better for you overall and proceed to breakdown why marriage leads to longer lives. Instead I think we need to be looking at why the system is failing single people and what we could do to close that gap. What structural societal changes can we make to help single people rather than treat it as a Well Obviously foregone conclusion that everyone will eventually pair up.

It's not Why Are Married People Healthier? It's Why Aren't Single People as Healthy? And then actually examine the causes rather than hand waving it away with whichever stereotype of being single or half remembered memory of the last time you were single in your early 20s.

soymoss

starling

This is my free bench from Riley (I hope you get the chance to learn how to braid <3) with most of the black stain/lacquer(?) sanded off.

I am entertaining the idea of hand painting designs on it and then just throwing a clear coat on there. I now have too many ideas for possibilities and no info as to what paints/clear coats might hold up...

#I could paint local fish #local plants #a whole eel #bugs (specifically beetles)#a crocodile #the list goes on #I have multi surface paints in fun colours rn but I don't think they'd hold up that well #least fun part of art projects is material research

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inbabylontheywept

Until death, all defeat is psychological.

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datasoong47

ot3

[looking myself in the mirror intensely] its okay to make an ugly drawing. its okay to make an ugly drawing. its okay to make an ugly drawing. its okay to even make several ugly drawings in a row. or on the same page next to each other perhaps in some sort of sequential art format

#Truly annoying how art will get better when you allow yourself to do it badly <3

She craves the roasting that potatoes get...

#got home from camping with enough time to tackle yard things #pichael helped dig a little hole but otherwise was asleep on the tarp #the deck #or inside on the couch by herself #turnpike #she has a truly rough life <3

and-fishing-equipment

in 2026 DO NOT ask yourself whether your art is GOOD

instead ask:

is it SINCERE

was it CATHARTIC

was it FUN TO MAKE

is it MADE BY ME

and don't forget to stay silly

redstonedust

funny thing about anxiety is sometimes it kind of breaks your sense of danger. like i am known for repeatedly putting myself in situations that make my friends go "bro you couldve died. werent you scared?" and the answer is 👍 yjeah. i did it scared. i do everything scared. i didnt know that was the actual important kind of scary because i usually have to ignore my fears to function in society. it will happen again. watch out.

#ooof

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jame7t

just because youre made of stardust & other gay shit doesnt mean that a bug isnt. be nice to a bug today

lucy-vanpelts

when someone calls me their friend my heart skips a beat it’s like i won at being myself

kosmogrl

Volunteer run organization is sorely lacking in people who know how to repair tools and the current plan is to try and recruit people's dads...

#I want this dad skill so bad #I got a free electric grass trimmer now that imma attempt to fix #it's a slippery slope #having a house + shed to put things in and now I have so many things

little-grey-dowitcher

So many people never learned to live with harmless discomfort at any point in their lives and holy fuck does it show

little-grey-dowitcher

“But I wanna know!” You’re gonna have to learn to be ok with not knowing some things, especially when those things involve personal details about strangers that they’re not comfortable sharing.

“But it’s confusing!” If you take the time to educate yourself it’ll no longer be confusing. Otherwise you’re just gonna have to learn to be ok with being confused.

“But it’s weird!” You probably do weird things all the time. Everyone does weird things sometimes. Life goes on.

“But it scares me!” Is it hurting you? No? You’ll be fine. Being scared and being harmed are not always the same thing. Learn to tell the difference and then act accordingly.

“But I want it!” And I want a million dollars. You can’t always get what you want.

little-grey-dowitcher

A lot of people were also never told “no” as children and the consequences of that manifest in similar ways. Learn to be ok with being told “no.” You’re not gonna die if you don’t get your way in every single situation ever.

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tlirsgender

"You know what's harder than Getting Better? Living Like That" is just the thesis for my whole shit going on right now honestly. You know what's harder than doing my physical therapy? Hurting All The Time. You know what's harder than addressing my gender dysphoria? Hurting All The Time

tlirsgender

I'm Doing The Hard Thing and it's *easier* than how I was living before. If you make yourself feel better you will have more energy to spend on Getting Better. Nice inch nails - the upward spiral. Crawl out of your grave Thursday

eroscestlavie

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

eroscestlavie

It’s like. People can tell if you don’t really like or connect with them. If you aren’t truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you don’t really like that person that much.

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