I gave up on answering questions about my practice because, usually, people's "genuine" questions about how something i do in my practice works, turn into a "ha! Gotcha!" situations and arguments.
If you are going to ask questions about my practice just to tell me that "it doesn't work like that" when i reply to you, then don't. really, don't.
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when i sit down and really think about my practice i realize that for the most part, i practice witchcraft to improve myself. i think that as a whole, that should be the goal of most practitioners.Â
the open-endedness of witchcraft is really fascinating, especially with tumblr and how witches are able to catch glimpses of the practices of other witches. i know plenty of other witches use magic to manipulate the universe to benefit them, and i completely understand that appeal. witchcraft has and always been geared to empower people who feel they have little power, or to further strengthen the already strong.Â
but thatâs why i feel like my practice is almost explicitly used to improve myself. not just through spells to help me get along the way, but in the practice itself. i can motivate myself through witchcraft (e.g. if you get this important homework done, you can dick around with some magic!!) and through actually practicing, i can improve myself. studying/researching for my magic? improving my critical thinking and analysis skills. meditating/exercising/visualizing for a spell? improving my health or practices to take care of health. crafting things for my practice? encouraging creativity and imagination WHILE ALSO combatting my incessant fear of using things and actually forcing me to stop buying and start making.Â
i think itâs really important for witches to take a step back and think about why they practice, or what their practice can benefit. that way, a witch can better learn about what they want to do with their craft and tweak it to better appeal to them.Â
Iâve been thinking about making this post for quite some time - and of course, all that Iâm going to say is obvious and has been said dozens of times, but I want to make sure people who stumble upon this blog know my opinion on this.
talk about boundaries and abuse thereof, blood magic, drugs, and a lot of rambling about responsibility under the cut.
I have worked with many people throughout my journey - that means starting out as quite a naive witchling, hungry for acceptance and eager to please those who I thought had more knowledge, more power, more magic.
but it also means that for the past three years Iâve been working with people in the complete opposite position: as their mentor and as their guide. I see in their eyes what my elders must have seen in mine, and I swear on all things undead that I will never make the same mistakes and do the same terrible things.
I operate in often ritual-based regions of magic. I believe magic is wild, we are wild.
people come to me wanting to practice blood magic, to take part in blood and soul rituals. Celebrations that often involve nakedness, intimacy, alcohol, even drugs. I have been called many things for refusing certain people and not letting them join us: minors, most often, but also people I didnât trust - if I didnât trust them and feel comfortable around them, how could my friends?
this is first and foremost a responsibilty for your fellow witches, friends, those who partake in the ritual - or even in a simple meeting. you HAVE to carefully choose people you allow in, and you have to see where the boundaries and limits are - and you have to think about them all the time.
talk to people. ask a dozen times if their answers before were unsure, hesistant, unclear. sometimes saying yes takes time - but you have to know when they mean it. you have to see a difference between them agreeing to something because they want to please you or appear more mature/more ready/more magic-aware and because they are actually ready and willing to do certain things. sometimes people will want to do something, but they shouldnât. it is your responsibility to see that and act on it.
if during a ritual someone wants to stop - to leave the room, to sit down, to change into their regular clothes, to throw up, to go home - LET THEM and do not, for the love of gods, DO NOT MAKE THEM FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. do not ridicule them, do not say they messed up the spell or ruined the atmosphere. even more, assure them that itâs okay. stop the celebration to go and take care of them, call them a cab, call their friends. it is your responsibility.
the same goes for drugs - whether itâs weed, LSD, mushrooms, or other things (such as codeine or DXM for example) - no minors is an obvious rule, but so is no first-timers. if you want to guide someone through it for the first time, do so only with them - and do not take anything yourself. they are your responsibility - morally, spiritually, and often even in the light of the law. do not mix an experienced group with first-timers or second-timers. itâs a bad trip and a disappointing ritual at best and a great health and emotional risk at worst.
do not make people feel like they owe you something, like you expect this and that and nothing less from them. and treat no as a no. do not make them feel like theyâre unworthy because they didnât feel comfortable naked or in disguise, drunk or high, bleeding or in trance.
and to others: do not hesitate to say no. do not be afraid to refuse. your elders or guides or whomever - they are not superior, they are not worth it, they do not have any power over you.
this is something I repeat time and time again during meetings and celebrations with my friends: if youâre uncomfortable, tell me. if you donât like the idea, speak up - or send a message even during the meeting, signal it discretely if youâre ashamed or shy.
and when I ask, donât lie. be honest. if youâre not ready to do somethimg, itâs okay. nothing is necessary. refusing to do certain things does not make you any less of a witch - it makes you more of one.
do not let anyone convince you otherwise. if someone you look up to tries to make you believe this, run. just run. fuck them, theyâre not worth it. feel free to curse them at that.
