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i hate tumblr because everyone talks about how toxic it is and how you get mean anons but every time i post a controversial take people will just unfollow instead of yelling at me on anon -_- like guys i was a debate kid in high school i need the confrontation please

hey so have you guys ever self-sabotaged your own love life because you started to experience clinical levels of depression and anxiety for the first time in years because of your horrible living situation, long term sleep deprivation + cold exposure, and fake friendships with people who were also trying to sabotage said situation because they were jealous of you? or is this an original experience ❤️

wish i could be a normal person and get over my stupid fucking pointless feelings and go on dates or use hinge or whatever. that sure would be cool huh

almost a year post-breakup and now i really want to be in a relationship/situationship/literally anything. but i don't wanna go on the apps. and like it felt like i was so close to locking in with [redacted situation] but yeah idk 🤷🏻‍♀️

being a woman who spent 6 years in a very very male-dominated field and is now in a now more balanced but historically very male-dominated field is interesting... cuz like in my experience it has never been older male teachers or professors who are the problem! like actually all my old school male profs who aren't super hip/ involved in a ton of activism or anything have been the most encouraging of my career! genuinely the most i have ever felt like talked over or disrespected in a way that ~might~ have been gendered is in interactions with (a small minority of) male students who are my ageish and ostensibly "liberal" lol