Sharing The Wife

The Hotwife / Cuckold fantasy is one of the fastest growing fantasies out there.

More and more men are finding the thought of their wives and girlfriends sleeping with another man arousing for a large variety of reasons.

This post is not about why men want this or why women should do this. This post is about the respect your wife or girlfriend deserves, whether she decides to go along with your fantasy or not.

I see post after post from men asking how they can convince their significant other to have sex with other men, but you also need to know how to handle it if she doesn’t want to have sex with other men.

My wife knows about my fantasies and agrees that the idea is hot, but she has not agreed to act on the fantasy in real life. I love my wife and would never force her to do anything she is not comfortable with. So far my wife teases me about having a boyfriend and lovers, as well as some light MFM role play in the bedroom. While I hope that it goes father one day, I am okay if she stops here.

You can’t let this consume you or get in the way of your relationship. If you love and respect each other, then you have to also respect each other’s boundaries. Don’t get mad or upset id she says she only wants to be with you! What a great honor to have a woman who loves you so much that she is willing to forsake all others.

The bottom line is she is your wife or girlfriend, not a piece of meat for you to whore out.

Please love each other and share your journey together. No one should ever be forced to do something they might come to regret. They will resent you for it in the long run. That resentment will be a cancer in your relationship.

Always remember your guests in their relationship.

Always assume you going to be ask

to use protection

Never try and meet the female half alone without her husband’s consent

Be respectful at all times and try to fulfill their fantasies,a and needs.

If it’s obvious that the wife is only doing this for her husband and she is not comfortable you need to excuse yourself

Never expose a couple ,It’s not cool and t here lives are private just like yours are.

I never take pictures Any of the pictures I posted have been sent by the couple after and edited to protect there identify.

If a couple is not interested do not be offended. Just like you they have their preferences and attractions.

If you are in a relationship or married be honest with the couple.

If you arrange to meet the couple make sure that you keep that date.

There are so many hot picture captions/memes on Tumblr about hotwifing, cuckolding, the stag and vixen lifestyles, and all the other forms of alternative relationship arrangements we get out perverted and kinky selves into.

But you know what bothers me sometimes? 

How our perceptions and expectations about these arrangements can get skewed without us even recognizing it. 

Expectations for what it’s all like, what it should be like, how it happens, how often it happens, why it happens…all those expectations get influenced by the things we immerse ourselves in. 

This is especially the case for people who are new to the lifestyles or who are looking to get into the lifestyles.

Simply put, the eroticism and sexiness of hotwifing images/memes we see on Tumblr notwithstanding, they leave out some of the realities to it all. 

Sometimes though, it’s good to be reminded of the realities, and that’s what this post is all about. 

For example, you’ll never come across a picture like this…

…with a caption on it that says something like, “ “Honey I just got back from my date with another man, and he was a TERRIBLE kisser. I didn’t enjoy it at all.”

Or perhaps one like this…

Or how about one that conveys just how common it is to get all ready and excited for your first in-person meet, only to have the guy be a faker or flake…

We don’t see things like this because it’s not sexy to see or think about. We only reblog things that stoke our desires. And that’s normal for the most part. After all, sex isn’t the only thing that “sells”…SEXY does too. 

Don’t get me wrong though. I’m not saying the hotwifing lifestyle can’t be enjoyable or sexy or pleasurable beyond your wildest imagination, because it can. It can one of the most fulfilling journeys a couple can take together in their entire life. 

It just sometimes helps to be reminded every now and again that if it all doesn’t go down or happen like you read about in most online hotwifing stories or see in the hotwife pictures/memes,…DON’T WORRY…IT’S ALL NORMAL!

Nothing is wrong with you, or your partner, or your relationship, or your experience. You’re most likely not doing anything wrong. Navigating the lifestyle can be difficult and frustrating at times, and it comes with tons of challenges. 

So if at any point, you run into a challenge or a setback or have a negative experience along the way, remember that it comes with the territory and you shouldn’t fret too much about it. But most importantly…

Don’t be afraid to share your “negative” experiences with the online community! It can help you and it can help others to know that living out this lifestyle in reality is a bit different than living it out in fantasy. That’s why…