#wordsofadvice

You see, I will always be [s e e k i n g] RaeSmiles. The journey is never ending. That’s something I believe we all should accept. The goal is to become the best version of ourselves. However, the best version of ourselves can be quite different from the term ‘perfect’ -  a quality that humans lost shortly after birth. I think of the best version of myself as an ongoing decision. I focus on who I am going to be today. This is important.

 1. I cannot change who I was yesterday. 

2. I cannot predict the future. 

3. Today is the only time and place that is real and existing. 

To seek the best version of yourself is to step outside your  own world and to embrace the journey within. It also requires accepting that the journey is inevitable. Change is inevitable. You do not grow with knowledge of who you will be tomorrow or 10 years down the line. It just happens over time. So, slow your mind down. Don’t rush. Who you are tomorrow is based off of the decisions you make today. The only way those decisions can become clear is if you’re honest with yourself. 

Who are you going to be today?

Who do you want to be today?

Who do you need to be today?

Decide wisely and life will follow accordingly. 

Good Vibes & Happy Lives, 

Every chick flick should come with a disclaimer.

If humans were to love, we wouldn't have hate.

Wolves in sheep's clothing doesn't mean they love sheeps.

They want to eat them, control them, and do so with fear.

If we're turning off emotions, turn off guilt, shame, and fear for all those that don't merit it.

Speaking your truth? Unapologetically.

Dissing people out with facts? Be unbothered.

Doing something despite the fear? Be courageous in doing so.

The way to drag you down by triggered people is to make you see you the way their warped perception sees the world.

Ugly.

Have the eyes of the painter, the poet, and have yourself the muse.