This might be a hot take but i am really annoyed to see many popular witchcraft content creator stop doing cool, educational, random challenge or just dunnoo.... Fun videos regarding witchcraft and spirituality. Like, all i see is now these same youtubers making mundane vlogs and advertisements for their events. I saw a whole azz video Advertisement being masked as a "cool things to do for Samhain" , and when someone pointed out the blunt advertising, the creator replied SO passively. It seems like all that witchcraft youtube has fallen into is money making and lifestyle vlogging.
Disclaimer: since i know there will always be a few youtuber glazers that will try to denounce what i am saying lol, i just want to say: i am NOT naming names, not slandering a specific individual, and yes, i completely understand the feeling of burnout and blockage. So pleeeeeeeaaaaaase do not idolize those creators. Yes, they are your childhood, yes, they are nostalgic, but no, i am not hating on them. This is written as a constructive critique, and only that. Don't idolize, but have understanding.
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Hi guys! Welcome to my witchy youtube channel! Remember! You don't need fancy tools and altars to be a witch! You can be a witch with just your intention! And your altars can be simple... Anyways, here is my collection of toootally real (not resin) crystals from some small Etsy business (dropshipper), my pendulum from AliExpress, my 12 decks of offbrand tarot and oracle cards from Amazon, and my series of witchy books full of cultural appropriation! Also, my script and thumbnail are made by AI.
Basically some rando was telling everyone how itâs âimpossibleâ for a new witch to create a grimoire because âgrimoires are only for tried and true magicâ or whatever. âDonât you DARE use your grimoire like a journalâ. Real uppity shit. Like, what a lame outlook to have lmao. Imagine being elitist with what other witches do with their grimoires?? As if youâre ever gonna see them? LMAO. itâs so strange to me how people have so many rules for things that donât effect them in the slightest.
If youâre a new witch/baby witch (whatever you like to be called), and youâve seen that post or anything similar, block that person and keep doinâ you. No one can tell you what youâre capable of. And thereâs no right or wrong way to create a grimoire đ take it from someone whoâs been around the block, these kind of things arenât life and death in the grand scheme. They matter as much as you want to matter. Write yourself notes in your grimoire, edit it, change it, doodle! Sometimes witchcraft is trial and error, and if you want to record those trials and errors in your fancy book, go off.
this is the kind of shit that I loathe about these communities. I donât understand why but for whatever reason a LOT of people with incredibly huge and equally fragile egos seem to be attracted to these spiritual communities. People really just be sayin the most asinine shit and other people take it as fact for some reason. Instead of giving good constructive advice for how to start a grimoire, they just turn on the snobbery and try to make people feel bad about their practice.
Its also fine to have opinions and pet peeves, but again, this doesnât affect you lmao. And to go about it in such a high-and-mighty way is so fucking gross honestly. Just say youâre insecure and/or boring and go.
I am enraged at my native language once again. This language reminds me every single day why I love English so much.
IN MY NATIVE LANGUAGE ALL THE SABBATS DO NOT HAVE A PROPER TRANSLATION. And I don't mean a proper translation as in, you just say Litha or Samhain or Yule or anything.
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The translations are literally all Christian events. Yule in my native language quite literally translates to Christmas, and because of how fkn complex our language is I cannot make up my own word because it wouldn't be possible to connect it to other words in a sentence. And while Yule isn't as bad, Samhain.
Samhain isn't even halloween. No. Because apparently in my country halloween is bad and satanic too (actually no idea if other countries have it like that too so meh). So it quite literally translates into "a celtic event". An event.
Litha pretty much the same as Samhain, Ostara Easter etc.